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Deborah Tannen is the bestselling author of "The Argument Culture", "Talking from 9 to 5", "That's Not What I Meant", & "You Just Don't Understand", which was on "The New York Times" bestseller list for nearly four years, including eight months as number one. She is a professor at Georgetown show more University, in Washington D.C. "I Only Say This Because I Love You" is her seventeenth book. Her latest book is entitled, "You Were Always Mom's Favorite: Sisters in Conversation Throughout Their Lives." (Publisher Provided) show less
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Works by Deborah Tannen

That's Not What I Meant! (1986) 811 copies
Talking From 9 to 5 (1994) 660 copies
Gender and Discourse (1994) 166 copies
The Handbook of Discourse Analysis (2001) — Editor — 68 copies
Framing in Discourse (1993) 21 copies
Perspectives on Silence (1985) 8 copies
Lilika Nakos (1983) 2 copies
What!? 1 copy

Associated Works

What’s Language Got to Do with It? (2005) — Contributor — 51 copies
A Virago Keepsake to Celebrate Twenty Years of Publishing (1993) — Contributor — 48 copies
An Introduction to Language and Linguistics (2006) — Contributor — 39 copies

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Canonical name
Tannen, Deborah
Legal name
Tannen, Deborah Frances
Birthdate
1945-06-07
Gender
female
Nationality
USA
Birthplace
Brooklyn, New York, USA
Places of residence
Washington DC, USA
Education
Harpur College (BA | 1966)
Wayne State University (MA | 1970)
University of California, Berkeley (MA | 1976 | PhD | 1979 | Linguistics)
Occupations
Professor of Linguistics
linguist
behavioral scientist
author
editor
Relationships
Macovski, Michael (husband)
Organizations
Georgetown University
PEN/Faulkner Foundation (Board of Directors)
Awards and honors
Fellow, Linguistics Society of America (2013)
Short biography
Deborah Tannen is one of a small number in Georgetown University's College of Arts and Sciences who hold the distinguished rank of University Professor; she is also Professor of Linguistics. The author of many books and articles about how the language of everyday conversation affects relationships, Prof. Tannen is best known for "You Just Don't Understand: Women and Men in Conversation," which was on the New York Times best seller list for nearly four years, including eight months as No. 1, and has been translated into 31 languages. She has been McGraw Distinguished Lecturer at Princeton University and was a fellow at the Center for Advanced Study in the Behavioral Sciences in Stanford, California, following a term in residence at the Institute for Advanced Study in Princeton, NJ. In addition to her writing for general audiences, Prof. Tannen is author or editor of many books and over 100 hundred articles for scholarly audiences. She has also published poems, short stories, personal essays, and plays.

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This bestselling classic work draws upon groundbreaking research by an acclaimed sociolinguist to show that women and men live in different worlds, made of different words. Women and men live in different worlds...made of different words. Spending nearly four years on the New York Times bestseller list, including eight months at number one, You Just Don't Understand is a true cultural and intellectual phenomenon.
 
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PendleHillLibrary | 29 other reviews | Apr 11, 2024 |
this bestselling classic work draws upon groundbreaking research by an acclaimed sociolinguist to show that women and men live in different worlds, made of different words. Women and men live in different worlds...made of different words. Spending nearly four years on the New York Times bestseller list, including eight months at number one, You Just Don't Understand is a true cultural and intellectual phenomenon.
 
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PendleHillLibrary | Apr 11, 2024 |
As a librarian, I had seen this classic around for years. After listening to the Freakonomics book club podcast with the author, I finally decided to read it.

A lot of the research and findings that Deborah Tannen has accomplished in her career stems from this book that is now 30 years old. In that time, her findings have been absorbed into our culture through media, but some has been inaccurate. If possible, get a newer edition that includes the afterward. Well worth the read.
 
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wvlibrarydude | 29 other reviews | Jan 14, 2024 |
I read this a few years ago so can only go on a note made at the time that 'I think she has some good insights, but does go on a bit'.
 
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36
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5,839
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Rating
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Reviews
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ISBNs
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