Urban Fantasy is a new sub genre for me, and one that I'm really enjoying. My favorites have an element of romance in them without any graphic sex scenes. I started off with the Rachel Morgan series but gave them up because of the Rachel/Ivy relationship. I also enjoyed the Anita Blake books (the first 5 at any rate). I'd love to find another good series along those lines. Any recommendations?

These are a few I've tried:
Any Given Doomsday (The Phoenix Chronicles)(* this was awful)
Touch the Dark (Cassandra Palmer, Book 1) (*1/2 too much plot & one unending sex scene)
Sunshine (***1/2 really interesting world, a bit sexy at the end)
Dead Until Dark (Southern Vampire Mysteries, Book 1)(**1/2)

Patricia Briggs' Mercy Thompson series is pretty good. I really liked Rachel Vincent's Werecat series, but there's a couple graphic scenes in there.

Moon Called by Patricia Briggs
Stray by Rachel Vincent

The Dresden Files by Jim Butcher is good. Strong plot, action, little sex. some romance.

Cal Leandros series by Rob Thurman. later books have more romance. no sex is described.

Nightside series by Simon R. Green. action, but little romance.

Kate Daniels series by Ilona Andrews. romance, action. little sex.

Connor Grey series by Mark Del Franco

Weather Warden series by Rachel Caine

Dog Days by John Levitt