Hide this

Results from Google Books

Click on a thumbnail to go to Google Books.

The Best of Me by Nicholas Sparks

The Best of Me (original 2011; edition 2011)

by Nicholas Sparks

MembersReviewsPopularityAverage ratingMentions
1,258556,290 (3.58)11
Title:The Best of Me
Authors:Nicholas Sparks
Info:Grand Central Publishing (2012), Edition: Reprint, Paperback, 320 pages
Tags:P12, Sparks, Nicholas, romance, love, death, compassoin, loss, family, friends, desire

Work details

The Best of Me by Nicholas Sparks (2011)



Sign up for LibraryThing to find out whether you'll like this book.

No current Talk conversations about this book.

» See also 11 mentions

English (53)  Catalan (1)  Dutch (1)  All languages (55)
Showing 1-5 of 53 (next | show all)
Hm, not my most favorite Nicholas Sparks novel, luckily it was borrowed from a friend. It was an easy read as a "filler" book in between a LONG series I'm currently reading. Plot was ok, nothing all that original, I breezed through the first 3/4 of the book but by the last 1/4 I was really struggling to finish. ( )
  TheKnittedSheep | Oct 5, 2015 |
Touchingly sad for the unfairness of life for some people. ( )
  moonfleur | May 23, 2015 |
First of all, WTF Nicholas Sparks?! What is wrong with you? I’m going to go ahead and apologize now for this review because I’m still genuinely pissed off about how this book played out.

Dawson Cole was an amazing character. Heck, I wanted to date him. He was a sweetheart that got stuck with an awful family. I felt bad for him, but that happens. It really just made me like him more. Amanda was a different story. I liked her when they were in high school, but as an adult I wanted to slap her into next week. If there’s one thing that immediately pisses me off in a book, it’s when a character can’t make an effing decision. It gets to the point where I don’t even care what they decide to do, just stop going back and forth! I actually gave myself a headache because I was gritting my teeth so hard for the last 4 chapters.

The plot was okay. I was pretty much fine with how things were playing out (even if I didn’t agree) until about chapter 20-21. It wasn’t the most original plot, but that wasn’t what I had a problem with. I absolutely hated everything that happened after the funeral. As in, I hated it so much that my heart was pounding and I could feel my body’s physical anger response (which is not something that generally happens with books, TV, or movies).

I’ve read a few Nicholas Sparks books in the past and they were pretty good. There are realistic parts to all of them (a ring of truth), but there’s always some sort of twist that puts it back into fiction. What I enjoyed most was that no matter what happened, there’s a happy ending where love is concerned. I felt completely cheated with The Best of Me (I’m dying trying not to spoil anything). My Mom and I read The Best of Me together. She didn’t have the same issues and was quick to point out that there was actually a happy ending, which just made me angrier.

I personally did not like The Best of Me because I took issue with the story itself. Since I didn’t like it, I wouldn’t recommend it. If I knew a huge Nicholas Sparks fan, I would probably ask if they’d read The Best of Me, but that’s not a recommendation.

For more reviews, check out http://reviewsinapinch.com/ today! ( )
  ReviewsInAPinch | May 22, 2015 |
Sandy A. loaned to me. Romance. ( )
  trudychar | Mar 18, 2015 |
Showing 1-5 of 53 (next | show all)
no reviews | add a review
You must log in to edit Common Knowledge data.
For more help see the Common Knowledge help page.
Series (with order)
Canonical title
Original title
Alternative titles
Original publication date
Important places
Important events
Related movies
Awards and honors
First words
For Dawson Cole, the halluciations began after the explosion on the platform, on the day he should have died.
Last words
Disambiguation notice
Publisher's editors
Publisher series
Original language

References to this work on external resources.

Wikipedia in English


Book description
Neither of the two small-town former high school sweethearts has lived the kind of life they imagined and although they are now middle-aged, neither has forgotten the passionate first love that altered their world. When they return to their hometown for the funeral of a mentor, they're forced to confront the choices they made and ask whether love can truly rewrite the past.
They were teenage sweethearts from opposite sides of the tracks - with a passion that would change their lives for ever. But life would force them apart.
Years later. the lines they had drawn between past and present are about to slip.... Called back to their hometown for the funeral of the mentor who once gave them shelter when the needed it most, they are faced with each other again, and forced to confront the paths they chose. Can true love ever rewrite the past?
Haiku summary

Amazon.com Amazon.com Review (ISBN 0446547654, Hardcover)

A Q&A with Author Nicholas Sparks

Q: What was your inspiration for writing The Best of Me?

A: I suppose the inspiration was two-fold. It had been a long time since I’d done a “reunion” story (like The Notebook) so it was time to do another. At the same time, I wanted it to be different than The Notebook in almost every way. At the same time, I wanted to write a novel about characters in their forties. At that age, people are coming to terms with the decisions and choices they’ve made in the past. The Best of Me was essentially a combination of those two ideas.

Q: This book deals with falling in love for the first time and how sometimes that love is so strong it can cross the span of time and space no matter what happens. Is that something you believe in?

A: Yes, I believe it’s possible. First love is always powerful, and for some people, that love really does last forever. The problem with that, however, is that over time, the love often becomes romanticized. I wanted to write a novel that explored that concept as well. Neither Dawson nor Amanda are the same people they’d been when they were younger, and little by little, that romanticism diminishes over the course of the story. For them, however, the new reality nonetheless left them feeling the same way about each other as they once had. And yet, they fell in love once more. Or maybe, phrasing it differently, they never fell out of love in the first place.

Q: Former high school sweethearts Amanda Collier and Dawson Cole reconnect after 25 years when their mentor, Tuck Hostetler, dies and they are summoned back to Oriental, North Carolina for his funeral. One of things that drove Amanda and Dawson apart was that they were from the opposite side of the tracks. Are class differences still a part of everyday life in a town like Oriental, North Carolina?

A: Class differences aren’t as powerful as they once were, but they’re still prevalent. I don’t know, however, if it’s limited to places like Oriental, and nor do I see it as entirely and without question a terrible thing. People who intend to spend their lives together should have things in common, and like it or not, class is, and always has been, part of that, because it shapes the people that we are.

With Amanda and Dawson--and many others in the real world, of course--the class differences were less important than their similarities. Neither one of them got along with their parents, both were intelligent, both had dreams, and over the years, both of them had disappointments.

Q: Today, we can easily reconnect with people from our past via Facebook and other social networking sites. How often do you think people try to find their first love on these sites?

A: It’s very common. I know people who’ve reconnected with someone from their past then later married them, but that’s probably less common than simply reaching out via social media to an old boyfriend or girlfriend simply to find out what’s been going on in their lives. I can understand the draw: First love is powerful because it’s a first, and it’s almost impossible to forget.

Q: At the point when Amanda and Dawson reconnect, Amanda has been married almost twenty years and it’s clear she is having problems in her marriage. Having been married for 22 years yourself, what would you say is the key to a successful marriage?

A: For every couple, it’s different, because every couple faces different challenges, and every person has differing abilities when it comes to meeting those challenges. The key to any successful marriage is to realize that the commitment you once made to each other is the most important aspect to keep in mind. That simple truth, if truly felt, should be enough to make you realize that you can’t put that commitment at risk. If your partner feels the same way, he or she wouldn’t put that commitment at risk either.

At the same time, it’s important to understand that all marriages have challenging periods. No one is perfect, after all. But if the commitment to each other--which sometimes requires a commitment to change--is truly felt, then most likely, that marriage will be successful.

Q: This book has a large, spiritual component to it. Tuck sees Clara, his dead wife, and Dawson sees a man in a blue windbreaker, although he is not sure who he is and the reader does not find out until the end. Do you believe in ghosts?

A: I think I do. I had an experience much like the one Dawson described: at times, I could see unexplainable movement from the corners of my eyes. Quick, instantaneous movements that vanished before I could turn my head. If you talk to the owners of the house where those events occurred, they will swear it was a ghost. Other events occurred in that house as well before the “ghost”--or whatever it was--was finally exorcised from the premises. But that’s a longer story for another time.

Q: There is an absolutely stunning scene that unfolds when Amanda and Dawson go to Tuck’s country cottage for the first time. It’s very reminiscent of a scene that happens in The Notebook. Would you say this book, which examines young love versus middle age love, is the book closest in sentiment to The Notebook?

A: Without question, this is closest in sentiment--at least through the majority of the story – when compared to The Notebook. I wanted to do exactly that. At the same time, I wanted to make everything else about the story completely different as well, and I’m hopeful I did that as well.

Q: Tuck writes letters to Amanda and Dawson to be read after he is dead. They are wise and beautifully written. In this day and age of constant, electronic overload, do you lament the lost art of letter writing?

A: I do. I love letters as opposed to e-mail. But I’m old-fashioned that way.

Q: Warner Bros. has already bought the film rights to The Best of Me. You will be a producer on this film along with Denise DiNovi. How often is an author also a producer for the movie version of a book he/she has written? Is this unprecedented?

A: I’m sure other authors have served as a producer of their work; some have even directed. But it was somewhat unprecedented for Warner to agree to that – and purchase the novel--before I’d written a single page.

Q: Of all the movies based on your novels, which is your favorite?

A: I’ve been fortunate in that all the movies have been well-done and all have been successful, so I don’t have a personal favorite. I can say, however, is that, at the current time, The Notebook seems most likely to become a classic.

Photo by Nina Subin

(retrieved from Amazon Thu, 12 Mar 2015 18:12:13 -0400)

(see all 4 descriptions)

Two former high school sweethearts return to their hometown for the funeral of a mentor and confront the choices they have made since they last met.

(summary from another edition)

» see all 7 descriptions

Quick Links

Popular covers


Average: (3.58)
1 6
1.5 3
2 26
2.5 6
3 78
3.5 18
4 90
4.5 3
5 53


3 editions of this book were published by Audible.com.

See editions

Is this you?

Become a LibraryThing Author.


Help/FAQs | About | Privacy/Terms | Blog | Store | Contact | LibraryThing.com | APIs | WikiThing | Common Knowledge | Legacy Libraries | Early Reviewers | 99,784,285 books! | Top bar: Always visible