The Kissing List (edition 2012)

Told in an anecdotal, non-linear style, which I quite like.

Some chapters were more connected and memorable than others, but overall I quite enjoyed it. ( )

While there were elements of this book I liked, I didn't end up liking the product as much as I thought I would. The book is comprised of a series of short stories with connected characters. The stories vary in quality and tone. The first one is absolutely ridiculous. Thankfully, they do get better. Still, this seems like a book that doesn't know what it wants to be. The presentation and several of the stories suggest that this is supposed to be chick lit, but the themes and experiences of the characters are better suited to literary fiction. I think that if this author would focus her attentions on literary fiction and not try to stuff her work into a chick-lit box that it would be more successful. ( )

These interconnected stories, centered around American friends who met Oxford University, then returned to New York to figure out adulthood, hit very close to home for me. I found myself underling passage after passage that I related to completely. While some stories were stronger than others, this is a very good collection for those of us still navigating some of life's big decisions (careers, marriage, etc.). Or as it was recommended to me, these are "smart girl stories." ( )

The basics: The Kissing List is the debut short story collection by Stephanie Reents. Some of the stories are linked.

My thoughts: The first story in the collection "Kissing," sets the stage for the rest of the book. Reents and the female narrators of her stories are young, brazen, fun and wise: "The funny thing about being in your early twenties is that it's a lot like being any other age, except you don't know it." I have a notoriously hard time reviewing short story collections as a whole, and The Kissing List is perhaps the hardest type to review because its stories aren't as linked as I'd hoped and aren't all centered around a common place or theme. They're a schizophrenic group, and while I adored some, there were some I didn't like at all and many fell somewhere between those two extremes.

What is present across all the stories is the quality of Reents' writing. When I didn't like stories, it was sometimes due to plot and sometimes due to character(s). Still, I admire Reents for taking some bold chances. They didn't always work for me, but they were adventurousness in scope, narrative and theme, and I like those traits, particularly in young writers. Reents isn't afraid of taking chances, and I'll eagerly await whatever Reents writes next.

Favorite passage: "If you think too hard about the grammar of talking, it can fill you with despair."

The verdict: While a few stories stood out in this collection, too many fell flat for me. Despite the unevenness of this collection, it made me a fan of Stephanie Reents, and I'll be eagerly awaiting what she writes next. ( )

I really thought I would like this book when I read the "blurb" for it...
but to me, it was like a dream you have and when you wake up you are not sure
what happened, where you are or what you were just dreaming of, slightly confusing and foggy
so, I must kiss this one goodbye…:(
As the saying goes, “to every reader her book, every book its reader”
And for this reader, this was just not my kind of book ( )