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Tiny Beautiful Things: Advice on Love and Life from Dear Sugar (original 2012; edition 2012)

by Cheryl Strayed

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Title:Tiny Beautiful Things: Advice on Love and Life from Dear Sugar
Authors:Cheryl Strayed
Info:Vintage (2012), Edition: Original, Paperback, 368 pages
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Readers who have not already read the columns will like the book much more. They were great to read again, and Strayed is a tremendous writer. ( )
  aliceoddcabinet | Jul 25, 2015 |
Strayed does very well when it comes to problems that touch on her own experience (mainly grief and loss). However, she's very weak when it comes to pretty much every other issue. She also has this repugnant viewpoint about how the loss of her mother made her a better person, which is, of course, fine for her, but brought up in response to other people's raw loss, is insensitive to the point of utter stupidity. Her other advice/whatever is lacklustre, and mostly revolves around herself.

Also she's incredibly patronising. "Sweet pea", "honey bun" - oh, fuck off. ( )
  humblewomble | Jul 14, 2015 |
In this collection of Dear Sugar's columns, there is an artful brilliance to Strayed's insight and answers to some of life's most difficult questions. Sugar's straightforward responses at times are shocking b/c as a society we don't typically call people on there s*** the way she does but she does so lovingly, sweet pea. She forces us to go along with her on this journey of reflection and discovery; the reader explores how to love when we are vulnerable, how to find the good in others and ourselves, how to forgive, how to remember what is important, how to have true and honest intimacy (the only kind really) with those we love, and how to find our footing in this complicated, scary world. Tiny Beautiful Things is aptly named as each column, regardless of the question and topic, is a gem that will resonate in some way with you. If I had the money, I would send a copy to everyone I love. ( )
  Handwritten | Mar 29, 2015 |
I was a bit wary of this book when I first heard about it. It’s a collection of advice columns about life and love, and I couldn’t think of why I needed to read someone else's advice about someone else's problems. But as I began to dig in to each letter I quickly realized that you don't read the book for Sugar’s advice. You read it because she manages to share intimate parts of her own life in a way that makes you feel connected to the entire human race in all its beautiful fallible glory.

She is so honest and vulnerable in these columns. She uses examples from your own life to advise people on each of their issues. You don't have to be able to relate to her experience for these letters to touch you. They reach beyond the boundaries of what small sliver of the world each of us have seen. They get at the center of things, the piece of our hearts that drives us and scares us. She writes about losing love, being lonely, being brave, and being willing to do the right thing in the right moment even if it terrifies you. Often the thing she talks about our painful to read. There are people all over this world experiencing heartbreak in different ways and she never shies away from tough issues.

I was completely blown away by her ability to expose herself to these strangers. By letting herself be so vulnerable even her harshest advice has a tender feel. I admired her ability to speak truth to people. Even if the answer isn’t what they might want to hear, she still told it like she saw it.

Honestly, I wish I’d read this book before reading Wild. I was turned off at first in that book because it felt like she was using her mother’s death as an excuse for her bad behavior. It won me over in the end, but I think if I’d gotten to this one first I would have understood her better. She’s very honest and open about her failings and struggles and that’s incredibly rare.

BOTTOM LINE: Loved it. You don’t have to agree with all or any of her advice, just treat the whole book as a unique memoir. Strayed personal history is woven into every single reply to a letter. She bares her soul to her readers to help them deal with their own issues and the result is beautiful.

A Few Notes:
There are a couple times where she reads more than one letter in a row and then answers all of them at one time. The first time she did this I thought I missed something because I was listening, not reading a hard copy. I was worried that the chapter had skipped ahead of something, so just a heads up.

I listened to an audio version and tried to just listen to a few at a time. I do think they have a bigger impact that way and they are pretty intense. ( )
  bookworm12 | Feb 2, 2015 |
Many, many people recommended this as the best read they'd had in a while. As a fan of Dear Sugar on The Rumpus, I expected to enjoy it, and I did. But...a book full of Dear Sugar was a bit much, I'm afraid. Strayed is like that very earnest friend we all have, the one who likes to lean way over the table and have serious, heartfelt conversations about the meaning of life or the environment. I like that friend, and I like getting together with her occasionally, but I don't want to be her roommate. Reading an entire book of Dear Sugar was like living with that friend.

It seems the ideal way to read this would be to buy it, put it on the shelf, and open it to random questions whenever you need a boost. ( )
  CherieDooryard | Jan 20, 2015 |
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"Tiny Beautiful Things" brings the best of Cheryl Strayed's published and never-before-published online columns in one place and includes a new introduction by Steve Almond.

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