Hide this

Results from Google Books

Click on a thumbnail to go to Google Books.

Daddy Needs a Drink: An Irreverent Look at…

Daddy Needs a Drink: An Irreverent Look at Parenting from a Dad Who Truly…

by Robert Wilder

MembersReviewsPopularityAverage ratingMentions
776156,384 (3.8)5



Sign up for LibraryThing to find out whether you'll like this book.

No current Talk conversations about this book.

» See also 5 mentions

Showing 1-5 of 6 (next | show all)
This is a hilarious collection of narrative essays by a new father. Robert Wilder has such a great voice, and his blunt disclosure is wildly entertaining.

Great for a quick read or a cover-to-cover read through! ( )
  frozenplums | May 2, 2013 |
A collection of memoirs about parenting that sometimes made me laugh out loud. I especially liked the story about his trying to change his little girl in a Macaroni Grill restaurant, so much so that I had to show it to my husband, because it reminded me of a situation he had with our little daughter Aubrey.

It's funny - before I was a parent, I wouldn't have thought much about picking this book up and reading it. In fact, I probably would not have appreciated the humor as much. But once you have a child, everything in your world changes, and it's nice to read stories from other parents that show you're not alone in this crazy, upside-down place. It's comforting to know that others are just as befuddled as you are.

The other aspect of this book that I liked was Wilder's obvious love and adoration for his family. Even though he is writing about the crazy and strange and unsettling moments of familydom, it's clear that he will do just about anything for his wife and kids. Yet he isn't sappy about it. (Warning - he can be vulgar or risque, though.) A very genuine and heartfelt memoir about the absurdities of parenting. I highly recommend this as a nice escape for parents, and anyone who wants to know what the more hilarious side of parenting is like. ( )
  nmhale | Aug 13, 2010 |
I literally laughed out loud numerous times while reading this book. Any parent whose children have embarassed them or made them want to kick another adult's butt should read this book. So fun. ( )
  bookwormteri | Jul 22, 2010 |
This book is frustratingly dual personality. First, let's get the mechanics out of the way. As you would expect from an English teacher with an MFA, the book is well-written. It is, at times, a howlingly good time. Wilder finds moments all parents can recognize and then uses HGH (Humor Growth Hormone) to blow them to the extremes. There is a story of his father getting angry about Wilder not disciplining his son properly that rings true in the generation gap of parenting, with the grandfather ending up sticking his lower lip out and pouting on the couch.

So why three stars? Wilder tries to pull off the Dave Barry/Paul Reiser/Bill Cosby schtick but just can't pull it off. There are too many offsetting moments where arrogance pokes its head through and the attitude of "I'm better than these people" is there. Combined with an anarchic book structure that doesn't readily follow either timeline or subject, it makes for moments of pure hilarity followed by the puzzlement of "Why is this here" to, "What a jerk." Normally all within 10 pages of each other.

A good library check out. ( )
1 vote whjensen | Aug 13, 2008 |
10.07 ( )
  aletheia21 | Oct 10, 2007 |
Showing 1-5 of 6 (next | show all)
no reviews | add a review
You must log in to edit Common Knowledge data.
For more help see the Common Knowledge help page.
Series (with order)
Canonical title
Original title
Alternative titles
Original publication date
Important places
Important events
Related movies
Awards and honors
First words
Last words
Disambiguation notice
Publisher's editors
Publisher series
Original language

References to this work on external resources.

Wikipedia in English


Book description
Haiku summary

Amazon.com Product Description (ISBN 0385339267, Paperback)

A Santa Fe dad shares heartwarming, comic, often ludicrous tales of raising a family in this laugh-out-loud book perfect for anyone who enjoys the edgy humor of David Sedaris or the whimsical commentary of Dave Barry. Waxing both profound and profane on issues close to a father’s heart—from exploding diapers to toddler tantrums, from the horrors of dressing up as Frosty the Snowman to the moments that make a father proud—Robert Wilder brilliantly captures the joys and absurdities of being a parent today.

With an artist wife and two kids—a daughter, Poppy, and a son, London—Robert Wilder considers himself as open-minded as the next man. Yet even he finds himself parentally challenged when his toddler son, London, careens around the house in the buff or asks the kind of outrageous, embarrassing questions only a kid can ask. A high school teacher who sometimes refers to himself jokingly as Mister Mom (when his wife, Lala, is busy in her studio), Wilder shares warmly funny stories on everything from sleep deprivation to why school-sponsored charities can turn otherwise sane adults into blithering and begging idiots.

Whether trying to conjure up the perfect baby name (“Poppy” came to his wife’s mother in a dream) or hiring a Baby Whisperer to get some much-needed sleep, Wilder offers priceless life lessons on discipline, potty training, even phallic fiddling (courtesy of young London). He describes the perils of learning to live monodextrously (doing everything with one hand while carrying your child around with the other) and the joys of watching his daughter morph into a graceful, wise, unique little person right before his eyes.

By turns tender, irreverent, and hysterically funny, Daddy Needs a Drink is a hilarious and poignant tribute to his family by a man who truly loves being a father.

From the Hardcover edition.

(retrieved from Amazon Thu, 12 Mar 2015 18:16:13 -0400)

(see all 2 descriptions)

A compilation of essays takes an irreverent look at the art of parenting from a father's point of view, chronicling the realities of sleep and cocktail deprivation, children's bizarre obsessions, and other unique challenges and joys of parenthood.

Quick Links

Swap Ebooks Audio
6 avail.
19 wanted
1 pay

Popular covers


Average: (3.8)
3 7
3.5 2
4 10
4.5 1
5 3

Is this you?

Become a LibraryThing Author.


Help/FAQs | About | Privacy/Terms | Blog | Store | Contact | LibraryThing.com | APIs | WikiThing | Common Knowledge | Legacy Libraries | Early Reviewers | 105,908,569 books! | Top bar: Always visible