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Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism by Philip Miller
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Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of…

by Philip Miller

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Mystic Rose Books (1988), Edition: 1st ed, Paperback

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While a good introduction on the surface, this book is pretty basic and doesn't go into detail as much as I would like. There are many, many pictures, which for some may be a plus but for me just takes away from the informational parts. ( )
  Heather19 | Jul 24, 2007 |
Interesting introduction to the sport. ;)

(Perhaps a bit less informative than I might have liked.) ( )
  ndbecks | Jul 18, 2007 |
If you are looking for a "how-to" book on s&m, this is your best bet. ( )
  Arctic-Stranger | Apr 23, 2007 |
This is an introduction to bondage and discipline for neophytes. As authors and practitioners, Miller and Devon provide the Dom/sub perspectives in an alternating light and serious discussion. In short, pithy paragraphs within 13 chapters, organization is progressive. The authors begin with a rudimentary explanation, overview and examination of the psychology of bondage and discipline, then a strong emphasis on finding and maintaining relationships, followed by several chapters on descriptions and admonitions on an extended variety of activities, "the eroticism of pain and humiliation," and a last chapter guide to "toys" and dungeons. Appendices provide information on support groups and organizations, Websites and stores, suggested periodicals and readings and a concluding statement on domestic violence from the National Leather Association. Access to the text is well supported by descriptive Table of Contents, a glossary and a very good index.

This title is on kinky sex only to the extent that such activities are included in b&d. And, how could it not be? But, it should not be approached as a book simply on sexual activities. Perhaps, a look at sensual activities is closer to the authors' intent.

Photos and drawings are tasteful, pertinent and located exactly where they are needed. The photographs are in black and white. Reproduction is good enough to get an idea "what it is" or "what's going on." Most of the time. At 8 1/2" x 11" the book is printed in clear and very readable type.

With the deep penetration of the Internet, much of what is included in the book can be found on the Web. To find it all in one place, so well presented and with a thoughtful balance might still be beyond the capacity of a BDSM Wikipedia. Miller and Devon might consider a 2nd edition. ( )
3 vote Mastersir | Jan 25, 2007 |
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Philip Miller and Molly Devon think that S/M is fun, and "that reading about it should be fun, too." Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns is definitely fun, not to mention approachable, chatty, and insightful. What makes it truly special, however, is the sheer weight of loving details. There's clear explanations and detailed tutorials for beginners, as general as "safe, sane, and consensual" and as specific as "you will be swinging the whip with your arm pivoting at the shoulder." There's also solid advice, safety measures, steamy suggestions, plenty of black-and-white photographs, useful and humorous drawings, an extensive glossary, and over 900 entries of S/M clothing and equipment vendors, publications, computer bulletin boards, and organizations worldwide. As sadomasochism is a practice that's still taboo for many people, the chapter on finding partners and sharing your fantasies with existing partners can be invaluable.

Screw the Roses enthusiastically covers all the basics and even some of the not-so-basics--bondage, negotiation, sex, endorphins, dominance and submission, toys, safety, S/M community, and beyond. It's written primarily from the point of view of male dominant/female submissive interactions, but it's easily translatable into valuable advice for any relationship configuration. Miller and Devon's explanations of not just the how, but also the why, of sadomasochism are honest, sexy, funny--and a must-have for anyone who wants to learn about sadism, masochism, dominance, submission, or bondage. --Cheryl Trooskin

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