My Forbidden Face (2001)

This book took me 3 days to read and this is such a thin little book. I did think it was interesting, the life of the people of Afghanistan, but it wasn't like, i want to know more, I cannot stop reading. To be honest this book was a bit of a bore. There are much better accounts like this one. I do think it was okay though. Glad that I was able to read. 7.5 out of 10 ( )

My Forbidden Face is an autobiographical account of a teenage girl's life in Afghanistan through the 1990s up to 2001. It is a candid description of the realities of life under an oppressive regime as 'Latifa' comes to terms with the horrendous abuses of the most repressive of belief systems. The Taliban's anti-woman belief system is abhorrent and in some ways is worse than other forms of discrimination because it seeks to crush the hopes and aspirations of an entire gender. Latifa's experience of this horrendous system is in the intrusion into a very real world of a teenager who is not so very different from teenage girls elsewhere on the planet.

Latifa is a middle class girl in a society that has crumbled. She has the rare privilege of two well educated and intelligent parents who both support her upbringing. Afghanistan is mostly not this story. Latifa's setting brings out both the strength and the weakness of her tale. She is very normal and her appreciation for Bollywood and Hollywood stars and her teenage drive to find her place in the world can be related to by pretty much anyone. However, her story is not the story of Afghanistan. It is not the story of the provinces of Kandahar or of Hilmand.

What Latifa has produced is a worthy addition to the cataloguing of the crimes perpetrated by the Taliban. Prior to 9/11 it was a catalogue seemingly overlooked by most of the world. However, those who had not paid attention to the over 2 decades of seemingly perpetual war since the 1979 Soviet invasion cannot in the last ten years have failed to notice what a terrible regime the Taliban were and are. In 2001 Latifa's story was quite possibly an untold one as few may have known of the plight that befell Afghanistan. A decade later, Latifa's story is just one of so many personal tales of that country which still does not know peace.

The lack of peace is brought home immediately by Latifa's account. Her tale begins with the killing of Prime Minister Najibullah in 1996. That death marked the assumption of power by the Taliban backed by Pakistan and by the wealth of Osama bin Laden. It is a somewhat harrowing opening, Latifa's world is changed and the brutality of the new conquerors is evident right from the start. Latifa sets that brutality against the normalcy of her family life - her kind father, her determined mother, and her very different siblings who take different paths to eventually scatter far from one another.

The descriptions of the different ethnic tensions is very well done here. Latifa simply does not belabour the point of Pashtun vs Tajik. This is in part because her world view is coloured by her family situation and her rare mix of these two warrior tribes. Latifa's family also act as vehicles to describe the effects of Taliban oppression on everyday life - her mother the doctor no longer able to minister effectively to the needs of her female patients is the most glaring of the examples. The oppression of women seems close to an attempt at genocide in denying women the right to earn money or to be treated for ailments.

Latifa is not graphic in her descriptions of some of the suffering she witnesses amongst women she meets. Combined with the somewhat naive writing style, the reader is left to build a separate picture of what might be being alluded to. The descriptions of personal suffering including of her brother imprisoned by the Soviets are examples of oppression but not really the horror that the gender violence is. The stories of corruption are omni-present but someone brought up in Kabul could not truly be shocked by every single official needing to supplement their meagre income through additional extortion.

Latifa's journey to Mazar is interesting because it is designed to show her continued belief in the true tenants of Islam. Mazar was the home of the Northern Alliance and is mainly a Tajik city. Latifa's description of the miracle that she witnessed is more a sign of her devotion than anything else. Religion is clearly very important for Latifa and she is at pains to stress the distortion of the belief system that the Taliban represent.

The length of the book seems designed not to be too taxing and it is quite probably aimed at a somewhat popular market. The level of detail is a little limited and some of the stories seem quite rushed. The story of Latifa's role as an underground teacher for instance seems to appear from nowhere and end within a page or two.

Many of Latifa's stories are about times before the Taliban. The fights between the hero of the resistance Ahmed Shah Masood and the fanatics of Hekmatyar or the unfairness of the Soviet system take up much of the book. Indeed, there is really quite a lot of the book devoted to pre-Taliban tales which are presumably designed to set the context of the long history and culture of this region but are not directly linked to the core message of the nightmare of Taliban oppression.

Latifa makes a couple of references to the international community. The most common reference is Pakistan who have backed different factions of extreme Islamists including the Taliban. She is very clear in her message - the problems of Afghanistan have their route cause in Pakistan. Frankly this is not true as Afghanistan has not really been a stable and content country since the destruction wrought by the Genghis Khan. Aside from a couple of references to the British and one to the Macedonians, Latifa's context doesn't include much about pre-Soviet Afghanistan and the incredible poverty the people of the country have endured for centuries. Still, in modern times there is no doubt about the role of Pakistan and Latifa's is perhaps one of the first messagse that asserted such a claim in the mainstream press.

Latifa's is a story of oppression and hardship. Her's is a tale of the middle class teenage girl who has her future stolen away by the arrival of the Taliban. It is a useful reminder for those who support such regimes including through their opposition to attempts to subdue them, that the Taliban are amongst the very worst of the world's horrific criminals. ( )

In the past year I've been trying to read more authors from the Middle East and books about Middle Eastern history. During the process, I have gravitated toward women's memoirs from the region. I picked up My Forbidden Face months ago for this reason, as well as for the arresting cover photo.

Latifa is the pseudonym of a young woman, born in Kabul in 1980, who grew up during the Soviet occupation of her country and the subsequent struggle for power by rival factions. She was sixteen when the Taliban took control, ending the continuous battles and shelling she was used to, but completely changing her life with their fundamentalist policies. She now lives in Paris.

It is a story that we, as Americans, have become more familiar with in recent years. After the terrorist attacks of Sept. 11, the plight of Afghan women became a mainstream topic in the media, and more books by Afghan women were published as a result. Some authentically describe the demeaning and brutal treatment of women under Taliban rule. Other books seem to me to be tools used to sway public opinion about the war in Afghanistan. Unfortunately I felt as though My Forbidden Face was one of the latter.

Latifa’s story is touching and at times thought provoking in its unexpected honesty, such as when she says she would not choose to wear the chador, unless of course her husband desired it. But throughout I was conscious of her collaborator and translator, Shékéba Hachemi. As the Founder of Afghanistan Libre, Shékéba has an obvious agenda, and I felt manipulated by her control over Latifa’s story. Even though I agree with Shékéba‘s desire to improve the lives of Afghan women and girls, I didn’t like trying to find Latifa’s voice within a more educated, polished, and pointed narrative. Latifa’s story is an important one, I just wish I could have read or heard it in her own words. ( )

After seeing Afghanistan I wanted to learn even more about the people. This book gave me a look into the life of a woman growing up under the Taliban. Truly terrifying. ( )

A thought provoking memoir. A difficult life that Latifa and her family must endured under the Taliban rules. The Taliban who imposed such rigid rules, who did not value life at all. They used religion as wapon to surpresed people for their own importance. They are gone now and hope the new government will make Afghanistan a prosperous country. Where freedom trives. The translations was also good, I am very impressed ( )