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Loading... The Five Love Languages (1992)by Gary Chapman
I needed to look past the religious references, overly simplistic writing style (very short sentences), and examples that were clear but sometimes somewhat cliched to get the value out of this book, but I do think there is worthwhile content here. I was definitely able to identify my own "love language" and speculate on that of those closest to me. Certainly can't hurt to read - I'd recommend. I read The Five Love Languages before I got married, and really liked it. Now that I've been married 5 years I decided to read it again, and appreciated it a LOT more. Being in love, you never think you'll feel in need of getting your 'love bucket' filled more than it already is, but once marriage becomes more 'routine', it's more obvious how important it is to speak each other's love language. I find the concept of this book fascinating - that it's possible to express love for another person in so many different ways, that some of the ways aren't even recognizable for what they are to the other person. I think I've got my own and my husband's love language pretty much sorted out, and I don't think any of us find our 'love bucket' lacking, but it's a good thing to be aware of. This book is on practical ways to show love. As christians we are known for our love for others, as John's gospel says, but did you know there are five different languages of love and not all of us speak or respond to the same ones? If you find yourself frustrated on your efforts at loving someone, you need to learn their language! A most invaluable book for anybody in a relationship. no reviews | add a review
Amazon.com Product Description (ISBN 0802473156, Paperback)Marriage should be based on love, right? But does it seem as though you and your spouse are speaking two different languages? New York Times bestselling author Dr. Gary Chapman guides couples in identifying, understanding, and speaking their spouse’s primary love language—quality time, words of affirmation, gifts, acts of service, or physical touch. By learning the five love languages, you and your spouse will discover your unique love languages and learn practical steps in truly loving each other. Chapters are categorized by love language for easy reference, and each one ends with specific, simple steps to express a specific language to your spouse and guide your marriage in the right direction. A newly designed love languages assessment will help you understand and strengthen your relationship. You can build a lasting, loving marriage together. Includes a promotional code to gain exclusive online access to the new comprehensive love languages assessment. (retrieved from Amazon Thu, 14 Feb 2013 13:33:35 -0500) Dr. Chapman explains how people communicate love in different ways, and shares the wonderful things that happen when men and women learn to speak each other's language. |
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The 5 Love Languages are:
1. Receiving Gifts
2. Words of Affirmation
3. Acts of Service
4. Physical Touch
5. Quality Time
Once you know your own love language and that of your partner or spouse, it can be easier to ensure you communicate in the love language that best suits them. If they desire words of affirmation (e.g. I love you, I appreciate everything you do), then giving flowers won't mean as much as a card filled with meaningful expression of your feelings.
This all seems so straight forward and logical that it's quite funny. There is a survey at the back of the book (one for men and one for women) or you can complete one for free online at 5lovelanguages.com
All in all, The 5 Love Languages - The Secret to Love That Lasts by Gary Chapman was an enlightening read, and I'm glad it was recommended to me by a friend. What's your love language? (