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Beyond Blame: A New Way of Resolving Conflicts in Relationships… (edition 1996)

by Jeffrey A. Kottler

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Title:Beyond Blame: A New Way of Resolving Conflicts in Relationships (Jossey-Bass Psychology Series)
Authors:Jeffrey A. Kottler
Info:Jossey-Bass (1996), Edition: 1, Paperback, 252 pages
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Beyond Blame: A New Way of Resolving Conflicts in Relationships (Jossey-Bass Psychology Series) by Jeffrey A. Kottler

  1. Heartwounds: The Impact of Unresolved Trauma and Grief on Relationships by Tian Ph.D. Dayton (1997)
  2. Resolving Conflict With Others and Within Yourself by Gini Graham Scott (1990)
  3. The Verbally Abusive Relationship: How to Recognize it and How to Respond by Patricia Evans (1992)
  4. Compelled to Control: Why Relationships Break Down and What Makes Them Well by Keith Miller (1992)
  5. I Thought We'd Never Speak Again: The Road from Estrangement to Reconciliation by Laura Davis (2002)
  1. Getting Past the Pain Between Us: Healing and Reconciliation Without Compromise (Nonviolent Communication Guides) by Marshall B. Rosenberg (2005)
  2. Opening Up: The Healing Power of Expressing Emotions by James W. Pennebaker (1990)
  3. Divide or Conquer: How Great Teams Turn Conflict into Strength by Diana McLain Smith (2008)
  4. How to Disagree Without Being Disagreeable: Getting Your Point Across with the Gentle Art of Verbal Self-Defense by Suzette Haden Elgin (1997)
  5. The Dance of Anger by Harriet Lerner (1985)



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Focuses on the only party in a conflict that we have any control over: ourselves

Conflict is an interactive process--you cannot look at a person who makes life difficult for you without also looking at yourself. While blaming others may lead to short-term relief, it often escalates conflicts and produces long-term damage.

And with conflict we must first understand the problem and then take responsibility by changing our own roles. Beyond Blame presents specific advice on conflicts in love, conflicts at work, and what to do when conflicts cannot be resolved.

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