A quirky story that becomes enduring. A total departure from my normal choices. ( )

I felt like I was back in Philly while reading this. Very enjoyable. ( )

Pat comes home after months (or years?) in a mental health facility and is determined to better himself in an effort to reunite with his estranged wife Nikki. He knows that if he achieves a level of physical and mental fitness that God will give him the happy ending to the movie of his life. He tirelessly works out and runs while also reading classic literature and making an effort to be nicer and help people. But no one is willing to tell Pat much about Nikki, what led to his being committed, or really anything that has transpired in the months (or years?) that he was gone. Enter Tiffany. Tiffany has her own issues. She's depressed over the death of her husband, but she takes a liking to Pat. She starts running with him (well not so much with him as following behind him uninvited), and eventually convinces him to enter a competitive dance competition with her in exchange for her being a go-between with Nikki. This might be his last chance to end "apart time".
A book about mental illness, love, family, and football.


My Thoughts:
Ok I'm thinking it might have been a mistake to watch the movie version of this and then read the book. I loved the movie, which is what led me to want to read the book. The movie actually was a lot different from the book... and for the better. Everything that was changed for the movie I can tell was changed to make the story flow better. I just wasn't feeling the same magic that I was feeling when I was watching the movie.... like at all.

Pat clearly has mental issues, and it was sort refreshing to read this book written in that voice. He came off very child-like and had a blunt matter-of-factness to him (sort of like Charlie of Perks of Being a Wallflower and Holden Caulfield of The Catcher in the Rye), which I liked and got annoyed with all at the same time. Pat was 34, but came off like he was 12... which led me to question how he was able to be married and have a job and all that in his previous life. I don't *think* when you are mentally ill that you just wake up one day, have a life changing incident, and your entire personality is completely changed. I'm pretty sure if you have emotional issues, like Pat clearly does, you've been like that for a while. I could be wrong though?? I'm no expert, but if he was so emotionally immature as he seemed to be, I truly question his past ability to have relationships.

What I really didn't like was the lack of information given throughout the book. We followed Pat as he went through his daily routine of fitness and Eagles football stuff, but we weren't given details into his past, especially his mental diagnosis. The movie stated that he was Bipolar... unless I missed it, the book just left it up to the reader to figure out what was up with him. And I had NO idea that Bipolarism could cause years of memory loss. Not too sure about that? Also it was mentioned that he was a crappy husband, but all that was said was that he was an asshole to his wife, it wasn't mentioned how his illness played a role in that.

I know I'm super biased... but it was pretty hard for this Pittsburgh-er to read about Philadelphia Eagles fans. No offense to my peeps out in Philly, but it is common knowledge throughout the football world that Eagles fans are the WORST! I went to college in a sort of central Pennsylvania location, so we had a TON of Philly people there... and I lived through the Eagles Superbowl run of 2005. Ughhh it was rough going! Eagles fans are so loud and *sorry** annoying!! And they hate on their own team half the time!! So yeah it was a little hard for me to get down with all the Eagles fandom going on in the book. At least in the movie Pat tried to avoid Eagles stuff! But that being said, I'm a super NFL football fan, so I did enjoy parts of it (especially when the Eagles were losing *mwahhahahaha).

I found the dance competition not being the ending of the book to be anti-climatic. Same with the end result of the Tiffany/Pat relationship. I wanted more of a connection between them, and I just wasn't feeling it.

OVERALL: An interesting look at a man dealing with mental illness and the loss of his previous life. I loved the movie, but felt like the book didn't hold the same type of magic that I got from Jennifer Lawrence and Bradley Cooper. It's a book that sucks you in, but doesn't go to places like you'd expect it to.

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I loved this story for a variety of reasons, the most of which were the characters. Engaging in many respects, it takes the reader on a journey into the world of a family in the suburbs of Philadelphia with forgiveness and true love driving the story. Funny, heart warming and evocative, Pat's OCD tendencies flare while he builds a loving friendship with a mouthy, young widower who brings light into his dark world. Counseled to believe there's a silver lining in all of life, Pat slowly comes to grips with reality. The film adaptation was equal to the story which is rare. ( )

I'm a little annoyed that not a single novel has been worth five stars for me this year (yet), but here we have another four star read. Meaning that I very much enjoyed it, but I didn't absolutely love it.

The writing style took me a bit to get used to, because Pat's voice reads very young, almost childish. However, there's a reason for it, and it's even addressed, to a point.

At first I was annoyed by Pat as a character, because of the shit he thinks, but the further I read, the more it grew on me. Most of the things he thought that annoyed me were just honest thoughts. No, they aren't politically correct or anywhere near nice, but that's pretty universally true for anyone. pPeople consciously decide to be nice, often. Even if the shit going on in one's head is anything but, most people have filters. And if everyone practiced being kind in stead of right, the world would be a lot nicer place, even if the kindness isn't always the natural impulse.

I also very much enjoyed the other characters in the book, and especially Pat's dad felt very real to me.

All in all, I'm glad I read this. ( )