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How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie
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How to Win Friends and Influence People

by Dale Carnegie

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A must read for anyone looking to sell or persuade. Read the book. You'll thank me later. :) ( )
ieJasonW | Jul 9, 2009 |  
This book is the bestseller in many country with How to stop worrying and start living.In this book,it is written relationship with the other people.I think it's useful in every situation.But English level is high with" How to stop worrying and start living" You need to read many times. ( )
Kaz2 | Jun 11, 2009 |  
I included this book in my book: The 100 Best Business Books of All Time. www.100bestbiz.com. ( )
toddsattersten | May 8, 2009 |  
I give this book a 5. I respect Mr. Carnegie tremendously. This book is a classic. Provides a great foundation for developing people skills and positive influence. The techniques are insightful and are very practical. This book will motivate you. Provides great tips for dealing with people, such as smiling and staying away from criticism. This book will really help with your speaking skills. Highly recommend reading for any business owner or entrepreneur. ( )
markdeo | Apr 6, 2009 |  
Probably the epitome of self-help books, for a 70-year-old text its points are still very important today. Some of this book is common knowledge ('don't criticise' and 'tell people you appreciate them') but a lot of other points are the sort of thing that you might need pointing out so you remember them. It can be a little heavy at times- some of the examples and stories are needlessly long-winded- but pressing through is remarkably rewarding and leaves you with a lot of useful knowledge at the end.
Even if you don't end up loving it, it's worth reading so you know what everyone else is talking about.
fils | Dec 21, 2008 |  
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This book is dedicated to a man who doesn't need to read it - My cherished friend Homer Croy
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How to Win Friends and Influence People was first published in 1937 in an edition of only five thousand copies.
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Don't criticize, condemn or complain.
Give honest and sincere appreciation.
Arouse in the other person an eager want.
Become genuinely interested in other people.
Remember that a person's name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language.
Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.
Talk in terms of the other person's interests.
Make the other person feel important-and do it sincerely.
The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it.
Show respect for the other person's opinions. Never say "You're wrong."
If you are wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically.
Begin in a friendly way.
Get the other person saying "yes, yes" immediately.
Let the other person do a great deal of the talking.
Let the other person feel the idea is his or hers.
Try honestly to see things from the other person's point of view.
Be sympathetic with the other person's ideas and desires.
Appeal to the nobler motives.
Dramatize your ideas.
Throw down a challenge.
Begin with praise and honest appreciation.
Call attention to people's mistakes indirectly.
Talk about your own mistakes before criticizing the other person.
Ask questions instead of giving direct orders.
Let the other person save face.
Praise the slightest improvement and praise every improvement. Be "hearty in your approbation and lavish in your praise."
Give the other person a fine reputation to live up to.
Use encouragement. Make the fault seem easy to correct.
Make the other person happy about doing the thing you suggest.

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This grandfather of all people-skills books was first published in 1937. It was an overnight hit, eventually selling 15 million copies. How to Win Friends and Influence People is just as useful today as it was when it was first published, because Dale Carnegie had an understanding of human nature that will never be outdated. Financial success, Carnegie believed, is due 15 percent to professional knowledge and 85 percent to "the ability to express ideas, to assume leadership, and to arouse enthusiasm among people." He teaches these skills through underlying principles of dealing with people so that they feel important and appreciated. He also emphasizes fundamental techniques for handling people without making them feel manipulated. Carnegie says you can make someone want to do what you want them to by seeing the situation from the other person's point of view and "arousing in the other person an eager want." You learn how to make people like you, win people over to your way of thinking, and change people without causing offense or arousing resentment. For instance, "let the other person feel that the idea is his or hers," and "talk about your own mistakes before criticizing the other person." Carnegie illustrates his points with anecdotes of historical figures, leaders of the business world, and everyday folks. --Joan Price

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