This book is written in Queen's usual casually witty and informative style. There is lots of information for how to be more comfortable being outgoing about sex. Queen's suggestions are helpful and allow you to be more demonstrative and outgoing about sex. You can learn how to talk dirty without stumbling and turning beet red instantly, and how to how off for a lover without feeling silly. I'd also suggest reading this with Hanne Blank's _Big Big Love_. ( )