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by D. H. Lawrence, Simon Vance (Narrator)

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Title:Sons and Lovers (audiobook, narrated by Simon Vance)
Authors:D. H. Lawrence
Other authors:Simon Vance (Narrator)
Info:Tantor Media (2010), Edition: Unabridged,MP3 - Unabridged CD, Audio CD
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Sons and Lovers by D. H. Lawrence (1913)



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(23) Overwrought and tortured are two words that come to mind. Every year at this time I re-read a book I have read in the past - typically the distant past. This year I chose a classic from freshman English that I chose to read for a book report. I remember liking it, but having a bit of a hard time getting through it. Well - for once my long ago self agrees with my today self. This is the story of a family living in relative poverty in coal mining rural England, maybe turn of the century. The husband and wife are mutually disappointed in each other but Mrs. Morel turns from her husband to her sons for her validation and meaning, and then eventually to one son in particular, Paul Morel. We grow up with Paul as he tries to forge an identity as a man, an artist, a son, a lover. Are Paul's troubles because of his too tight bond with his mother? I really don't know when all is said and done.

Really, I wanted to chop Paul in the throat. He so reminded me of a former boyfriend of mine - an indecisive, self-obsessed, yet self-possessed man-child, who nonetheless is charming and captivating to women. Really what he put Miriam through was unforgivable. But it wasn't so much that he was comparing his women to his mother and finding them lacking. . . Can't quite figure out what I am to glean as a message from Paul's warm and loving relationship with his mother, yet his failed relationships with women.

As I mentioned - the writing is over the top and at times mind-numbingly histrionic with the nature, and the melodramatic emotions. With the overt mentions of sex and the innuendo - my goodness, the scene in the cherry tree before his first union with Miriam -- I imagine this book was somewhat riske for the early 20th century. For better or for worse, I find myself thinking about this strange book and trying to figure it out. It makes me think about my little sons as men someday. It makes me reflect on my own experience with a Paul Morel.

I am glad I re-read it, but I won't rush out to another D.H. Lawrence anytime soon. I have mixed feelings - perplexing, a bit uneven, but ultimately compelling. I wish I could go back and read my book report from 9th grade - whatever could I have possibly said! ( )
  jhowell | Jun 11, 2016 |
I tried to read another Lawrence book. What was I thinking? Go away Lawrence, leave me alone!

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  Garrison0550 | May 10, 2016 |
A story about love, relationships, and disappointments, told in rich language, evoking a time and a place in British history that is at once foreign and familiar. That specific way of life, the grinding life of a miner and the ways in which mining communities rubbed along, has disappeared. The experience of people struggling to exist through low paid jobs, the tensions within families under that sort of economic stress, are still present. Although set in a different era, there is much that is relevant to modern life. Lawrence writes about people, and the way in which they deal with life. He has great insight into human nature and motivations behind behaviour. He writes fairly about both men and women, recognising that both genders are just people, and there is good and bad in both. I was at times transported by his writing, there with the Morel family in every moment Lawrence describes. He understands the dynamics of family life. He also understands the hopes and disappointments of love. At other times, when he indulged himself too much in ruminating on his own personality through the guise of Paul Morel, he bored me. ( )
  missizicks | Apr 16, 2016 |
Worth reading for cultural literacy reasons - once I read Sons and Lovers I started noticing references to the story all over the place. I guess I was missing those before and it is a small pleasure to notice. Poison the milk baby. ( )
  ahovde01 | Mar 22, 2016 |
The refined daughter of a "good old burgher family," Gertrude Coppard meets a rough-hewn miner at a Christmas dance and falls into a whirlwind romance. But soon after her marriage to Walter Morel, she realizes the difficulties of living off his meagre salary in a rented house. The couple fight and drift apart and Walter retreats to the pub after work each day. Gradually, Mrs. Morel's affections shift to her sons beginning with the oldest, William.

As a boy, William is so attached to his mother that he doesn't enjoy the fair without her. As he grows older, he defends her against his father's occasional violence. Eventually, he leaves their Nottinghamshire home for a job in London, where he begins to rise up into the middle class. He is engaged, but he detests the girl's superficiality. He dies and Mrs. Morel is heartbroken, but when Paul catches pneumonia she rediscovers her love for her second son.

Part II:

Both repulsed by and drawn to his mother, Paul is afraid to leave her but wants to go out on his own, and needs to experience love. Gradually, he falls into a relationship with Miriam, a farm girl who attends his church. The two take long walks and have intellectual conversations about books but Paul resists, in part because his mother looks down on her. At work, Paul meets Clara Dawes who has separated from her husband, Baxter.

Paul leaves Miriam behind as he grows more intimate with Clara, but even she cannot hold him and he returns to his mother. When his mother dies soon after, he is alone.

Lawrence summarised the plot in a letter to Edward Garnett on 12 November 1912:

It follows this idea: a woman of character and refinement goes into the lower class, and has no satisfaction in her own life. She has had a passion for her husband, so her children are born of passion, and have heaps of vitality. But as her sons grow up she selects them as lovers — first the eldest, then the second. These sons are urged into life by their reciprocal love of their mother — urged on and on. But when they come to manhood, they can't love, because their mother is the strongest power in their lives, and holds them. It's rather like Goethe and his mother and Frau von Stein and Christiana — As soon as the young men come into contact with women, there's a split. William gives his sex to a fribble, and his mother holds his soul. But the split kills him, because he doesn't know where he is. The next son gets a woman who fights for his soul — fights his mother. The son loves his mother — all the sons hate and are jealous of the father. The battle goes on between the mother and the girl, with the son as object. The mother gradually proves stronger, because of the ties of blood. The son decides to leave his soul in his mother's hands, and, like his elder brother go for passion. He gets passion. Then the split begins to tell again. But, almost unconsciously, the mother realises what is the matter, and begins to die. The son casts off his mistress, attends to his mother dying. He is left in the end naked of everything, with the drift towards death.
This is the most autobiographical of all Lawrence's works as the author himself had a similar relationship with his own mother. The use of this Oedipal theme is one of a number of Freudian concepts he used throughout his books. Like many of his works, Sons and Lovers was criticized when first published for obscenity and one publisher called it "the dirtiest book he had ever read", but compared to his later works it is quite restrained.

  bostonwendym | Mar 3, 2016 |
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Sons and Lovers was the first modern portrayal of a phenomenon that later, thanks to Freud, became easily recognizable as the Oedipus complex. Never was a son more indentured to his mother's love and full of hatred for his father than Paul Morel, D.H. Lawrence's young protagonist. Never, that is, except perhaps Lawrence himself. In his 1913 novel he grappled with the discordant loves that haunted him all his life--for his spiritual childhood sweetheart, here called Miriam, and for his mother, whom he transformed into Mrs. Morel. It is, by Lawrence's own account, a book aimed at depicting this woman's grasp: "as her sons grow up she selects them as lovers--first the eldest, then the second. These sons are urged into life by their reciprocal love of their mother--urged on and on. But when they come to manhood, they can't love, because their mother is the strongest power in their lives."

Of course, Mrs. Morel takes neither of her two elder sons (the first of whom dies early, which further intensifies her grip on Paul) as a literal lover, but nonetheless her psychological snare is immense. She loathes Paul's Miriam from the start, understanding that the girl's deep love of her son will oust her: "She's not like an ordinary woman, who can leave me my share in him. She wants to absorb him." Meanwhile, Paul plays his part with equal fervor, incapable of committing himself in either direction: "Why did his mother sit at home and suffer?... And why did he hate Miriam, and feel so cruel towards her, at the thought of his mother. If Miriam caused his mother suffering, then he hated her--and he easily hated her." Soon thereafter he even confesses to his mother: "I really don't love her. I talk to her, but I want to come home to you."

The result of all this is that Paul throws Miriam over for a married suffragette, Clara Dawes, who fulfills the sexual component of his ascent to manhood but leaves him, as ever, without a complete relationship to challenge his love for his mother. As Paul voyages from the working-class mining world to the spheres of commerce and art (he has fair success as a painter), he accepts that his own achievements must be equally his mother's. "There was so much to come out of him. Life for her was rich with promise. She was to see herself fulfilled... All his work was hers."

The cycles of Paul's relationships with these three women are terrifying at times, and Lawrence does nothing to dim their intensity. Nor does he shirk in his vivid, sensuous descriptions of the landscape that offers up its blossoms and beasts and "shimmeriness" to Paul's sensitive spirit. Sons and Lovers lays fully bare the souls of men and earth. Few books tell such whole, complicated truths about the permutations of love as resolutely without resolution. It's nothing short of searing to be brushed by humanity in this manner. --Melanie Rehak

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"Sons and Lovers is one of the landmark novels of the twentieth century. When it appeared in 1913, it was immediately recognized as the first great modern restatement of the oedipal drama, and it is now widely considered the major work of D.H. Lawrence's early period. This intensely autobiographical novel recounts the story of Paul Morel, a young artist growing to manhood in a British working-class family rife with conflict. The author's vivid evocation of the all-consuming nature of possessive love and sexual attraction makes this one of his most powerful novels."--Jacket.… (more)

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