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Manhood for Amateurs: The Pleasures and Regrets of a Husband, Father, and Son by Michael Chabon
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by Michael Chabon

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Harper (2009), Hardcover, 320 pages

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A woman’s take on manhood

A confession... I have little interest in "the pleasures and regrets of a husband, father, and son." I have A LOT of interest in Michael Chabon. And why not? In addition to being one of my favorite authors, we're both 40-something Jews who were raised in suburban Maryland. And we both live in the San Francisco Bay Area and travel in literary circles. Okay, we're acquainted--but in the most superficial way imaginable; just enough to say hello and kibitz a bit. But the fact that he's a nice guy is completely subsumed by the fact that he's one of the greatest writers living today. I am an unabashed fan, and this collection of essays about a subject I'm not particularly interested in (being neither husband, father, son, wife, or mother) was a thrilling read.

Chabon's use of language is magnificent. No matter the subject, it's the sort of text where you want to grab anyone in the vicinity and just start reading aloud. I knew I was hooked when I began tearing up while reading the first essay, "The Loser's Club" which recounts a rejection suffered in his youth. "That was the moment I began to think of myself as a failure," the Pulitzer prize-winner writes. Chabon is vulnerable within these essays, sharing deeply personal details of his life, and letting that streak of neurosis shine through. But don't worry that the collection is one long, drawn out therapy session. There are more laughs than tears and as I noted above, Chabon is a very likeable fellow. "I Feel Good About my Murse," for instance, is delightfully silly. Even so, Chabon's got something real to say about masculine identity amidst the laughs.

Not every single essay is a slam dunk. The Lego one sort of left me cold. For you it might be another. But overall, this collection is so strong that it must surely be a go-to gift for fathers, husbands, sons, and all lovers of great writing for decades to come.

Oh, and I've seen him playing with his kids--he really is a great father. ( )
1 vote suetu | Dec 22, 2009 |
Chabon's first non-fiction book makes a perfect complement to his wife's memoir of family life, Bad Mother. She's quite a bit funnier, but he digs just a little more deeply into the meaning of it all. ( )
  wanack | Dec 4, 2009 |
This is a really nice collection of random ruminations on being a man and its various roles. Although I'm a little bit older than Chabon I like to think that we are of the same generation. I could relate to many of his stories and reflections. Recommended for any man interested in stepping back and taking a look at their life and women interested in understanding their husbands a little bit better. "This is our life happening,..., and it's happening right now." ( )
  ghefferon | Nov 25, 2009 |
These essays are written with Chabon's characteristic wit and charm. They're the perfect length to read before bed. ( )
  checkadawson | Nov 2, 2009 |
Fantastically fun. Chabon waxes eloquent on adults taking the fun out of childhood, men faking their ability to use power tools, pop culture as international diplomacy, and why today's Lego toys are so lame. Chabon doesn't pretend to have all the answers -- this isn't really a "men's help" book -- instead, he admits he can't explain why some boys have a fascination with burning bugs with magnifying glasses, but does note that all a potential serial killer probably needed to straighten him out at age ten was an 11-year-old girl calling him a pathetic loser. Chabon is funny and poignant, and you'll probably find yourself nodding and laughing in agreement at most of it. ( )
  brianjayjones | Oct 28, 2009 |
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As in his novels, he shifts gears easily between the comic and the melancholy, the whimsical and the serious, demonstrating once again his ability to write about the big subjects of love and memory and regret without falling prey to the Scylla and Charybdis of cynicism and sentimentality.
 
It’s not a chronicle, but rather a vaguely themed collection of thoughtful first-person essays (most, in this case, originally published in Details magazine) that capture a certain time and mood. The theme: maleness in its various states — boyhood, manhood, fatherhood, brotherhood. The time: now, juxtaposed frequently with Chabon’s 1970s childhood. The mood: wistful.
 
"You have put your finger squarely on the pulse of the American male sensibility ... and you have teased out some basic truths about us and our society, our past and our future."
 
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In Manhood for Amateurs, Michael Chabon, the Pulitzer Prize–winning author of The Mysteries of Pittsburgh, Wonder Boys, The Amazing Adventures of Kavalier & Clay, and The Yiddish Policemen's Union, offers his first major work of nonfiction, a memoir as inventive, beautiful, and powerful as his acclaimed, award-winning fiction. In these insightful, provocative, slyly interlinked essays, Chabon presents his autobiography and his vision of life and explores what it means to be a man today.
Book DescriptionThe Pulitzer Prize-winning author— "an immensely gifted writer and a magical prose stylist" (Michiko Kakutani, New York Times)—offers his first major work of nonfiction, an autobiographical narrative as inventive, beautiful, and powerful as his acclaimed, award-winning fiction.
A shy manifesto, an impractical handbook, the true story of a fabulist, an entire life in parts and pieces, Manhood for Amateurs is the first sustained work of personal writing from Michael Chabon. In these insightful, provocative, slyly interlinked essays, one of our most brilliant and humane writers presents his autobiography and his vision of life in the way so many of us experience our own lives: as a series of reflections, regrets, and reexaminations, each sparked by an encounter, in the present, that holds some legacy of the past.
What does it mean to be a man today? Chabon invokes and interprets and struggles to reinvent for us, with characteristic warmth and lyric wit, the personal and family history that haunts him even as—simply because—it goes on being written every day. As a devoted son, as a passionate husband, and above all as the father of four young Americans, Chabon presents his memories of childhood, of his parents' marriage and divorce, of moments of painful adolescent comedy and giddy encounters with the popular art and literature of his own youth, as a theme played—on different instruments, with a fresh tempo and in a new key—by the mad quartet of which he now finds himself co-conductor.  (HarperCollins website)

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