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Talk Before Sleep by Elizabeth Berg

Talk Before Sleep (original 1997; edition 1994)

by Elizabeth Berg

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Title:Talk Before Sleep
Authors:Elizabeth Berg
Info:Random House (1994), Edition: 1st, Hardcover, 210 pages
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Talk Before Sleep by Elizabeth Berg (1997)

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    Me Before You by Jojo Moyes (BookshelfMonstrosity)
    BookshelfMonstrosity: Although Talk Before Sleep focuses on the strong bond between two lifelong friends, rather than the brief but emotionally intense relationship between a hired caregiver and her charge, both moving, character-driven novels confront the issue of mortality head-on, without sentimentality.… (more)

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This story of a woman dying with breast cancer is sad, but I found it also enriching, even nurturing. There is love shown in different ways--gifts of life given and received in spite of flaws as death comes closer.

The story comes in short scenes. The dialog and descriptions got my attention. I felt like I was watching the characters while invisible in the room.

I saw many books by Berg at the library and am eager to see what else she has done. ( )
  ajlewis2 | Feb 24, 2016 |
If you're looking to spend an afternoon cuddled up with a book and a cup of tea you really can't go wrong with Elizabeth Berg. Her books are quick reads with uncomplicated themes and she's a compelling storyteller. Talk Before Sleep is no different although I think a little shorter than most. The characters are well-drawn and mostly likeable. I wish I had such an assortment of friends! This is fine chick lit. ( )
  Penske | Oct 2, 2015 |
This book broke my heart. ( )
  madcatter | Sep 14, 2015 |
A beautifully told story about two best friends, Ann and Ruth, and what happens after Ruth is diagnosed with terminal breast cancer. Not only is Ann by her side, but also Ruth's small but eclectic group of her other friends gather by her side also, and each person helps Ruth in her own unique way.

I was drawn to this story because I also have terminal breast cancer, and I was glad to see the author tackle this subject (she also lost a good friend to breast cancer) and tell the truth about it; that breast cancer is not always a "curable" kind of cancer, a message that is often lost, especially during the month of "Pinktober" in the lands "pink ribbons" and all the crap that goes with it.; breast cancer is not cute, and it not pretty; the American Cancer Society estimates that 40,290 women will die of breast cancer this year. I may well be part of that statistic myself as my oncologist recommended just 2 weeks ago that I should be thinking about starting hospice care.

My only complaint about this novel was that I felt it was too short, and because of that, not all of the characters felt fully developed to me. ( )
  mom2acat | Sep 9, 2015 |
It seems when I read books about adult women friendships, I struggle with not liking the characters all that much and therefore wondering about the strength of the friendship.

Ann's friend Ruth is dying of cancer. She and Ruth's group of friends rally around her, coming and going and showing their different ways of coping and supporting their friend. Clearly the depth of the friendship and the associated heartbreak of Ann comes through clearly. What I struggled with was why Ann was such friends with Ruth in the first place, especially since it seemed to involve Ann totally abandoning her own husband and child for what seemed to be weeks on end. I understand grief, I do, and clearly that was there, but I was pretty tired of all of them by the end. ( )
  lynetterl | Sep 8, 2015 |
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"Until that moment, I hadn't realized how much I'd been needing to meet someone I might be able to say everything to."

They met at a party.  It was hate at first sight.  Ruth was far too beautiful, too flamboyant.  Not at all Ann's kind of person.  Until a chance encounter in the bathroom led to an alliance of souls.  Soon they were sharing hankies during the late showing of "Sophie's Choice," wolfing down sundaes sodden with whipped cream, telling truths of marriage, mortality, and love, secure in a kind of intimacy no man could ever know.  Only best friends understand devil's food cake for breakfast when nothing else will do.  After years of shared secrets, guilty pleasures, family life and divorce, they face a crisis that redefines the meaning of friendship and unconditional love.

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What do women talk about when they know they don't have forever? They talk about what they have always talked about, only they go deeper and are more honest; with outrageous humor they try to mitigate pain. Intimate and uncensored sharing, the kind of connection women prize, is at the heart of this deeply moving novel about the grit and power of female friends. Ann and Ruth have always talked as only great friends can - honestly, and about everything: husbands and marriages, sex lives and children, their work, their hopes, their disappointments, and their dreams. For Ann, cautious and conventional, her closeness to the outspoken and eccentric Ruth brings about discovery and liberation, a chance to say whatever she wants, and, most important, under the insistent tutelage of Ruth, to become herself. Over the years, the women have shared recipes, quilting patterns, child care, delicate and dangerous secrets. Each rests secure in the knowledge that they will be friends forever. Then Ruth is diagnosed with cancer, and everything changes; the women begin to share something more profound than either of them might have predicted...… (more)

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