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The Four Loves by C. S. Lewis

The Four Loves (original 1960; edition 1971)

by C. S. Lewis

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Title:The Four Loves
Authors:C. S. Lewis
Info:Mariner Books (1971), Edition: 2nd Printing, Paperback, 156 pages
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The Four Loves by C. S. Lewis (1960)



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In The Four Loves Lewis is excellent, as always. Very good read. ( )
  NatalieMonk | Jul 3, 2017 |
can't say that I really enjoyed this. About the four different kinds of love. Lewis, however, goes into so many different kinds of love that I was lost almost from the beginning. Good points about love", not sublimated to God's Will, being demoniac and "God usurping", but not a clear, concise read. I hope to reread this several times in my life, and to understand it a bit more each time." ( )
  BookstoogeLT | Dec 10, 2016 |
The Four Loves offers keen insight from Lewis on the main ways that we humans love each other. There are a great deal of moments in the book that seem to wipe the fog away from the reader's eyes and grant luminescent clarity. On the other hand, there are many more instances of Lewis making assumptions and statements that are unfounded and even totally untrue or unfair.

The worst part is that he does not try to justify any of those, except for mentioning a few times that he could be wrong–it's just his perspective after all. Maybe it's just because this is the first book of his I've read in full after becoming an English major(aka snob), but that doesn't really hold up. I feel this book would have been much better if it had been maybe twice the length, so that he could explain and support his points more.

As I've paid more attention to Lewis's style I've noticed he really is very obvious with putting his perspective(and only his perspective) into his writing. It comes out in his fantasy work too(which is why they're all allegorical–though [b:Till We Have Faces|17343|Till We Have Faces|C.S. Lewis|https://d.gr-assets.com/books/1381692105s/17343.jpg|2072983] is of a slightly different nature and ends up being his best by far), and in the more philosophical/theological writings he comes off as didactic and somehow both close-minded but versatile. In books such as [b:Mere Christianity|11138|Mere Christianity|C.S. Lewis|https://d.gr-assets.com/books/1414551420s/11138.jpg|801500] and [b:Surprised by Joy: The Shape of My Early Life|121732|Surprised by Joy The Shape of My Early Life|C.S. Lewis|https://d.gr-assets.com/books/1381407473s/121732.jpg|877675] that style works much better due to their autobiographical and devotional nature.

Glaring flaws notwithstanding, what really makes the work worth the read are those nuggets that get you thinking and seeing what you didn't before. Despite my criticism I really do appreciate C.S. Lewis's work–he's my all-time most read author. I can tell that what he has said here is going to be valuable in my life. Even so, three stars because in my opinion, it's in these kinds of books(see also [b:The Abolition of Man|79428|The Abolition of Man|C.S. Lewis|https://d.gr-assets.com/books/1418843138s/79428.jpg|14823978]) that we find Lewis at his weakest. How ironic that the beautiful Christian wisdom within is their redeeming quality! ( )
  chronoceros | Jul 15, 2016 |
The classic book on the four kinds of 'love' as defined in different Greek words. Affection, friendship, romantic love and 'charity' - the 'agape' of Christian love. Clearly written and well argued, although a bit dry in places, and distinctly old-fashioned now, with some of Lewis's culture and biases showing through.

An interesting book to re-read, all the same. Three and a half stars. ( )
  SueinCyprus | Jan 26, 2016 |
I'm reading about Friendship love right now. I like how he differentiates between Friendship and Companionship (one is matrix to the other) and even between Friendship and Eros.
  Desdelyn | Jan 13, 2016 |
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That our affection kill us not, nor dye. -- Donne
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"God is love," says St. John. When I first tried to write this book I thought that his maxim would provide me with a very plain highroad through the whole subject.
But very few modern people think Friendship a love of comparable value or even a love at all.
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In this, one of his most popular books, C. S. Lewis sheds light on the eternally provocative subject of love.

With his characteristic insight, humor, and acute judgment, Lewis categorizes and describes all the natural loves. Affection binds parents and children, neighbors who have nothing in common, humans and their pets; it is love owed, rather than earned; it grows out of familiarity; it "is indeed the least discriminating of loves." Eros - not pure physicality but the more complex feeling of being "in love" - may inspire great sacrifice, but to potentially destructive ends. Friendship is "the least biological of our loves," the most spiritual in nature, but also the most inclined to snobbery. Each of these loves has its particular joys, and each its own proximity to hatred.

For Lewis, no natural love can prosper except in the presence of the Fourth Love, Charity, which is both the love of God and the selfless love of others. And though every kind of love carries its particular risks, Lewis exhorts us not to avoid them, for "hell is the only place outside of heaven where we can be safe from the dangers of love."

"The Four Loves [is] a modern mirror of souls ... of the virtues and failings of modern loving. Lewis combines a novelist's insight into motives with a profound religious understanding of our human nature." -Martin D'Arcy, The New York Times Book Review

C. S. Lewis was born in Belfast, Northern Ireland, in 1898 and died in Oxford, England, in 1963. He held the Chair of Medieval and Renaissance Literature at Cambridge University and was the author of numerous books on Christianity, a science fiction trilogy, a novel, three volumes of poetry, and many works of literary criticism. He was also the author of the much-loved children's series The Chronicles of Narnia.
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The Four Loves summarizes four kinds of human love--affection, friendship, erotic love, and the love of God. Masterful without being magisterial, this book's wise, gentle, candid reflections on the virtues and dangers of love draw on sources from Jane Austen to St. Augustine. The chapter on charity (love of God) may be the best thing Lewis ever wrote about Christianity. Consider his reflection on Augustine's teaching that one must love only God, because only God is eternal, and all earthly love will someday pass away:
Who could conceivably begin to love God on such a prudential ground--because the security (so to speak) is better? Who could even include it among the grounds for loving? Would you choose a wife or a Friend--if it comes to that, would you choose a dog--in this spirit? One must be outside the world of love, of all loves, before one thus calculates.
His description of Christianity here is no less forceful and opinionated than in Mere Christianity or The Problem of Pain, but it is far less anxious about its reader's response--and therefore more persuasive than any of his apologetics. When he begins to describe the nature of faith, Lewis writes: "Take it as one man's reverie, almost one man's myth. If anything in it is useful to you, use it; if anything is not, never give it a second thought." --Michael Joseph Gross

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A candid, wise, and warmly personal book in which Lewis gently reflects on the four basic kinds of human love--affection, friendship, erotic love, charity. He explores the promise and the perils of love between parents and children; love men share with other men and women with other women; love shared between men and women; and the love of and for God that deepens all loves. [He] also considers the questions of sex, possessiveness, jealousy, pride, false sentimentality, good and bad manners in lovings, and the need for more laughter between lovers.--Back cover.… (more)

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