Victoria Brooks (2)

Fucking Ethics and Fucking Judgments. First, I will tell you that if the word "fucking" disturbs you, this book isn't for you (but you may have suspected that from the title). If the various "raunchy" and "vulgar" words for human genitalia disturb you, this book isn't for you.

But if you're still reading this review, then I assume you're at least ok with these words. In which case, allow me to tell you how sublime and thought provoking this book is. Part memoir and part academic philosophical show more treatise, this book truly takes a hard and intriguing look at the philosophical ethics of human sexuality.

This isn't a light read. It isn't a beach read (unless maybe you're at a nudist/ swinger beach?). It is likely a read that will make you horny without actually being erotica. It is a read that will make you think. And maybe, just maybe, it is a read that will open you to the author's own brand of sexual ethics, even though it is one she does not explicitly recommend - quite the opposite - herself. show less

Sex is still so taboo in our society, especially when it comes to women and their sexuality. Often women are shamed for not being chaste and vanilla. Brooks opens up a big discussion that needs to be had, from a philosophical POV with real-world experiences mixed in. This book is a must-read for those interested in destigmatizing sexuality especially in relationship to the feminine.