HomeGroupsTalkMoreZeitgeist
Search Site
This site uses cookies to deliver our services, improve performance, for analytics, and (if not signed in) for advertising. By using LibraryThing you acknowledge that you have read and understand our Terms of Service and Privacy Policy. Your use of the site and services is subject to these policies and terms.

Results from Google Books

Click on a thumbnail to go to Google Books.

For Your Own Good: Hidden Cruelty in…
Loading...

For Your Own Good: Hidden Cruelty in Child-Rearing and the Roots of Violence (original 1980; edition 1985)

by Alice Miller

MembersReviewsPopularityAverage ratingMentions
829926,342 (4.21)7
This contemporary classic by a celebrated Swiss psychoanalyst explores the serious if not gravely dangerous consequences parental cruelty can bring to bear on children everywhere. With her typically lucid, strong, and poetic language, Miller investigates the personal stories and case histories of various self-destructive and/or violent individuals to expand on her theories about the long-term affects of abusive child-rearing. Her conclusions--on what sort of parenting can create a drug addict, or a murderer, or a Hitler--offer much insight, and make a good deal of sense, while also straying far from psychoanalytic dogma about human nature, which Miller vehemently rejects. This important study paints a shocking picture of the violent world--indeed, of the ever-more-violent world--that each generation helps to create when traditional upbringing, with its hidden cruelty, is perpetuated. The book also presents readers with useful solutions in this regard--namely, to resensitize the victimized child who has been trapped within the adult, and to unlock the emotional life that has been frozen in repression.--From amazon.com.… (more)
Member:n8chz
Title:For Your Own Good: Hidden Cruelty in Child-Rearing and the Roots of Violence
Authors:Alice Miller
Info:Farrar, Straus and Giroux (1985), Paperback, 284 pages
Collections:Your library
Rating:***
Tags:psychology, society

Work Information

For Your Own Good: Hidden Cruelty in Child-Rearing and the Roots of Violence by Alice Miller (1980)

None
Loading...

Sign up for LibraryThing to find out whether you'll like this book.

No current Talk conversations about this book.

» See also 7 mentions

English (7)  French (2)  All languages (9)
Showing 1-5 of 7 (next | show all)
from 1983 "Am Anfang war Erziehung", the childhood of Adolf Hitler and child murderer Jochen Bartsch ( )
  betty_s | Oct 3, 2023 |
Old but never dated, this is among the 10 most important books ever written about psychology and human behaviour. The subject is intense but the book itself is easy to read, no technical jargon here. Should be mandatory in every school. ( )
  Ell3 | Feb 28, 2023 |
Old but never dated, this is among the 10 most important books ever written about psychology and human behaviour. The subject is intense but the book itself is easy to read, no technical jargon here. Should be mandatory in every school. Certainly not an uplifting book but one we really need. ( )
  Ell3 | Feb 28, 2023 |
This book explores the backgrounds of extreme cases of self-destructive and violent individuals to further her theories on long-term consequences of abusive child-rearing. Her conclusions about what creates a drug addict, a murderer, even a Hitler, stray far from psychoanalytic dogma about human nature. Miller paints a jolting picture of the violent world each generation helps shape when traditional upbringing, with its hidden cruelty, is perpetuated. She also offers a way out by striving to resensitize the child in the adult, to unlock an emotional life frozen in repression. Selected Reading Questionnaire.
  ACRF | Jul 20, 2022 |
This book should be required reading for everyone. The way we raise and treat children is a reflection of the violence and chaos in the world we live in. Our fate as a decent, loving, and dynamic species lies in our ability to take the claims in this book seriously. Children's pain is real, and needs to be witnessed, respected, and honored. When we injure children, we create damaged adults who act through their unresolved and repressed childhood pain. We don't take children's pain seriously at the risk of annihilating ourselves as a species. ( )
  barnettie | Feb 3, 2019 |
Showing 1-5 of 7 (next | show all)
no reviews | add a review

» Add other authors (17 possible)

Author nameRoleType of authorWork?Status
Alice Millerprimary authorall editionscalculated
Hannum, HildegardeTranslatorsecondary authorsome editionsconfirmed
Hannum, HunterTranslatorsecondary authorsome editionsconfirmed

Belongs to Publisher Series

You must log in to edit Common Knowledge data.
For more help see the Common Knowledge help page.
Canonical title
Original title
Alternative titles
Original publication date
People/Characters
Important places
Important events
Related movies
Epigraph
Was für ein Glück für die Regierenden, daß die Menschen nicht denken. (Adolf Hitler)
Dedication
First words
Jeder, der einmal Mutter oder Vater war and nicht in einer perfekten Verleugnung lebt, weiß aus eigener Erfahrung, wie schwer es einem Menschen fallen kann, bestimmte Seiten seines Kindes zu tolerieren.
Quotations
Last words
(Click to show. Warning: May contain spoilers.)
Disambiguation notice
Publisher's editors
Blurbers
Original language
Canonical DDC/MDS
Canonical LCC

References to this work on external resources.

Wikipedia in English (3)

This contemporary classic by a celebrated Swiss psychoanalyst explores the serious if not gravely dangerous consequences parental cruelty can bring to bear on children everywhere. With her typically lucid, strong, and poetic language, Miller investigates the personal stories and case histories of various self-destructive and/or violent individuals to expand on her theories about the long-term affects of abusive child-rearing. Her conclusions--on what sort of parenting can create a drug addict, or a murderer, or a Hitler--offer much insight, and make a good deal of sense, while also straying far from psychoanalytic dogma about human nature, which Miller vehemently rejects. This important study paints a shocking picture of the violent world--indeed, of the ever-more-violent world--that each generation helps to create when traditional upbringing, with its hidden cruelty, is perpetuated. The book also presents readers with useful solutions in this regard--namely, to resensitize the victimized child who has been trapped within the adult, and to unlock the emotional life that has been frozen in repression.--From amazon.com.

No library descriptions found.

Book description
Haiku summary

Current Discussions

None

Popular covers

Quick Links

Rating

Average: (4.21)
0.5
1
1.5
2
2.5 2
3 13
3.5 1
4 21
4.5 3
5 30

Is this you?

Become a LibraryThing Author.

 

About | Contact | Privacy/Terms | Help/FAQs | Blog | Store | APIs | TinyCat | Legacy Libraries | Early Reviewers | Common Knowledge | 204,493,149 books! | Top bar: Always visible