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My Korean Deli: Risking It All for a Convenience Store (2011)

by Ben Ryder Howe

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This warm and funny tale of an earnest preppy editor finding himself trapped behind the counter of a Brooklyn convenience store is about family, culture and identity in an age of discombobulation. It starts with a gift, when Ben Ryder Howe's wife, the daughter of Korean immigrants, decides to repay her parents' self-sacrifice by buying them a store. Howe, an editor at the rarefied Paris Review, agrees to go along. Things soon become a lot more complicated. After the business struggles, Howe finds himself living in the basement of his in-laws' Staten Island home, commuting to the Paris Review offices in George Plimpton's Upper East Side townhouse by day, and heading to Brooklyn at night to slice cold cuts and peddle lottery tickets. My Korean Deli follows the store's tumultuous life span, and along the way paints the portrait of an extremely unlikely partnership between characters with shoots across society, from the Brooklyn streets to Seoul to Puritan New England. Owning the deli becomes a transformative experience for everyone involved as they struggle to salvage the original gift—and the family—while sorting out issues of values, work, and identity.… (more)
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Read for a dose of nitty-gritty Brooklyn. ( )
  Martha_Thayer | Jan 13, 2022 |
This book was fascinating! Wow! I now know that I DO NOT EVER want to own a convenience store! But I loved the stories about the crazy customers. I also really enjoyed the stories of George Plimpton, Ben's boss at the Paris Review. (Ben was an editor of the Paris Review, plus he owned a convenience store with his Korean wife and her family.)

I learned a lot about New Englanders and Koreans from this book, or at least the author's impressions of those cultures.

It was mildly amusing and parts of it did drag a little bit, but all-in-all, I enjoyed it. I couldn't put it down there toward the end. There's good times and bad times and some sad times in this book but it was very enlightening.
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  Chica3000 | Dec 11, 2020 |
More entertaining than I expected it to be. And fairly thoughtful in spots. Liked it more than I anticipated. The rare memoir that is really worth the time. ( )
  GaylaBassham | May 27, 2018 |
A mixed bag from an author's first foray in writing books. The author looks at his time in a Korean deli, purchased for his mother in law. The book takes place over a period of years, looking at the day to day issues of running a store, the more interesting activities that happen and the customers that pass through. Not ever spending much time in NY, this was rather fascinating.

However, the book is rather uneven, talking about the deli as well as the lives of some of the people in it as well as the author's personal life and other job. Sometimes it flowed really well and was very interesting to read, and sometimes I found myself skipping over passages, because I did not buy this book to read about the author's job at the magazine, but rather what he does at the deli.

There does seem to be good social commentary as well. The author discusses how hard it can be to keep customers happy when they've been used to seeing the same prices and same employees (and will flip if they fire such employee...). That NY can make it VERY difficult to run a business with fees, enforcement and stings that sometimes are for legal purposes, and some that just seem totally wacky. The various type of people, from employees to customers will probably bring a smile or shudder of horror to anyone who has ever done customer service in retail, and the author points out it is something everyone should do.

The book mostly fails when it tries to describe the life of a few people and their relationships to the author. One I grew to care less and less about and the other it was difficult to care as the book went on. I felt there was some attempt to parallel the author's time at the store and his other job to the times of these people, but it didn't quite tie in. Really, while the book initially started off very well, at times the book feels very much like a mishmash of stories that don't quite tie well enough together.

Probably an interest if you have a daily deli you go to, live in NY or have experience with immigrant families and their stores. ( )
  HoldMyBook | Feb 11, 2018 |
Really, a three and a half star book but why quibble. It's funny and just deep enough to keep you thinking. Very very enjoyable. ( )
  laurenbufferd | Nov 14, 2016 |
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It’s hard not to fall in love with “My Korean Deli.” First, it’s the (very) rare memoir that places careful, loving attention squarely on other people rather than the author. Second, it tells a rollicking, made-for-the-movies story in a wonderfully funny deadpan style. By the end, you’ll feel that you know the author and his family quite well — even though you may not be eager to move in with them. ...Howe keeps a distanced view and writes with a light, self-effacing touch, describing his frustration with customers who refuse to accept any changes in the coffee, the prices or where the bran muffins and Bud Light are shelved, or his feeling of being trapped in the “scruffy milieu of lottery tickets, wine coolers and penny candy.” But he doesn’t express anger or disdain: he remains carefully even-­tempered, befitting his upbringing as the child of a cultural anthropologist...That fresh embrace of discovery keeps “My Korean Deli” moving as fast as it does

 

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" Most guys from the projects has the Wizard of Oz disease; they can't go nowhere unless they got three people with them. They're like ' I'm the Tin Man and I don't have any heart. Will you come with me to Brooklyn to look for one?Cuz I'm afraid to leave Brooklyn alone.'"
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For Dwayne Wright 1968-2009
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Last summer my wife's family decided to buy a deli.
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This warm and funny tale of an earnest preppy editor finding himself trapped behind the counter of a Brooklyn convenience store is about family, culture and identity in an age of discombobulation. It starts with a gift, when Ben Ryder Howe's wife, the daughter of Korean immigrants, decides to repay her parents' self-sacrifice by buying them a store. Howe, an editor at the rarefied Paris Review, agrees to go along. Things soon become a lot more complicated. After the business struggles, Howe finds himself living in the basement of his in-laws' Staten Island home, commuting to the Paris Review offices in George Plimpton's Upper East Side townhouse by day, and heading to Brooklyn at night to slice cold cuts and peddle lottery tickets. My Korean Deli follows the store's tumultuous life span, and along the way paints the portrait of an extremely unlikely partnership between characters with shoots across society, from the Brooklyn streets to Seoul to Puritan New England. Owning the deli becomes a transformative experience for everyone involved as they struggle to salvage the original gift—and the family—while sorting out issues of values, work, and identity.

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