Couples who publicly sit at peace in church pews can secretly be at war. How do you help the victim of domestic abuse? And doesn't the perpetrator of the violence also need our help? Three counselors reveal way to clearly communicate God's grace to the victims of violence. They demonstrate how to minister with confidence and humility to the afflicted. They ask, ?How will you help the privately violent We learn that violent people have much in common with other people. And once you know how to deal with your own sins of anger, you can better help others who struggle with violence.