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My Samoan Chief

by Fay G. Calkins

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This is an engaging autobiographical account of a young American woman's life in her Samoan husband's native home. Fay Calkins, a descendant of Puritan settlers, met Vai Ala'ilima, a descendant of Samoan chiefs, while working on her doctoral dissertation in the Library of Congress. After an unconventional courtship and a typical American wedding, they set out for Western Samoa, where Fay was to find a way of life totally new and charming, if at times frustrating and confusing.Soon after her arrival in the islands, the bride of a few months found herself with a family of seven boys in a wide range of ages, sent by relatives to live with the new couple. She was stymied by the economics of trying to support numerous guests, relatives, and a growing family, and still contribute to the lavish feasts that were given on any pretext--feasts, where the guests brought baskets in which to take home as much of the largesse as they could carry.Fay tried to introduce American institutions: a credit union, a co-op, a work schedule, and hourly wages on the banana plantation begun by her and her husband. In each instance, she quickly learned that Samoans were unwilling or unable to grasp her Western ideas of input equaling output, of personal property, or of payment received for work done. Despite these frustrations and disappointments, however, life among the people of her Samoan chief was for Fay happy and productive.… (more)
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I picked this up at the suggestion of Powell's Daily Dose. I was disappointed. Had to give up. It started out very interesting, but became a bit repetitive. I did find some of the references a little dated. If I had more time and fewer books in my stack I might have given it more of a chance. ( )
  njcur | Jun 12, 2018 |
While working on her thesis, Fay Calkins obtained a permit for the use of a desk in the Library of Congress. She was happy to be assigned a desk in the stacks. She figured there would be fewer distractions there. She hadn't reckoned on meeting and falling in love with the man at the neighboring desk – a Samoan named Vai. After a short courtship, they married. After Vai finished his thesis, the couple moved to American Samoa, where Vai had a government position waiting for him.

Fay seemed unprepared for what she encountered in Samoa. Since most Samoan homes didn't have walls – just a floor with a roof over it – there was very little privacy, and there was no concept of personal property. Everyone helped themselves to whatever they needed or wanted. However, society was anything but informal. There were strict customs governing almost every social situation. Fay had to learn most of these customs on the fly, usually after making a major faux pas.

Fay tried to establish first a cooperative enterprise, and then a banana plantation, and was often frustrated by the Samoan work ethic that was very different from her own. Every incentive she tried had a different effect than she intended. Her frustration eventually gave way to acceptance as she learned to appreciate the difference between Samoan values and her American values.

This book is similar to Betty MacDonald's The Egg and I. Although the writing lacks MacDonald's sparkle, I think MacDonald's readers would like this book. ( )
  cbl_tn | Apr 28, 2012 |
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This is an engaging autobiographical account of a young American woman's life in her Samoan husband's native home. Fay Calkins, a descendant of Puritan settlers, met Vai Ala'ilima, a descendant of Samoan chiefs, while working on her doctoral dissertation in the Library of Congress. After an unconventional courtship and a typical American wedding, they set out for Western Samoa, where Fay was to find a way of life totally new and charming, if at times frustrating and confusing.Soon after her arrival in the islands, the bride of a few months found herself with a family of seven boys in a wide range of ages, sent by relatives to live with the new couple. She was stymied by the economics of trying to support numerous guests, relatives, and a growing family, and still contribute to the lavish feasts that were given on any pretext--feasts, where the guests brought baskets in which to take home as much of the largesse as they could carry.Fay tried to introduce American institutions: a credit union, a co-op, a work schedule, and hourly wages on the banana plantation begun by her and her husband. In each instance, she quickly learned that Samoans were unwilling or unable to grasp her Western ideas of input equaling output, of personal property, or of payment received for work done. Despite these frustrations and disappointments, however, life among the people of her Samoan chief was for Fay happy and productive.

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