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Helen Ames--recently widowed, coping with loss and grief, unable to do the work that has always sustained her--is beginning to depend far too much on her twenty-seven-year-old daughter, Tessa, and is meddling in her life, offering unsolicited and unwelcome advice. Helen's problems are compounded by her shocking discovery that her mild-mannered and loyal husband was apparently leading a double life. The Ameses had painstakingly saved for a happy retirement, but that money disappeared in show more several large withdrawals made by Helen's husband before he died. In order to support herself and garner a measure of much needed independence, Helen takes an unusual job that ends up offering far more than she had anticipated. And then a phone call from a stranger sets Helen on a surprising path of discovery that causes both mother and daughter to reassess what they thought they knew about each other, themselves, and what really makes a home and a family. show less

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kitkeller I didn't expect to finish this book -- I had convinced myself it was trite, maybe Christian-fiction. So I tried a couple of times to just put it down and move on to another book. But I *kept coming back* until I finally acknowledged, I like this book, and I really want to know what happens to these people. I recommend it -- you will care what happens. It's well-written and NOT trite and NOT Christian-fiction.
whimsicalkitten If you like Elizabeth Berg, you'll love the Beach House.
wrz2 A wonderful story of hope and faith of the women at home during WWII

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Found at a library sale, HOME SAFE (2009) was definitely a bargain and a delightful read, if a bit predictable after a certain point. But that's okay. Elizabeth Berg books are a secret vice. Comfort reading for this old man. This time she's writing about a recently widowed successful Chicago writer with writer's block, who is generally worried about her adult daughter, her aging parents and a more immediate problem of what did her late husband do with most of their million dollar retirement fund. In fact this woman appears to be so wealthy, it was a bit hard to relate. But no matter. She fills her time by teaching a writing class full of interesting types at her local library, the mystery is solved and a possible new love enters her show more life. As in most of Elizabeth Berg's books, everything works out well in the end, like a Hallmark movie, but with an infinitely better script and more interesting characters. This used book was an in-between read, and was, in that role, nearly perfect. Bless you, Elizabeth.

- Tim Bazzett, author of the memoir, BOOKLOVER
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Patrons at the library recommend books all the time, but I rarely respond to their suggestions. However, in the case of the Home Safe, I had this weird feeling that the patron who recommended it to me was like an older version of me, so of course I had to read what future-me was reading.

And Home Safe is totally what future-me wants to read. A warm, cozy, intelligent, emotional story about a 59-year-old woman who is adjusting to life after the death of her husband. Like a more optimistic Anne Tyler.
Despite my troublesome attitude toward Helen, I really liked this book. Elizabeth Burg is eloquent in her simplicity. About 50 pages in, I was ready to give up on this book. I didn't like the characters. I didn't like the story. I didn't like the writing style. I stuck with it though. I still don't particularly care for Helen or her daughter; but the story is exceptional.

I know why, initially, I hated the story. I was reading it as if I expected outside action. This is not the way this story plays out. This is about internal dialogue and working through emotions. Home Safe is a character study using some stream of consciousness; and that makes for an uncomfortable read.
I didn't know Elizabeth Berg before I read this book but I certainly want to get to know her now. I really enjoyed this book. It centers around Helen, who is not recovering from her husband's Dan's death like she and others feel she ought to. Had some beautiful depictions of grief and stuckness, which managed to make you feel the pain but not impatient with it - no mean feat. Helen is flawed and somewhat irritating, but I loved her cri du couer to her good friend about wanting to write about women who want to be looked after, that she never wanted indepence in the first place. I also like how the portrait of Dan moved from perfect dead husband, to lost flawed human. It was a very satisfactory novel on many levels and I will read Ms Berg show more again. I also emailed my family and told them all to read it, not something I usually do, so this definitely had an impact on me. show less
It was particularly interesting to read Berg's acknowledgements, in which she said she herself faced writer's block, and her daughter told her, then write about not being able to write. It takes a talented writer to tell that story. Home Safe might be Helen Ames' story, but it's also a beautifully written story of a writer, who feels as if she lost everything, not only her beloved husband, but also her writing, the art that gave her a reason to live. She lost the husband, and the writing, what kept her Home Safe.
After the death of her beloved husband, Helen Ames and her adult daughter, Teresa, struggle to cope with the grief, However, Helen is dismayed to learn that her husband may not have been the honest man she thought he was. Upon investigating, Helen notices that large withdrawals were made from his savings account just prior to his death. Meanwhile, Tessa grapples with the difficulties of finding love.
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I've been reading a lot of particularly fine novels lately by women authors, with female lead characters who are forced to grow in uncomfortable and unexpected ways when their lives are suddenly upheaved. This is one such book, about Helen Ames, a recently widowed novelist who finds herself frozen in life after her husband's death, unable to write anymore, and too dependent on her adult daughter for the simplest of life's tasks, which her husband had always performed. Her world is further shattered by the discovery that before his death, her husband withdrew most of their life savings for an unknown purpose. When she does discover what his intentions were, she is forced to weave this knowledge into the fabric of the new life she is show more attempting to create for herself. A very good book with a satisfying and realistic conclusion. show less

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Elizabeth Berg was born December 2, 1948 and educated at the University of Minnesota and at St. Mary's College. Elizabeth Berg's first novel was "Durable Goods". "Talk Before Sleep" was a 1996 Abby Honor Book & a "New York Times" bestseller. "Range of Motion", "The Pull of the Moon", & "Joy School" were all critically acclaimed bestsellers. In show more 1996, she won the New England Booksellers Award for body of work. In 1997, she won the NEBA Award in fiction, and in 2000 became the author of an Oprah Book Club selection. Her book, The Dream Lover, is a New York Times 2015 bestseller. (Bowker Author Biography) show less

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Canonical title
Home Safe
Original title
Home Safe
Original publication date
1995; 1993
People/Characters
Nan, Martin, Ruthie, Nana Exsanna Popana; Betta Nolan; Elvis Presley; Samantha Morrow; Paige Dunn; Helen Ames (show all 26); Diana Dunn; Katie Nash; Peacie; Tessa Ames; Kitty Heaney; Dan Ames; Diane Nash; Tom Ellis; David Morrow; Midge; Mr. Nash; Louise Heaney; Cherylanne; Lydia Fitch; Belle; Tish Heaney; Bubba; Travis Morrow; Dickie Mac; King
Important places
Boston, Massachusetts, USA; Tupelo, Mississippi, USA; Oak Park, Illinois, USA; Texas, USA; Mill Valley, California, USA; Chicago, Illinois, USA
Important events
World War II
Epigraph
If we look at the path, we do not
see the sky. We are earth people
on a spiritual journey to the stars.
Our quest, our earth walk, is to look
within, to know who we are, to see that
we are connected to all thi... (show all)ngs,
that there is no separation,
only in the mind.
--Native American, source unknown
You get the hovering gray of early morning, or late afternoon-- the hours of yearning.

There's the wind and the rain

And the mercy of the fallen. . .

There's the weak and the strong

And the many stars that guide us

We have some of them inside us

--Dar Williams

"The M... (show all)ercy of the Fallen"
Again the pyrocanthus berries redden in the rain, as if return were return. It is not. The familiar is not the thing it reminds of.
Today, like every other day, we wake up empty and frightened. Don't open the door to the study and begin reading. Take down the dulcimer.
Dedication
For Jean-Isabel NcNutt
For those who have gone before us.
For Pat Raming and Marianne Raming Burke
For women with cancer
who have found their fire,
and for those who are
still searching.
For Jennifer Sarene Berg and Julie Marin Krintzman
For my father, Arthur P. Hoff, who taught me the meaning of true courage and good character.
First words
Dear Martin, I know you think I keep that green rock by my bed because I like its color.
I had been right to want to drive to the midwest, taking only the back roads.
Oftentimes on summer evenings, I would sit outside with my mother and look at the constellations.
This morning, before I came to Ruth's house, I made yet another casserole for my husband and my daughter.
You know before you know, of course. You are bending over the dryer, pulling out the still-warm sheets, and the knowledge walks up your backbone. You stare at the man you love and you are staring at nothing; he is gone befo... (show all)re he is gone
One Saturday when she was nine years old, Helen Ames went into the basement, sat at the card table her mother used for folding laundry, and began writing.
Well, I have broken the toilet.
It was Kitty's turn to sleep with her head at the foot of the bed.
Quotations
Sex is so shaky and mysterious. I will never unravel it.
…it had put them on the fast track for being comfortable with each other. As they were, ever after. Always comfortable in a way that Dan described as home safe.
I do not believe the army is a good idea for people with regular human hearts.
Without her husband or the practice of laying out words on a page, she feels that she spends her days rattling around inside herself; that, whereas she used to be a whole and happy woman, now she is many pieces of battered se... (show all)lf, slung together in a sack of skin.
What she feels, suddenly, is that she has come to see Dan. He is not here, but here he is.
A friend of hers … once described such acts of kindness as hold knots on life’s climbing rope..
Helen turns to face her friend. “You know, sometimes you just don’t get it. I know you think I’ve had enough time to grieve. But I’m not like you, Midge. I feel things more deeply. I –“ “Okay,” Midge says. “... (show all)Let me tell you something, Miss I-Feel-the-Pea. I feel the pea, too! All of us feel the pea! The difference is what each of us chooses to do about it! Or has to do about it!”
Last words
(Click to show. Warning: May contain spoilers.)Perhaps we'll see each other. Love, Nan
(Click to show. Warning: May contain spoilers.)For us, it was the opposite.
(Click to show. Warning: May contain spoilers.)I say she was right.
(Click to show. Warning: May contain spoilers.)It's so she can find me.
(Click to show. Warning: May contain spoilers.)We are full of faith, blessed by it. I remember now.
(Click to show. Warning: May contain spoilers.)She sees her table, set for one: a plate, a glass, a knife, a fork, and a spoon, its little metal bowl reflecting whatever comes down to it, up. It is this image that will shape the way the woman will come into the bookstore, the way she will unknot her scarf and slide our of her coat, then begin walking the aisles, searching for something she is bound to find.
(Click to show. Warning: May contain spoilers.)"Hey, wake up," he is saying. "Everything is here."
(Click to show. Warning: May contain spoilers.)She didn't look at him, either; nor did she speak again until they got to the house, where Louise stood at the open door, smiling, waiting for them both.
Blurbers
Gould, Joan
Original language*
Engels US
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Fiction and Literature, General Fiction
DDC/MDS
813.54Literature & rhetoricAmerican literature in EnglishAmerican fiction in English1900-19991945-1999
LCC
PS3552 .E6996 .H66Language and LiteratureAmerican literatureAmerican literatureIndividual authors1961-
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