Autographed

As an often frazzled mother of a three-year-old with autism, I often write about our frustrations and triumphs. One of my friends surprised me by sending me this book to help lift me up on those bad days.

Overall, it's a very good book. It's nice in that it covers the entire range of the autism spectrum from Asperger's to full, almost mute autism, and all ages. Most anyone with a family member with autism will find several stories they can relate to. Some of my favorites were "Escalatorland" and "Good Marching." It's very comforting to know I'm not alone in my frustration and public embarrassment, and it's good to see there are other kids like my little guy who have gone on to excel. Other kids who quote complete dialogue from TV shows, have odd obsessions (my son knew all 50 states and their locations at age 2), and taught themselves to read, while at the same time they can't greet someone hello or look at wet food without vomiting.

However, not everything was comforting. I found myself getting tense at some points because the book brought up fears that we're just not ready to confront yet. Worries that this brilliant little boy will get lost in the school system, or be shuffled into a special ed class despite his incredible rote memory and abilities. I don't even want to think about that; one day at a time is quite sufficient. I'll be keeping this book around because I do believe I'll re-read some select stories on those rotten days when I desperately need reassurance. (Though I'll need more than a mere cup then - more like gallons, or a bathtub full.) ( )