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Loading... The Dance of Intimacy: A Woman's Guide to Courageous Acts of Change in Key Relationshipsby Harriet Lerner
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Sign up for LibraryThing to find out whether you'll like this book. No current Talk conversations about this book. All relationship involves a given level of anxiety. Often we manage the anxiety either through over-functioning and pursuing or through under-functioning and distancing. Both actions are reactive to the anxiety in the relationship, rather than self-defining, and undermine our attempts to understand who we and the other person actually are. We can't change other people, but we can set boundaries and limits as to how much negative behavior we will tolerate as well as minimums concerning intimacy. Often we create emotional triangles (family systems theory) with third parties in order to avoid facing the anxiety. It is better to have separate relationships with individuals rather than to get caught up in triangles. no reviews | add a review
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In The Dance of Intimacy, the bestselling author of The Dance of Anger outlines the steps to take so that good relationships can be strengthened and difficult ones can be healed. Taking a careful look at those relationships where intimacy is most challenged by distance, intensity, or pain she teaches us about the specific changes we can make to achieve a more solid sense of self and a more intimate connectedness with others. Combining clear advice with vivid case examples, Dr. Lerner offers us the most solid, helpful book on intimate relationships that both women and men may ever encounter. No library descriptions found. |
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Google Books — Loading... GenresMelvil Decimal System (DDC)155.633Philosophy and Psychology Psychology Developmental And Differential Psychology Adults By Sex WomenLC ClassificationRatingAverage:
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I would have given it a 5, but design matters. It's time for an updated edition. When that happens, I'll buy a copy for my library. ( )