HomeGroupsTalkMoreZeitgeist
Search Site
This site uses cookies to deliver our services, improve performance, for analytics, and (if not signed in) for advertising. By using LibraryThing you acknowledge that you have read and understand our Terms of Service and Privacy Policy. Your use of the site and services is subject to these policies and terms.

Results from Google Books

Click on a thumbnail to go to Google Books.

Loading...

Designing the Mind: The Principles of Psychitecture

by Designing the Mind

MembersReviewsPopularityAverage ratingConversations
681393,196 (3.83)None
"What are the communication habits of highly effective people? It comes down to one secret: Highly effective people speak how the human mind evolved to interpret information. The result? They easily persuade and instantly influence, turning communication from an obstacle into an opportunity. They enrich their careers, get more done, and advance with stunning speed. They impact and inspire others, rising to positions of leadership. They quickly succeed, excel with ease, and shape the world. They attract support, feel confident, and smash goal after goal. Who are they? Presidents and CEOs; top-performers and respected professionals; leaders and visionaries. In How Highly Effective People Speak, you'll discover 194 communication habits of highly effective people (proven by 57 scientific studies)."--From back cover… (more)
None
Loading...

Sign up for LibraryThing to find out whether you'll like this book.

No current Talk conversations about this book.

I was offered a copy of this book in exchange for feedback and a fair and honest review.

This book explores techniques for improving your algorithms of thought. Although the particulars of this book are quite good, I am slightly put off by the strict focus on improvement and the general attitude that the book has "the" answers. While we certainly all have room to improve our algorithms of thought, I think the real power of these techniques is they allow us to engage in a curiosity led journey of self discovery with respect to our thoughts. For example, the chapter on emotional self mastery takes a very instrumental view of emotions. While I agree with equanimity as a goal, the idea that the only purpose of emotions is to advance our goals leaves me a bit cold.

The book covers common cognitive and emotional biases as well as techniques to counter these biases. Cognitive biases prevent us from seeing the external world clearly. Emotional biases reduce the clarity with which we see our internal use. Combating our biases helps us judge rightly about our lives.

We can learn to align our lives with our deepest values. We need to realize that many of our goals come from our desires or the defaults set by society. Instead, we need to analyze our values and use those to drive our goals. By continually refining our values and goals we can create a life aligned with those values. When we have goals that do not align with our values, we will be less motivated to work toward them.

Once we have value aligned goals, we can learn to control our emotions. We do this not by rejecting our emotions but instead by changing how we react to our negative emotions. The goal of emotional regulation is to generate a sense of equanimity. You want to feel emotions without being controlled by them.

We also need to control our desires. We can choose which desires we want to focus on — ideally, the ones that align with our goals and our values. Willpower is hard to maintain and easily backslides, so the more our desires align with our goals, the more we're be able to build up maintainable habits. We can also make sure our desires are put in the proper perspective. By focusing on intrinsic desires, practicing giving up desires, and having a diversity of desires to focus on, we can become more resilient in the face of unfulfilled desires.

The culmination of all this is the ability to master your own behaviors. This allows you to direct your life toward the goals and values you want to be true to. If we align these our values, goals, and desires, then advancing our goals will become effortless and playful rather than tedious and work-like.

Self mastery is is accessible to anyone in any circumstance, no matter how good or bad. Working to improve oneself should be a life goal of every person. Doing so can help people realize their potential. ( )
  eri_kars | Jul 10, 2022 |
no reviews | add a review
You must log in to edit Common Knowledge data.
For more help see the Common Knowledge help page.
Canonical title
Original title
Alternative titles
Original publication date
People/Characters
Important places
Important events
Related movies
Epigraph
Dedication
First words
Quotations
Last words
Disambiguation notice
Publisher's editors
Blurbers
Original language
Canonical DDC/MDS
Canonical LCC

References to this work on external resources.

Wikipedia in English

None

"What are the communication habits of highly effective people? It comes down to one secret: Highly effective people speak how the human mind evolved to interpret information. The result? They easily persuade and instantly influence, turning communication from an obstacle into an opportunity. They enrich their careers, get more done, and advance with stunning speed. They impact and inspire others, rising to positions of leadership. They quickly succeed, excel with ease, and shape the world. They attract support, feel confident, and smash goal after goal. Who are they? Presidents and CEOs; top-performers and respected professionals; leaders and visionaries. In How Highly Effective People Speak, you'll discover 194 communication habits of highly effective people (proven by 57 scientific studies)."--From back cover

No library descriptions found.

Book description
Haiku summary

Current Discussions

None

Popular covers

Quick Links

Rating

Average: (3.83)
0.5
1
1.5
2
2.5
3 1
3.5 1
4
4.5
5 1

Is this you?

Become a LibraryThing Author.

 

About | Contact | Privacy/Terms | Help/FAQs | Blog | Store | APIs | TinyCat | Legacy Libraries | Early Reviewers | Common Knowledge | 207,013,337 books! | Top bar: Always visible