This is one of the few parenting books that I found truly helpful. It describes the intersection of memory, neurology and parenting -- especially during those moments when you're "triggered" by something your child does (crying, defiance, etc.). It helps parents understand how working their own issues can deeply nurture their relationship with their own child and, ultimately, help their children's self-esteem and self-possession take root.

It's also written in lay terms and a conversational style, so it's really easy to grasp what could be remote and academic information -- and relate it to everyday life. A really wonderful book that every parent should read. ( )