David Murray (18)

Series of essays on how to communicate during this hard time in the country. He starts with broad strokes on dealing with leaders, politicians, and strangers then makes the focus smaller to collegues, family, friends, and neighbors. I found the broad strokes interesting but not full of ways to communicate as I am not out in the public much anymore. I found it much more interesting the last two chapters of the book when he talks about the smaller sphere of influence around me--friends, show more family, co-workers, and neighbors. He has a lot of good ideas on how to communicate so you are understood and can understand what the other party is saying. Also gives some good advice on words not to use. I did like certain essays better. The one on asking for what you want is especially applicable (first section of book.) I laughed over the chapter when he talks about those people who will not pick up a phone or do a face-to-face meeting (Read Bonding in the Virtual World, chapter 5.) Most of the last two chapters are good because they are so relatable as I could see people I know in these situations.

This is a book that is quick to read, if you want to read it quick. Or you could use it as a bathroom book where you read one essay per visit as each essay is short and thought provoking. I'm glad I read these. show less

An Effort To Understand is a book of essays that has been published at the perfect time! Murray is a talented, top-notch writer and his efforts do not go unnoticed. Some essays are personal, some work-related and some political and the author teaches you how to be an effective communicator in all situations. Every single American right now needs to read this book! Highly recommend!