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A new memoir from Sunday Times and New York Times bestselling author Cathy Glass, now with an exclusive preview of Cathy's inspiring new title, Please Don't Take My Baby, coming out on April 25th. Eight-year-old Aimee was on the child protection register at birth. Her five older siblings were taken into care many years ago. So no one can understand why she was left at home to suffer for so long. It seems Aimee was forgotten. The social services are looking for a very experienced foster carer show more to look after Aimee and, when she reads the referral, Cathy understands why. Despite her reservations, Cathy agrees to Aimee on - there is something about her that reminds Cathy of Jodie (the subject of 'Damaged' and the most disturbed child Cathy has cared for), and reading the report instantly tugs at her heart strings. When she arrives, Aimee is angry. And she has every right to be. She has spent the first eight years of her life living with her drug-dependent mother in a flat that the social worker described as 'not fit for human habitation'. Aimee is so grateful as she snuggles into her bed at Cathy's house on the first night that it brings Cathy to tears. Aimee's aggressive mother is constantly causing trouble at contact, and makes sweeping allegations against Cathy and her family in front of her daughter as well. It is a trying time for Cathy, and it makes it difficult for Aimee to settle. But as Aimee begins to trust Cathy, she starts to open up. And the more Cathy learns about Aimee's life before she came into care, the more horrified she becomes. It's clear that Aimee should have been rescued much sooner and as her journey seems to be coming to a happy end, Cathy can't help but reflect on all the other 'forgotten children' that are still. show less

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Eight-year-old Aimee is an angry child and one that is used to doing what she wants. She comes from a home where here older siblings have already been through the foster care system and her mother is a drug addict. Social Services is trying to find someone to take care of this child, who has fallen through the cracks. In comes Cathy, who tries her best to give the girl the love and affection she sorely needs.

This is not fiction but true life stories experience by the author. It is interesting the see the problems that the British social service systems are similar to those we experience in the states. Cathy writes from the heart and Aimee’s story is heart wrenching. I found this to be a very moving memoir and appreciate the work the show more author has done for these children. show less
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I enjoyed this book and once I started reading I almost couldn't put it down .I finished it within 2 days because I just had to find out what happened to Aimee. Another Forgotten Child is a true story from England, but I think there are many similarities to the American protective child service system. The author's account of her experience as a foster parent to 8 year old Aimee gave me great appreciation of the work that foster parents do. They often have to sacrifice a lot in order to give much needed TLC to a child from a broken home. It takes a lot of patience, strength and love to do that. It's people like Mrs. Glass who give foster children hope and show them that there is a better way of life than what their parents could give them.
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Such a sad page-turner! I absolutely could not put this down until I found out what had happened to Aimee. Even though this happened in England, and other reviewers have compared it to America as well.. Honestly, this is happening everywhere. It's a sad truth, with kids getting caught in the mistakes of the parents, and enduring all forms of abuse.

What Ms. Glass does is a wonderful thing, and she has a lot of patience, especially when Aimee says how much she enjoys a trip out and the foods she eats, to telling her mom how terrible everything is. Some kids are just too broken to be helped as much as we would like, but happily Aimee was not one of them. I'll be looking for more of Ms. Glass's books in the library, and her future publications.
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Cathy Glass is a pseudonym for a prolific author who writes about her personal experiences as a foster parent in the U.K. Another Forgotten Child is Cathy Glass's latest book/memoir. Aimee is a terribly abused and neglected eight year old child who was on the at risk child protection register at birth, but still fell through the cracks of a woefully inadequate, unorganized system. This bureaucratic oversight resulted in Aimee being left with a vicious, drug addicted, negligent mother, Susan. When Glass took over her care, Aimee was filthy, dressed in ill-fitting rags, lice-ridden, covered in bruises, and had no experience with basic personal hygiene. She had a defiant attitude, and had been subsisting on a horrendous diet consisting show more mostly of sweets. Soon Glass also realized that Aimee was likely also the victim of sexual abuse.

Aimee's mother, Susan, who had all five of her older children removed from her care years ago, knew how to work the system and complain, exaggerate, and twist events to try and exploit the various social workers an get her way. She is very insulting, threatening, and difficult to work with. It is obvious that Aimee's ordered supervised visits with her mother three times a week, and the telephone calls on the days other days were not in her best interest.

Set up as relating a chronological series of events to the reader, like a journal, Glass's account of Aimee's arrival and her discovery of additional information is presented in a forthright way with no hyperbole or drama - beyond what Glass does to protect herself from Susan's unfounded accusations. She also includes many of the day to day actions that occurred while caring for Aimee. While there are times when this approach feels tiresome, the whole story is still very riveting. It is almost like you are reading a caseworkers detached account of a client.

The biggest thing Cathy Glass does, beyond helping Aimee, is making an incontrovertible case that Aimee was not properly watched and served by the social services system in the U.K. In her case they did not serve her best interests and their neglect cause a child to suffer harm needlessly for eight years.

Very Highly Recommended - I had a few reservations about Cathy Glass's Another Forgotten Child however, once I started reading it I could not put it down.

Disclosure: I received an advanced reading copy of this book from the publisher and TLC for review purposes.
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Another Forgotten Child by Cathy Glass is both heartbreaking and heartwarming. Although this story takes place in the UK and I live the US, we often hear of stories such as this. It breaks my heart that children anywhere in the world should suffer abuse or neglect such as Aimee did in this story. As Cathy told Aimee's story I had tears in my eyes, this made me wish that I could reach out and give this child and so many others like her a big hug! I admire the good foster carer/parent's that truly care and help the children that need to learn what love and to be cared for are. I will be reading more of Cathy's books now that I have found them.

I received a free copy of this book in exchange for my honest review, rather it be good or bad.
This review was written for LibraryThing Early Reviewers.
Such an eye opening read, and it reads very fast, and yet I felt I was standing next to Cathy the whole time. Being there from the first when Aimee arrives.
Cathy has such a kind and firm way about her, and I can see that God has given her such a gift and put her where she needs to be. Be sure to have a box of tissues handy, some unbelievable things come out...yet they aren't unbelievable, as evil does walk this earth.
This story takes place in England, but it sounds like here in the States, a child getting lost in the system. Happens way to often, no Child left behind...not true! I personally know of one, and the State she lives in wants the child to take care of the unfit Mother...no advocate for the Child.
Thank you Cathy for sharing show more your gifts, and then sharing them with us. May you be blessed!

I received this book through The Library Thing Early Reviewers Program, and was not required to give a positive review.
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This review was written for LibraryThing Early Reviewers.
Another Forgotten Child by Cathy Glass tells the true story of a young girl who came into her home through the foster care system after “slipping through the net,” and suffering eight years of unnecessary abuse and neglect at the hands of a drug-addicted mother who had already lost five older children to the care system. The story explains the horrific abuse suffered by Aimee prior to coming into care and takes us along her journey into her transition to a new life.

I chose to read this book because I think it is important for children like Aimee to have their stories told. I've previously read books about child abuse situations and they were written entirely from the perspective of the child (as an adult). This book gives the show more insight to foster care and child abuse from the foster care provider’s perspective. I feel that this perspective is a unique way to experience the chain of events that occurs as the child transitions from a very difficult life into learning how to be a child again and assimilate properly into “normal” society where they are a part of a healthy, safe environment.

The story started out a bit slow for me. However, as I read on, I found myself curious to see how Aimee adapted to her new life, and learn more about why she behaved the way she did. It was both heart-breaking and inspiring to know that this actually happened in real life. On one hand, you have Susan, a completely horrific and unfit mother. On another hand, you have Cathy, who opens up her home, her family, and her heart, to ultimately change the outcome of this little girl’s life forever.

This is the first of Glass’ books that I've read. The book is 309 pages and I read it in three days. The further into the story I got, the more I wanted to find out what would become of Aimee. I would probably read more of Glass’ books in this series.
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Cathy Glass is a British author, freelance writer and foster caregiver. Glass has also written a parenting guide to bringing up children, Happy Kids, a guide to feeding children healthily, Happy Mealtimes, a general wellness guide, Happy Adults, a writing guide, About Writing and How to Publish, and three novels based on her 25 years as a foster show more parent. Her fostering memoir, Will You Love Me?, was published in September 2013; it tells the story of Lucy, her adopted daughter. In 2015, this memoir was listed on the New York Times bestseller list. (Bowker Author Biography) show less

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Another forgotten child
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