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How To Be a Good Wife

by Emma Chapman

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"In the tradition of Emma Donoghue's Room and S.J. Watson's Before I Go to Sleep, a haunting literary debut about a woman who begins having visions that make her question everything she knows. Marta and Hector have been married for a long time. Through the good and bad; through raising a son and sending him off to life after university. So long, in fact, that Marta finds it difficult to remember her life before Hector. He has always taken care of her, and she has always done everything she can to be a good wife--as advised by a dog-eared manual given to her by Hector's aloof mother on their wedding day. But now, something is changing. Small things seem off. A flash of movement in the corner of her eye, elapsed moments that she can't recall. Visions of a blonde girl in the darkness that only Marta can see. Perhaps she is starting to remember--or perhaps her mind is playing tricks on her. As Marta's visions persist and her reality grows more disjointed, it's unclear if the danger lies in the world around her, or in Marta herself. The girl is growing more real every day, and she wants something"--… (more)
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Gripping, psychological mystery-adjacent novel. Not sure every bit of it hung together, and there were a few "why are you doing that!" moments, but, still, well constructed.
  thisisstephenbetts | Nov 25, 2023 |
THIS. UGH. UGH. UGH. I DON'T KNOW WHAT I THINK. I DON'T KNOW HOW I FEEL. AM I EVEN HUMAN?

This was legitimately a psychological thriller. I am psychologically distressed. My brain has been twisted. Very good. ( )
  whakaora | Mar 5, 2023 |
This was one of those rare books that you seriously cannot put down. I read it in one sitting. Yes, it's only 166 pages, but I seriously could not walk away from this book. My nook battery died about mid-way through the book and I stood in my kitchen with it plugged into the wall reading that way until the battery was charged up enough to go back and sit down!! I love the way this author writes to make you feel as if you are the character you are reading about. You are inside inside her mind. Her jumbled thoughts and memories came alive on the pages. I felt her turmoil and her anger as her "hallucinations" became reality. I felt the fear of the little girl she was seeing. I became the character. The ending is not what I wanted but what I half-expected so it was not surprising although a little sad. From what I understand this is a first novel by this author and I will definitely be looking out for more from her. ( )
  Jen-Lynn | Aug 1, 2022 |
Five stars is because it's a first book and it's great. It should be a movie! ( )
  Sunandsand | Apr 30, 2022 |
This was an audiobook narrated by Fenella Woolgar. It's less than seven hours long and I listened to it over the course of about a week while out on my daily run. I did try listening to this book a few years ago but had to give up because I just found it so bleak and frankly boring; but tastes change and I thought I would give it another go.

The narrator is a woman called Marta, who certainly comes under the category of unreliable narrator. Set in an unnamed (but feels Scandinavian) country, Marta is married to the much older Hector and they have a grown son called Kylan. She is on medication - or supposed to be, but as we learn early on, she is not taking it despite Hector physically giving her her pills each day.

When Marta starts to have hallucinations about a young girl which develop into memories? or imaginings? (we are never quite sure), she starts to doubt her marriage to Hector. She tells Kylan, but he, like the reader, is never sure what to believe. Is Marta finally remembering buried past events now that her medication is not blurring her recall, or has her stopping medication caused her to think things that aren't true?

In any event, I'm sorry to say that I did not enjoy this book and almost gave up on it a second time. It was relentlessly bleak and unfortunately I found myself bored by it. The first two thirds of the book seemed to consist of Marta wondering around in her own little world, describing the most mundane things. This may well have been deliberate, to illustrate the mundane life which Marta led, but I just couldn't get bothered about it. Hector and his mother are incredibly overbearing and have obviously dominated Marta throughout her marriage. (The title of the novel comes from a book that his mother gave to Marta when they got married and it's full of sexist and complete out of date advice about how a woman should please her husband.)

In the last third of the book, things actually started happening and it did pick up a bit. However, for me it was too little, too late. Ultimately I found Marta to be a more frustrating character than a sympathetic one, and the only characters who really seemed halfway nice people were Kylan and his girlfriend Katya (my advice to Katya - remove yourself from this family immediately!)

Expertly narrated, which is one thing going for it. Fairly short, which I was relieved about. Many people have clearly read and enjoyed this according to the many online reviews I have read. I was not one of them though, and I don't think I'll be seeking out anything else by this author. ( )
  Ruth72 | Aug 26, 2021 |
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'And below is always the accumulated past, which vanishes but does not vanish, which perishes and remains'

--Marilynne Robinson, Housekeeping
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For Kate and Keith Chapman
for teaching me everything I know

'Come on my history horses!'
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Today, somehow, I am a smoker.
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"In the tradition of Emma Donoghue's Room and S.J. Watson's Before I Go to Sleep, a haunting literary debut about a woman who begins having visions that make her question everything she knows. Marta and Hector have been married for a long time. Through the good and bad; through raising a son and sending him off to life after university. So long, in fact, that Marta finds it difficult to remember her life before Hector. He has always taken care of her, and she has always done everything she can to be a good wife--as advised by a dog-eared manual given to her by Hector's aloof mother on their wedding day. But now, something is changing. Small things seem off. A flash of movement in the corner of her eye, elapsed moments that she can't recall. Visions of a blonde girl in the darkness that only Marta can see. Perhaps she is starting to remember--or perhaps her mind is playing tricks on her. As Marta's visions persist and her reality grows more disjointed, it's unclear if the danger lies in the world around her, or in Marta herself. The girl is growing more real every day, and she wants something"--

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