Things I've Learned from Dying: A Book About Life

by David R. Dow

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""Every life is different, but every death is the same. We live with others. We die alone." In his riveting, artfully written memoir The Autobiography of an Execution, David Dow enraptured readers with a searing and frank exploration of his work defending inmates on death row. But when Dow's father-in-law receives his own death sentence in the form of terminal cancer, and his gentle dog Winona suffers acute liver failure, the author is forced to reconcile with death in a far more personal show more way, both as a son and as a father. Told through the disparate lenses of the legal battles he's spent a career fighting, and the intimate confrontations with death each family faces at home, THINGS I'VE LEARNED FROM DYING offers a poignant and lyrical account of how illness and loss can ravage a family. Full of grace and intelligence, Dow offers readers hope without cliché and reaffirms our basic human needs for acceptance and love by giving voice to the anguish we all face--as parents, as children, as partners, as friends--when our loved ones die tragically, and far too soon"-- show less

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I couldn't put this down. This is David Dow's journey through the representation of several of his death row clients, particularly one who really got to him, during a time that his father-in-law was going through his own cancer/death journey and while his dog began dying from a mysterious debilitating condition. This book did what I love books to do and invoked many deep thoughts.

I felt drawn to read this because of my experience as an appellate lawyer, because cancer is my (our?) holocaust with no answer, and because I've also loved and lost pets.

This book is philosophically heartbreaking regardless of whether you believe in the death penalty, euthanasia, cancer treatment, and God. Yes, all of that is in one concise book, but it show more wasn't depressing to me, just very thought provoking.

I have an original signed edition, picked up at BookPeople in Austin, where I heard the Professor speak about the book.

P.S. Professor Dow, your son is brilliant.
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"Things I've Learned From Dying" is a story about David Dow's father-in-law who was diagnosed with cancer and a capital murder case that he is working. During the book it seems that they are going on simultaneously, however he notes that in real time that was not the case. I greatly enjoy Dow's ability to honestly deal with death. He brings together so many similarities of people who are diagnosed with cancer and those waiting to be executed - something some people may find appalling but I find fascinating. This book is highly insightful, filled with real emotions, and straight forward about both subjects.
I have had some grief lately and wanted to pick up this book to see if it would give me some insight. David Dow is a good writer and I enjoyed the stories but no insight, I'm afraid. Warning to anyone, if you are at all down this is probably not a good read for you.
biography, non-fiction, cancer and cancer decisions of Peter his father-in-law, Winona his dog, Waterman executed from Texas' death row, other death row criminals, author & family keenly intellectual & kind, gentle & loving. Is it better to anticipate & prepare for death or to die quickly? David Dow is a Texas death penalty lawyer. Secondary theme: good people. Quick read because of (for the most part) 1-3 page chapters.

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Epigraph
I could write a book about what I don't know.
- - Ryan Bingham, I Don't Know
Dedication
For Katya and Lincoln, my pillars
First words
Every life is different, but every death is the same. We live with others. We die alone.
Quotations
Everyone's pain is his own.
After love, the most potent human emotion is regret. It might be even more potent, because unlike love, you never get past it.
.....sometimes you have to make a mistake so you won't make it again.
What is an acceptable margin of error when you are deciding whether to end a life?
Time does not heal all wounds. Some pain becomes part of who you are.
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Terry Teachout; Dick Lehr; Bryan Mealer; Dahlia Lithwick

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Nonfiction, Biography & Memoir, General Nonfiction
DDC/MDS
155.9Philosophy & psychologyPsychologyDifferential and developmental psychologyEnvironmental psychology
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BF575 .D35 .D69Philosophy, Psychology and ReligionPsychologyPsychologyAffection. Feeling. Emotion
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