Meeting at the Crossroads
by Carol Gilligan
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On the way to womanhood, what does a girl give up? For five years, Lyn Mikel Brown and Carol Gilligan, asking this question, listened to one hundred girls who were negotiating the rough terrain of adolescence. This book invites us to listen, too, and to hear in these girls' voices what is rarely spoken, often ignored, and generally misunderstood: how the passage out of girlhood is a journey into silence, disconnection, and dissembling, a troubled crossing that our culture has plotted with show more dead ends and detours. In the course of their research, Brown and Gilligan developed a Listener's Guide - a method of following the pathways of girls' thoughts and feelings, of distinguishing what girls are saying by the way they say it. We witness the struggle girls undergo as they enter adolescence only to find that what they feel and think and know can no longer be said directly. We see them at a cultural impasse, and listen as they make the painful, necessary adjustments, outspokenness giving way to circumspection, self-knowledge to uncertainty, authority to compliance. These changes mark the edge of adolescence as a watershed in women's psychological development, a time of wrenching disjunctions between body and psyche, voice and desire, self and relationship. Brown and Gilligan open their method to us and share their discoveries as they encourage girls at different ages to speak about themselves in conversation with women. They follow some of these girls over time, listening to changes in their distinct voices from one year to the next, addressing their successes and failures as they confront one barrier after another. This groundbreaking work offers major new insights into girls' development and women's psychology. But perhaps more importantly, it provides women with the means of meeting girls at the critical crossroads of adolescence, of harkening to the voices of girlhood and sustaining their sell-affirming notes. show lessTags
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I mainly was drawn to this book because it was written about girls at my high school. They followed a group of girl that i knew tangentially, so I knew who they were profiling throughout, which made for a voyeuristic intrigue. With that disclaimer I did find many of their observations and interpretations interesting. The development of girls into women can be very perilous in ways that are unique to this sex. I would recommend it for anyone with female children, or who has an interest in female psychology/sociology.
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Carol Gilligan is University Professor at New York University and author of In a Different Voice, among other works. She was named by Time Magazine as one of the 25 most influential Americans.
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- Genres
- Nonfiction, Sexuality and Gender Studies, General Nonfiction
- DDC/MDS
- 155.5 — Philosophy & psychology Psychology Differential and developmental psychology Adolescence
- LCC
- HQ777 .B66 — Social sciences The family. Marriage, Women and Sexuality The Family. Marriage. Women The family. Marriage. Home Children. Child development
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- Languages
- English
- Media
- Paper, Ebook
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