Normal Sucks: How to Live, Learn, and Thrive, Outside the Lines
by Jonathan Mooney
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A writer diagnosed with dyslexia and ADHD as a child explores the toll the system takes on kids who are not "normal" and advocates for a revolution in the way society thinks about diversity, abilities, and disabilities.Tags
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Mooney writes to encourage people who have been trapped in the 'special ed' label to find what they are passionate about and follow that to let their true selves emerge. This may entail they--or their parents--demand the accommodations they need to succeed.
He includes a lot of history on the creation of 'normal', and shows that it really isn't a real conditon. He argues that our society is increasingly trying to narrow the range of diversity which will only end up causing us to lose the creativity and inventiveness that comes with differences. Luckily he mixes a lot of his own experiences, which makes the facts easier to move through. He also tells us of the despair felt by kids who keep trying to act normal, but can't live being a show more square peg in a round hole. You don't expect a middle schooler to feel the kind of hopelessness that leads to suicide, but it is real.
My published copy came with at least 3 dyslexic substitutions that his spellcheck didn't catch: "Interrupted" instead of "interpreted", "even" instead of "ever", and a repeated word. I still came away with the impression that this is a very intelligent person, which just goes to show that the educational labels don't mean that much.
Actually, the only value in the labels is if they get you the help you need, identify what kinds of approaches will help you learn best. Even tho a lot of his examples relate to his own expeiences of ADD and dyslexia, he includes an example that is closer to how I believe my son is: William, labelled mentally retarded, rarely speaks and barely maintains self-care, spent his class time watching the birds out the window and ignoring requests to get settled in his desk. Yet when he gives his classmates hugs, they break into smiles. Mooney describes him as having the emotional IQ of Gandhi, the spiritual intelligence of Jesus (p. 152). And these are qualities we need in this world. show less
He includes a lot of history on the creation of 'normal', and shows that it really isn't a real conditon. He argues that our society is increasingly trying to narrow the range of diversity which will only end up causing us to lose the creativity and inventiveness that comes with differences. Luckily he mixes a lot of his own experiences, which makes the facts easier to move through. He also tells us of the despair felt by kids who keep trying to act normal, but can't live being a show more square peg in a round hole. You don't expect a middle schooler to feel the kind of hopelessness that leads to suicide, but it is real.
My published copy came with at least 3 dyslexic substitutions that his spellcheck didn't catch: "Interrupted" instead of "interpreted", "even" instead of "ever", and a repeated word. I still came away with the impression that this is a very intelligent person, which just goes to show that the educational labels don't mean that much.
Actually, the only value in the labels is if they get you the help you need, identify what kinds of approaches will help you learn best. Even tho a lot of his examples relate to his own expeiences of ADD and dyslexia, he includes an example that is closer to how I believe my son is: William, labelled mentally retarded, rarely speaks and barely maintains self-care, spent his class time watching the birds out the window and ignoring requests to get settled in his desk. Yet when he gives his classmates hugs, they break into smiles. Mooney describes him as having the emotional IQ of Gandhi, the spiritual intelligence of Jesus (p. 152). And these are qualities we need in this world. show less
This book made me cry, but--in, uh, a good way?
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Jonathan Mooney is a dyslexic student who did not learn to read until he was twelve years old. After attending Loyola Marymount University for one year, he transferred to Brown University, where he graduated with an honors degree in English. Mooney is also the recipient of the distinguished Truman Fellowship for graduate study in the field of show more learning disabilities and special education David Cole is an ADHD student who dropped out of high school at age fifteen. After returning to school at the Putney School in Vermont, Cole attended Landmark College and then transferred to Brown University, where he graduated with an honors degree in visual arts show less
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