Letters to My Weird Sisters: On Autism, Feminism and Motherhood

by Joanne Limburg

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An autistic feminist author looks at women's history, in search of her 'weird sisters'. It seemed to me that many of the moments when my autism had caused problems, or at least marked me out as different, were those moments when I had come up against some unspoken law about how a girl or a woman should be, and failed to meet it. An autism diagnosis in midlife enabled Joanne Limburg to finally, make sense of why her emotional expression, social discomfort and presentation had always marked show more her as an outsider. Eager to discover other women who had been misunderstood in their time, she writes a series of wide-ranging letters to four 'weird sisters' from history, addressing topics including autistic parenting, social isolation, feminism, the movement for disability rights and the appalling punishments that have been meted out over centuries to those deemed to fall short of the norm. This heartfelt, deeply compassionate and wholly original work humanizes women, who have so often, been dismissed for their differences, and will be celebrated by 'weird sisters' everywhere. show less

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Autism and feminism, in the form of letters to Virginia Woolf, Adelheid Bloch, Frau V and Katharina Kepler. Bloch was “a German Jewish woman who had learning disabilities following a bout of childhood meningitis,” killed because of her disabilities (Limburg notes that Woolf, an anti-Semite and eugenicist, would not have thought her worthy of life). Frau V was the mother of one of Asperger’s patients, whose own characteristics as reported by Asperger are suggestive of autism. Katharina Kepler was Johannes Kepler’s mother; he defended her in a witch trial. “Katharina had an unfortunate habit of rubbing people up the wrong way. She did this by being assertive, forthright and persistent, by preferring rational argument to tears, show more and by refusing to bestow sympathy on someone just because they asked for it.” Without diagnosing them, Limburg writes about their weirdness as a way of understanding autism and women. Eloquent about humilitation, eugenics, motherhood, and other topics. A key note: “Weirdness is not the same as conscious rebellion or resistance, though it may come to inform it.” show less
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This book was wonderful. Joanne writes about autism and femininity with great care and a deep understanding. She weaves together different literature on the subject and brings forward the history and it’s intersections with both areas of study (disability and feminism). A must read and a new favorite of mine.

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Joanne Limburg is a woman who thinks things she doesn't want to think, and who does things she doesn't want to do. As a small child, she would chew her hair all day and lie awake at night wondering if heaven had a ceiling; a few years later, when she should have been doing her homework, she was pacing her bedroom, agonising about the unfairness of show more life as a woman, and the shortness of her legs. By the time she was an adult, obsessive thoughts and compulsive behaviours had come to dominate her life. She knew that something was wrong with her, but it would take many years before she understood what that something was. show less

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Canonical title
Letters to My Weird Sisters: On Autism, Feminism and Motherhood
Original publication date
2021
People/Characters
Joanne Limburg; Virginia Woolf; Adelheid Bloch; Frau V.; Katharina Kepler; Caron Freeborn
Important places
Bloomsbury, London, England, UK; Bäden-Würtemberg, Germany
Important events
Holocaust; COVID-19 pandemic
First words
You may have heard of Uncanny Valley.
Last words
(Click to show. Warning: May contain spoilers.)I'm always going to keep you with me as I write from now on, and I make no fucking apology for that.
Blurbers
May, Katherine; Silberman, Steve; Gibbs, Sara; Benjamin, Marina; Salman, Saba
Original language
English

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Nonfiction, Sexuality and Gender Studies, General Nonfiction, History, Literature Studies and Criticism, Biography & Memoir
DDC/MDS
305.42Social sciencesSocial sciences, sociology & anthropologyGroups of peopleWomenSocial role and status of women
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G2021Geography, Anthropology and RecreationAtlasesBy region or countryEastern Hemisphere. Eurasia, Africa, etc.Europe
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