The Usual Rules

by Joyce Maynard

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It's a Tuesday morning in Brooklyn---a perfect September day. Wendy is heading to school, eager to make plans with her best friend, worried about how she looks, mad at her mother for not letting her visit her father in California, impatient with her little brother and with the almost too-loving concern of her jazz musician stepfather. She's out the door to catch the bus. An hour later comes the news: A plane has crashed into the World Trade Center---her mother's office building. Through the show more eyes of thirteen-year-old Wendy, we gain entrance to the world rarely shown by those who documented the events of that one terrible day: a family's slow and terrible realization that Wendy's mother has died, and their struggle to go on with their lives in the face of such a crushing loss. Absent for years, Wendy's real father shows up without warning. He takes her back with him to California, where she re-invents her life: Wendy now lives more or less on her own in a one-room apartment with a TV set and not much else. Wendy's new circle now includes her father's cactus-grower girlfriend, newly reconnected with the son she gave up for adoption twenty years before; a sad and tender bookstore owner who introduces her to the voice of Anne Frank and to his autistic son; and a homeless skateboarder, on a mission to find his long-lost brother. Over the winter and spring that follow, Wendy moves between the alternately painful and reassuring memories of her mother and the revelations that come with growing to know her real father for the first time. Pulled between her old life in Brooklyn and a new one 3,000 miles away, our heroine is faced with a world where the usual rules no longer apply but eventually discovers a strength and capacity for compassion and survival that she never knew she possessed. At the core of the story is Wendy's deep connection with her little brother, back in New York, who is grieving the loss of their mother without her. This is a story about the ties of siblings, about children who lose their parents, parents who lose their children, and the unexpected ways they sometimes find one another again. Set against the backdrop of global and personal tragedy, and written in a style alternately wry and heartbreaking, The Usual Rules is an unexpectedly hopeful story of healing and forgiveness that will offer readers, young and old alike, a picture of how, out of the rubble, a family rebuilds its life. show less

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Wendy wakes up one morning and visualizes the clothing that she will wear to her eighth grade class. She consulted with her mother Janet about her outfit yesterday but of course, mothers, as a rule will not be able to help teenage daughters with important things like looks. Her six-year-old brother Louie jumps into bed with her and cuddles until they both head downstairs to the smell of fresh French toast that stepfather Josh has made. Mom goes to work, Wendy goes to school, and Josh and Louie stay home. The day is September 11 and Mom is killed just a few short hours later in her office on the 84th floor of one of the twin towers. Without being maudlin, Maynard creates a family so real, a grief so real that readers virtually smell the show more French toast cooking, the towers burning. In the aftermath of the tragedy, Wendy untangles the broken shards of rules and convention. Her biological father, who deserted the family years ago, arrives to “save” Wendy and whisks her away to California. Even in California, however, the usual rules just don’t seem to have meaning anymore. Wendy thrashes about, sometimes gracefully, sometimes destructively, in her attempt to create a way to live with excruciating pain. The lack of quotation marks and the wandering back and forth in time add to the meaning without being too difficult to decipher. While Maynard, perhaps, creates more tragic stories to float in front of Wendy than reason dictates, the sensual feast, the lyrical writing, and the ambitious nature of the story more than make up for any shortcomings. “Some people might have gotten fed up with a person like Peter Pan. He was so irresponsible, but Wendy was patient. She loved him for the good parts and forgave the rest.” (4). Just imagine that someone asked you to write a novel that conveyed the sense of loss rendered by 9/11 and I think you too will find yourself loving those good parts so much that you forgive the rest. You will need Kleenex for this fine, fine book! show less
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This book was soooo sad. It made me grateful for alot of things, but the ending didn't accomplish anything really. There wasn't a satisfying conclusion at all. It was just a sad book that ended sadly too. But it was a good read. It made me stop and think alot about life.
It's an average day in teenager Wendy's life when she argues with her mom before school, and they go off to conduct their respective lives. Unfortunately, the day is anything but usual because Wendy's mom has gone to her job at the World Trade Center on 9/11.
Wendy's world turns upside down as she is left to deal with her mother's death, and the grief that her stepfather and younger brother experience.
It's a heartbreaking story, but Wendy is resilient and has the ability to come out of this horrible tragedy on the other side.
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It's an average day in teenager Wendy's life when she argues with her mom before school, and they go off to conduct their respective lives. Unfortunately, the day is anything but usual because Wendy's mom has gone to her job at the World Trade Center on 9/11.
Wendy's world turns upside down as she is left to deal with her mother's death, and the grief that her stepfather and younger brother experience.
It's a heartbreaking story, but Wendy is resilient and has the ability to come out of this horrible tragedy on the other side.
A realistic, but very moving story about a young girl's life after her mother is killed on Sept.11. I loved all of the characters and was so glad that there was hope for Wendy at the end.
A bit weird with little to no quotation marks between characters, but the plot itself is definitely nothing usual with the setting of 9/11 as the background.
The Usual Rules is a great book. It's about a teenage girl who's going through a lot in her life. She's experiencing many changes, and her parents don't understand her.

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Joyce Maynard was born on November 5, 1953. She first came to national attention in 1973 with the publication of her New York Times cover story An Eighteen-Year-Old Looks Back on Life, which she wrote while a freshman at Yale University. Since then, she has been a reporter and columnist for The New York Times, a syndicated newspaper columnist, and show more a regular contributor to NPR. Her writing have also been published in numerous magazines including O, The Oprah Magazine; Newsweek; The New York Times Magazine; Forbes; Salon; San Francisco Magazine; and USA Weekly. She has written both fiction and nonfiction works including The Usual Rules, The Cloud Chamber, Internal Combustion, After Her, and her memoirs Looking Back and At Home in the World. Maynard's memoirs include details about her relationship with J. D. Salinger when she was 18 years old and attending Yale University. To Die For was adapted into a movie starring Nicole Kidman, Matt Dillon and Joaquin Phoenix and Labor Day was adapted into a movie starring Kate Winslet and Josh Brolin. (Bowker Author Biography) show less

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Canonical title
The Usual Rules
Important places
New York, New York, USA
Important events
September 11 Attacks
Epigraph
It's difficult in times like these: ideals, dreams and cherished hopes rise within us, only to be crushed by grim reality. It's a wonder I haven't abandoned all my ideals, they seem so absurd and impractical. Yet I cling t... (show all)o them because I still believe, in spite of everything, that people are truly good at heart.

It's utterly impossible for me to build my life on a foundation of chaos, suffering and death. I see the world being slowly transformed into a wilderness, I hear the approaching thunder that, one day, will destroy us too, I feel the suffering of millions. And yet, when I look up at the sky, I somehow feel that everything will change for the better, that this cruelty too will end, that peace and tranquility will return once more.

- - Anne Frank, in her diary, July 15, 1944
Dedication
For my daughter and sons, Audrey, Charlie, and Willy Bethel, whose love for one another shines through even when continents separate them, just as it did when the space they shared was no larger than the backseat of an old Fo... (show all)rd station wagon, with a harried mother at the wheel.

All the best parts of the young people in this book came from my life with you.
First words
It was a story Wendy knew well, how she got her name.
Quotations
His kiss was more the way she had expected it to be the other time, with Todd. Sticking on the postage stamp. She saw that she would have to show him.

She moved her chair closer so it wouldn't be so awkward. She put... (show all) one arm around his neck and put her mouth against his. Two clarinet players, she thought, working on their embouchure.

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Fiction and Literature, General Fiction, Teen, Young Adult
DDC/MDS
813.54Literature & rhetoricAmerican literature in EnglishAmerican fiction in English1900-19991945-1999
LCC
PS3563 .A9638 .U7Language and LiteratureAmerican literatureAmerican literatureIndividual authors1961-
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