Just Do It: How One Couple Turned Off the TV and Turned On Their Sex Lives for 101 Days (No Excuses!)

by Douglas Brown

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Outside of her family and close friends, Annie had not mentioned the sexathon to anybody, which probably was the best way to go. I, however, had blathered on about the endeavor to anybody with ears. It was the whole Heisman Trophy thing. On this, my first day back in the office after kicking off the sexpedition, my boss blushed when she saw me. Another boss reddened as well. Yet another beheld me, took a few steps back, and asked, "Uh, how's it going?" He actually circumnavigated me after I show more answered, like I'd morphed into some hellion driven by fierce, feral loin power . . . I felt stronger. I felt suave. I felt--gasp--Mediterranean. I'd instantly become an objectified sexual being: That man had sex last night! He is going to do it again tonight! Wow! --From Just Do It Creeping into middle-age and saddled with work deadlines, child-rearing, homemaking, and fourteen years of togetherness, an ordinary, happy but harried couple set an outlandish goal: to have sex for 101 consecutive days--no excuses (not even the flu, late-night child wanderings, or flat-out exhaustion). What ensued is by turns hilarious, tender, and seductive, including sexual romps in hotels (both cheap and classy), at an ashram, in a basement, atop boulders and unstable easy chairs, but most often in their own bedroom, which they dubbed the "sex den." As Doug and Annie Brown literally screwed their way through months of a cold Colorado winter, they turned up the heat by attending the Adult Entertainment Expo in Vegas (the Oscars of the porn world); taking Bikram "hot" yoga to get limber; and stocking up on candles, Viagra (just in case), lube, lingerie, and sex toys galore. But besides the awe in their ability to get it on day after day--and actually enjoy it--they were more surprised and touched by how much closer they became, relishing conversations, holding hands, hanging out in hip coffee shops together instead of in the aisles of Target, and firming up (no pun intended) a relationship that already seemed as good as it could get. Seeking out babysitters, getting fit, and dressing up, these two forty-year-olds began courting each other the way they did when they first met in their twenties, only seven moves and two pregnancies later. As Doug Brown lays everything bare--from his triumphs to his tanks (yes to making love on an exercise ball; no to Tantric sex tricks), we get an inside look at the male mind and discover that a good husband and a good dad can also be one hell of a lover. The jolt that every marriage needs and longs for, Just Do It proves that even when it feels like there's never enough time or energy, trust Annie and Doug...THERE IS. show less

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There is much more to this story than I expected. I thought it would be cute & funny, which it is, but it is also a very touching story about how a couple reconnected after 12 years of marriage and two little ones running around. There was nothing "wrong" with their relationship but this experiment brought so much more to their lives and in the end really changed them as a couple. Douglas Brown is a great writer and it is indeed very funny. I loved reading about the things he learned along the way.

They were a fairly conservative couple sexually speaking and had never done a lot of things that they did do over the course of this 101 days (like attending the National Porn Convention in Vegas) and the results were humorous to say the show more least! Also, they really committed to this and this means 101 days straight....no matter how tired (or ill!) and that brought up some interesting situations as well. I highly recommend this book to married couples. It is funny, entertaining, sometimes informative and very touching. show less
Doug and Annie Brown, loving parents of two young girls, make a commitment to have intimate relations every day for 100 days. (For the record: It was her idea). Interested in replicating the experiment? Don't bother with a book; take the title at its word: just do it. Maybe see your doctor first. But for the rest of the population--those who might rather experiment with eating fudge for 100 days straight, for instance. Or, sawdust.--it's worth a read. Brown's description of his family's journey is a reflection of far more important things--life priorities, enduring love, living "in the now"--than about how often any given couple chooses to do the deed. (Full review at Worducopia.blogspot.com)
frank, funny- very honest about how difficult it is to juggle kids, jobs, family, AND still stay close to your spouse; in a broader view, just one more example of how Sex (and not on the personal level) has invaded all parts of our lives- conventions, movies, newspapers, etc
Here is an excerpt from my review!

The book is well written, light hearted, & FUN to read. It is not gratuitous or "X-Rated". Heck, the book is barely "R-Rated". In fact I found myself very envious of the strength of their bond & their relationship.

http://charlotteswebofbooks.blogspot.com/2008/07/71-just-do-it-by-douglas-brown....
This book made the rounds of the staff here at the library. Alternately dull and Too Much Information, the book was a disappointment -- it would have made an excellent article.

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