Lol Tolhurst

This is the second book by Lol Tolhurst who was the original drummer for The Cure. The first book “Cured: The Tale of Two Imaginary Boys” was excellent and probably a preferred book by me to this one. That is not to say that Goth isn’t good as well. It is, but “Cured” was directly about the band and therefore more of interest to the general reader. Goth covered a specific topic in depth and therefore is more limited in its scope. The Cure were originally Easy Cure but changed the show more name after a few changes to the musicians changeover. Both Tolhurst and Robert Smith (lead guitarist and singer) were Catholic and raised so until their high school years when they saw the church as limiting rather than liberating both morally and culturally. They grew up in 1970s England, which was hard hit by unemployment during Margaret Thatcher’s term as Prime Minister. Tolhurst says The Cure arose in the first place from a place of Catholic guilt and longing and the emotional distress that came from that guilt. Technically speaking this book should have been titled Goth: A Personal History since much of the book comes from Tolhurst’s personal reflections. There is a name Index and Notes/Bibliography (which always love) but much of the book are his own recollections. This book has a forward by Budgie (drummer for the band Siouxie and the Banshees) who is also a crucial person at the origin of Goth as a modern phenomenon. These two have worked together recently and the result has been a podcast and this book by Tolhurst. Tolhurst credits many artists who paved the way for Goth as it exists in various forms now: Shelly’s Frankenstein, T.S. Eliot, Camus, Sartre, Sylvia Plath, Joy Division, The Clash, even The Doors with “Moonlight Drive” and “The End”. Tolhurst says that many people claim that goth music came into being with “The End”. This book touches on a huge amount of topics which makes it formidable to argue against considering that Tolhurst speaks from personal experience almost on every page. The book ends with Tolhurst defining a new entity called “Elder Goths” which deals with self-determination. Elder Goth’s own personal decisions to live and dress as they please even if that means society (the general culture) mislabels them as strange. The whole thesis by Tolhurst is that Goth is a valid and worthwhile subculture which deserves and must live on as a foil to authoritarian regimes which hold sway, as did the Punks in Thatcher’s England until the Sex Pistols flamed out. Tolhurst enjoys writing and I like his personal style and his consistent approach to his subject matter. Obviously Tolhurst has used this book as further self-discovery and self-healing and he shows himself as vulnerable in many places. Many memoirs are written by ghost writers, but you can feel that this is Lol struggling to be as truthful with his expressions as possible and determined with all his strength to be honest and sincere to the events and his feelings about those events. Tolhurst lives in Los Angeles, and has for many years now. He had a book signing in Los Angeles but I had already purchased a signed copy. B&W Photos, 242 pp. Forward, Introduction. show less

Affable, informative hybrid memoir/history of the goth genre by the original drummer/keyboardist for The Cure. It kinda functions as self-promotion for Tolhurst's career post-Cure, which is whatever, but otherwise I really dug this read.

Very calmly told tale of The Cure's drummer about his life and the band's origins. Fanastic book, although the ending lacked a greater summation.
Tolhurst was a blackout-functional alcoholic for much of the band's existence. His drinking ended with him being dismissed by Smith in 1987.
Reading books by musicians I'm amazed at how much lawyers are involved (Bowie, The Smiths, Pat Benatar). Due to contractual arrangements this should have been obvious to me but it seems like everyone sued show more everyone else or else they had to fire someone for stealing all the band's money. Tolhurst here makes up with Smith and knows that the band had made a lasting impression on rock music history. I never knew who The Cure's drummer was, but his work with catchy opening hooks have been in my mind since I first heard them on the radio. Primary, Close To Me, In Between Days, and Just Like Heaven let the drums kick off the song before the rest of the band joins in. To be honest, I was a bigger fan of The Cure's music and The Smiths' during the 80's. I have come to appreciate The Smiths music more than just the few songs that I enjoyed from radio listening. The Queen is Dead I have to admit is a really good album. I'm not sure that The Cure have one that equals that. There was no competition between the two bands themselves and Smith seems to have wanted to cultivate relationships with as many people as possible during his career.
This book I found quite relaxing to read. Peter Hook's book of Joy Division was more tensely written and stayed that way throughout. Tolhurst lives in West Los Angeles now. He mentions in passing that when The Cure came to Los Angeles there were more females than males in the crowd which was a change from their usual English fan base. I was pleased to learn the order of the band's songs. Their first song that I liked was Boys Don't Cry which was one of the first three songs they recorded but it already carried their trademark minimalistic sound. show less

Reread 01/2021: I listened to the audiobook this time, and I loved Lol's narration of the book. This is an emotional and inspiring book that I recommend to any music and memoir lover. Lol is one of the most inspirational people I've ever talked to.

Cured is one of the best memoirs I've read. Lol talks about the band, his own struggles with addiction and life, and how he overcame each of these things. The book told me more than I'd have ever known about the band, even with them being my show more favorite, before reading it.

Original Review: The Cure has been my favorite band for over three years now, and I can't imagine what my life would possibly look like if I hadn't discovered them when I did. Their music has helped me through the most difficult times in my life, so when I received this book, I was thrilled. While reading this, I found myself gaining more and more appreciation for everyone included in the band. show less