Bunmi Laditan
Author of Confessions of a Domestic Failure: A Humorous Book About a not so Perfect Mom
About the Author
Bunmi Laditan is an avid contributor to Mothering.com, Parenting.com, The Huffington Post and iVillage.com. She enjoys writing about her family and offering advise on raising children. Her titles include: Confessions of a Domestic Failure, The Honest Toddler: A Child's Guide to Parenting, and show more Toddlers Are A**holes: It's Not Your Fault. (Bowker Author Biography) show less
Works by Bunmi Laditan
Confessions of a Domestic Failure: A Humorous Book About a not so Perfect Mom (2014) 287 copies, 14 reviews
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- Canada
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- Montreal, Quebec, Canada
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If you're a parent of a young child, or were a parent of a young child, or thinking about one day becoming a parent of a young child, or, really, just anyone who wants some authentic belly-laughs, this is the book for you! I have been reading mainly young adult-focused nonfiction books, but when I came across this book title and immediately pictured the face of my 4-year-old who I swear is actively trying her hardest to make me crack on a regular basis, I knew I had to experience Bunmi show more Laditan's book with the double-take title.
I usually do not prefer audiobooks over books with text, but in this case, having the audiobook read by the author and hearing her anxiety increase as she read her own words definitely made this book more amazing. The main thing that I learned from this book (besides the fact that I periodically had to pause the reading because I was laughing so hard) is that my toddler is not any worse than any others. I also thought that I may be the only parent who uses the phrase "you're going to break your face!" but apparently, I'm not! From scientific facts like, "60-80% of caring for toddlers is fetching them snacks," to realizations that toddlers "can't be reasoned with" and "can only understand words that have to do with snacks," comforted me in so many ways. During the past 9 years of being a parent, I have learned one thing that exists on a daily basis and Laditan confirmed it: "the first no is usually a lie...ask again...and again."
Laditan reads her book as if she is a doctor presenting a proposal for a grant, but she does it about the absurdity that is toddlerhood, with some highly effective f-bombs thrown in from time to time to remind me that she is just a stressed-out mom like me.
I can imagine that there are probably many parents out there who may be severely offended by the title of this book, and I'm sure Laditan would categorize these people in the "sanctaparent" category that she often references in her book. But for those who absolutely love their toddlers, would die for them, but know that they truly can be a**holes, this book will surely put a smile on your face! Oh, and rest assured, plenty of other toddlers don't like spicy toothpaste either! Hilarious book from a compelling storyteller! show less
I usually do not prefer audiobooks over books with text, but in this case, having the audiobook read by the author and hearing her anxiety increase as she read her own words definitely made this book more amazing. The main thing that I learned from this book (besides the fact that I periodically had to pause the reading because I was laughing so hard) is that my toddler is not any worse than any others. I also thought that I may be the only parent who uses the phrase "you're going to break your face!" but apparently, I'm not! From scientific facts like, "60-80% of caring for toddlers is fetching them snacks," to realizations that toddlers "can't be reasoned with" and "can only understand words that have to do with snacks," comforted me in so many ways. During the past 9 years of being a parent, I have learned one thing that exists on a daily basis and Laditan confirmed it: "the first no is usually a lie...ask again...and again."
Laditan reads her book as if she is a doctor presenting a proposal for a grant, but she does it about the absurdity that is toddlerhood, with some highly effective f-bombs thrown in from time to time to remind me that she is just a stressed-out mom like me.
I can imagine that there are probably many parents out there who may be severely offended by the title of this book, and I'm sure Laditan would categorize these people in the "sanctaparent" category that she often references in her book. But for those who absolutely love their toddlers, would die for them, but know that they truly can be a**holes, this book will surely put a smile on your face! Oh, and rest assured, plenty of other toddlers don't like spicy toothpaste either! Hilarious book from a compelling storyteller! show less
The Big Bed by Bunmi Laditan immediately draws readers in with expectancy for great things. The opening pages depict illustrations that show the power-relationship between the child and the parents: the little girl is clearly in charge. While her short, child-like stature is evident, her expressive look of dissatisfaction and her large, imposing shadow that takes up the majority of the page says it all, “We need to talk about the big bed.” In fact, those words on the page are written in show more such small font to make it all the more evident that words are probably not needed when so much personality can come from the little girl’s face alone. Even the cat is cowering timidly behind the door. From that point forward, the little girl proceeds to first butter her father up with compliments, all the while each image shows the little girl to be in a position of power over the father through humorous, playful depiction until, ultimately, leading up to her main dilemma: “Who does mommy belong to?” From that point forward, our main character proceeds to put forward reasons, facts, and figures to support why she should be the one to get to sleep with mommy at night. Readers will get solid laughs at the outrageous depictions, the absurd and hilarious rationale, and some memorable familiarity with the topic itself. show less
Bunmi Laditan delivered a hilarious debut novel. The plot is ridiculous (a Cinderella story for moms), but the comedic wordplay and satire (Pinterest breakup) entertain. I admired the way BL used breastfeeding to illustrate the way moms often suffer overwhelm in solitude. I also applaud her for creating flawed heroes and redeemable villains.
This is a clean novel available on Hoopla.
This is a clean novel available on Hoopla.
A funny, frank, and refreshing book intended for frustrated parents of toddlers. This is purely for entertainment, though. I was expecting humorous helpful advice, but I don't think there was much useful advice anywhere in there (and some of the advice is downright bad for humor's sake).
Here are some excerpts that I think highlight what I liked in the tone pretty well:
Here are some excerpts that I think highlight what I liked in the tone pretty well:
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A toddler is a cross between a sociopath, a rabid animal, a cocker spaniel, a demon, and an angel.
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whatever antidepressants you’re taking and the dosage in your child’s baby book. When she looks back on her milestones, she’ll also see the damage she did to your mental health. Hopefully, this will inspire her to major in something serious like biology or political science rather than ceramics, so she’ll be able to take care of you the way you deserve. No one ever made millions handcrafting clay pots. It’s her turn to foot the bill.
Toddlers can go from laughing to crying to screaming in a matter of seconds. There is no point in trying to keep up with their tsunami of emotions, because as you’re addressing one, the next one is already revving up to drown you. When you get overwhelmed by your toddler’s feelings, it’s best just to find a quiet corner where you can hug your knees and rock back and forth. Sing a pretty, sad song like “The Rose.” You can even make up your own tune. My favorite is “I Used to Have Dreams.” After a few minutes your kid will seek you out, sit on your head, and fart, but at least you tried. This is called yoga.
Three-year-olds have only one goal: to make you look like a bitch-ass punk in public. Once you know this, you’ll pick your battles. Pick none of them. Don’t engage in arguments with a three-year-old, because if you’re yelling or explaining, they’ve already won. Three-year-olds are power-hungry despots who take pleasure in seeing you become unhinged.
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There’s a reason toddlers are at peak cuteness. It’s because Nature knows that toddlerhood is when you are most likely to take your child to a public park and leave him there with a note that says, “I’m a little shit and they couldn’t take it anymore.”
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- 10
- Members
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- Rating
- 3.8
- Reviews
- 29
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