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Should Harry tell Sylvia about his past?

If there is any hope of a relationship between them then yes. If she is just a one-night stand..then it would serve no purpose.

Yes I think Sylvia needs to know if she is in a relationship with Harry.

He seems to still be holding onto issues from his past so it may be cathartic for him to do so and move on. If he wants to have a relationship with her, he needs to be honest. This may also help him figure out why he’s holding back and worries about the decisions that will need to be made when her house sells

If he wants to continue the relationship he must.

I think Bosch should be allowed to do what he's comfortable with, even if this means holding back.

I think Sylvia wants to know more about Harry, but he's spent a lifetime keeping his emotions close. I think he wants to change but that he just can't do it. That means eventually they will break up.

I think Sylvia needs to know about his past. He needs to let his guard down and share this with her if he wants their relationship to survive.