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Toxic Charity: How Churches and Charities Hurt Those They Help, And How to Reverse It

by Robert D. Lupton

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Veteran urban activist Robert Lupton reveals the shockingly toxic effects that modern charity has upon the very people meant to benefit from it. Toxic Charity provides proven new models for charitable groups who want to help-not sabotage-those whom they desire to serve. Lupton, the founder of FCS Urban Ministries (Focused Community Strategies) in Atlanta, the voice of the Urban Perspectives newsletter, and the author of Compassion, Justice and the Christian Life, has been at the forefront of urban ministry activism for forty years. Now, in the vein of Jeffrey Sachs's The End of Poverty, Richard Stearns's The Hole in Our Gospel, and Gregory Boyle's Tattoos on the Heart, his groundbreaking Toxic Charity shows us how to start serving needy and impoverished members of our communities in a way that will lead to lasting, real-world change.… (more)
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The primary takeaway for this book:
"1. Never do for the poor what they have (or could have) the capacity to do for themselves.
2. Limit one-way giving to emergency situations.
3. Strive to empower the poor through employment, lending, and investing, using grants sparingly to reinforce achievements.
4. Subordinate self-interests to the needs of those being served.
5. Listen closely to those you seek to help, especially to what is not being said--unspoken feelings may contain essential clues to effective service.
6. Above all, do no harm."

There is a lot of charity being done by Americans that is net-damage to the world. When Americans give away for free shoddy Chinese-slave-made goods to people who sometimes don't need them and if they do need them would rather own better-quality local-made products that would work better, it's a lose-lose-lose situation all around.

As someone who has been a beneficiary of well-meaning charity that ended up harming me more, I really wish that churches and charities would evaluate their efforts based on the long-term effects.

For me, I look at all of the thousands of dollars that were directed to completely ineffective marriage counseling that told me to shove my ex-husband's sins under the carpet and ignore them and focus on bettering myself as a wife so that my goodness would motivate him to do better. (And they would blame me fully [and let him off the hook] for not being good enough as the cause of him not doing better. They didn't see any fault in him yelling at me, insulting me, blaming me for his own sins, using massive quantities of porn, abusing alcohol, using drugs, abusing our children, etc.) What would have made the biggest difference is if they would have beaten him over the head constantly with Ephesians 5:25 instead of beating me over the head with Ephesians 5:22 with Ephesians 5:21 completely ignored. Any pastor could have spent a few hours a week going over Ephesians 5:25 and Ephesians 5:21 and intensively held him accountable for his own actions and his entitlement mindset. And that would have been so much cheaper and better for himself, myself, our children, our churches, our community, and our government since the finances of all of the above have been harmed by this. But nooooo, because 99% of evangelical pastors and people helpers have a mindset of authoritarianism, patriarchalism, male supremacy, and entitlement to power, they don't want to hold other men to God's standard because they don't want God to hold them to God's standard. They gotta all drop the bar for being considered a godly man down into the gutter where any man can trip over it, fall over it clumsily, and somehow be considered godly when really they are demonic. They don't want to listen to the voices of millions of women because that would mean that they would have to admit that they were really, really, really wrong. My ex-husband is still mired in the pit though much, much deeper in the pit that he began digging 25 years ago. But I digress.

This book and my lived experience agree, for certain.

The "bad" with this book: this book is 95% an argument that nearly every charity and church and government is hurting people with almost all of their attempts to help. It doesn't provide much guidance for how to do things right. That's the job of the sequel Charity Detox: what charity would look like if we cared about results.

If you already know for certain that your charitable efforts are hurting more than they are helping, you can skip this book and get the sequel. That book is much more DIY on how to create a charity that doesn't hurt people. ( )
  ChristinasBookshelf | Feb 8, 2023 |
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  UMCGrandview | Jun 30, 2022 |
Very good. About how handouts can make people lose self respect and motivation to help themselves. ( )
  avdesertgirl | Aug 22, 2021 |
When Helping Hurts: How to Alleviate Poverty
Without Hurting the Poor” by Steve Corbett & Brian Fikkert.

“Toxic Charity: How Churches and Charities Hurt
Those They Help” by Robert Lupton

Here are two books about giving and serving. They
both cover what is helpful giving and serving and
what are unhelpful (even harmful) ways of giving
and serving. How do we as Christians serve and
help the poor, who, we read in Scripture, are
very dear to God's heart? Scripture also tells us
whatever we do for the least of our brethren, we
do for Jesus. How do we live out God's heart?
These two Presbyterian authors share what they have learned.

The first book by Corbett & Fikkert is aimed
primarily at evangelicals. Both Corbett & Fikkert
work for the Chalmers Center for Economic
Development which helps churches minister to the
economic, spiritual and social needs of the poor.
The book's points spring out of an understanding
of Jesus' purpose, voiced by Jesus in Luke
4:17-21, part of what we have been looking at in
the current NCF teaching series:

“The Spirit of the Lord is on me, because he has
anointed me to proclaim good news to the poor.
He has sent me to proclaim freedom for the
prisoners and recovery of sight for the blind, to
set the oppressed free, to proclaim the year of the Lord’s favor.”

In addition, Corbett & Fikkert's theological
framework is that both God and man are
relational. When mankind is in good relationship
with God, self, others and the rest of creation
that effects the world's systems (political,
economic, social and religious) in a positive
way, enabling man to live out his calling of
glorifying God and enjoying Him forever. When
these relationships are broken, however, that
effects the world's systems negatively, creating
all types of poverties: poverty of being (low
self esteem on the one hand, or God complexes on
the other), poverty of community (self-centered
and or exploitative/abusing/using others),
poverty of spiritual intimacy (denying God or
worshipping false gods/spirits such as
materialism), and poverty of stewardship (loss of
purpose, materialism, ground cursed,
laziness/workaholism). They do make clear that
they do not believe in the health/wealth gospel,
the notion, that if you are in right relationship
with God, you will be blessed with wealth and
health. Enough said on their theological
framework, which is a bit too formulaic for me.

Robert Lupton is a practitioner of urban
community development ministries and writes out
of his experience of working primarily in the
poor urban areas of Atlanta. Though he certainly
targets his critiques of giving/helping at
Christians and churches, his critique is wider,
applying also to general charity, NGOs, even governmental aid.

Both books agree that too much of church giving
is aimed at relief, which both say, should only
be used immediately after a disaster. In the case
of disasters, giving should quickly move from
relief to rehabilitation and in the case of
chronic poverty, both books agree, that
relief-type giving is not only inappropriate, but
harmful. Chronic poverty alleviation requires a
community development approach to have a long-term positive impact.

Why is relief-giving harmful to those in chronic poverty?

– One-way giving diminishes the dignity of those on the receiving end

– Paternalistic (in terms of resources,
spirituality, knowledge, labor, management). The
giver assumes s/he knows better than the receiver
what the receiver needs and how they need to be
helped. There is often a North American God-complex in play.

– Doesn't involve the receiver in finding a
solution to his/her poverty (dis-empowering)

– Creates dependency, destroys initiative and work ethics

– Is often more about the givers feeling good
about what they are doing, than whether they are actually helping.

– Assumes all poverty can be fixed by material resources.

– Fails to address systemic reasons for poverty

– Undermines local leadership

– Can create shame in fathers (who can't provide
the nice Christmas gifts that others bring their children)

– Often ignores local resources (businesses,
workers) which could be part of the solution

– Assumes short-term fixes actually help

What does community development look like?

– Listens to the local community and lets the community come up with solutions

– Relational, takes time

– Asset-based – looks at what the community has
rather than what it doesn't have

– Works with local leadership

– Entrepreneurial – understands local resources
and how to use them; enables dreams to come to
fruition; builds on the capacity of local
entrepreneurs. (In our university setting we tend
to think of entrepreneurs as high-tech business
people. In the context of working with the poor
in a community development model it means any
type of viable (and legal) business, whether that
is sewing clothing, new, better ways to raise
crops (in rural areas) or small local businesses
that can begin to effect the local economy positively.

– Works on teaching job skills AND creating jobs.

On short-term missions

Both books agree that short-term missions can do
a lot of harm in the name of doing good.

– Most short-term missions are relief work.

– They often are providing services that local people could do.

– Often not invested in learning what the
receivers really want (often bringing their own
ideas of how things should get done.)

– Incredibly expensive for what they accomplish
(a monetary gift for the amount spent on the trip would go much, much farther)

– One-way learning, generally, for the short-term
mission team, but not for the receivers.

– One-way giving

Lupton says stop doing short-term missions, or at
least stop calling them missions and call them
learning vacations! Corbett agrees, but thinks
that with a lot of thought and education before
the short-term mission, and followup training the
year after the short-term mission, there could be
some good ways to do short-term missions. But
Corbett says about short-term missions that it
should be clear they are about learning
experiences, not saving the world. Ie. The
mission teams are making a difference for
themselves by learning, not so much by their serving the poor.

On Microfinancing (an outside provider that can make small loans to locals)

Lupton thinks microfinancing works great where
people have a strong work ethic. He's says it
doesn't work very well in the U.S., except with
first generation immigrants. He writes
extensively about some really good experiences of
both microfinancing and community development in a community in Nicaragua.

Corbett adds that microfinancing also doesn't
work in places where the people taking out the
small loans don't believe the lender will be
there for the long-term. He also says microloans
also don't help the extreme poor, only the
moderate poor and vulnerable non-poor (those a
paycheck away from poverty.) He cautions that
church and missionary-managed microlending
attempts have met with lots of failures.

Corbett favors what he calls Savings and Credit
Associations (SCA) which have the advantage of
not requiring outside money, as does
microfinancing, and provide a vehicle for both
loans and savings. They can make even smaller
loans than microfinancing lenders, so can help
the extreme poor, are workable in both urban and
rural areas, and loans can also be used for
non-business needs such as household needs. He
said this model was actually developed by the
poor and cites the God's Compassion Church in
Manilla, Philippines that has a very successful SCA.

Corbett also says microfinancing institutions
(MFI) partnered with local churches (as opposed
to run by local churches) can be a very good
partnership, addressing needs together in a holistic way.

Finally Corbett talks about Business as Ministry
(BAM) also known as “tent making” as a way to
create jobs in an impoverished area.

Micah 6:8 says “he has shown you, O mortal, what
is good. And what does the Lord require of you?
To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.”

Lupton says “Mercy without justice degenerates
into dependency and entitlement, preserving the
power of the giver over the recipient. Justice
without mercy is cold and impersonal, more
concerned about rights than relationships.” He
says we need to be “doing with” rather than
“doing for” those in need. The reality has been
the opposite. In our giving and serving we need
to be fostering “mutuality, reciprocity,
accountability” not just giving out stuff for free.

Can we reconcile such statements with statements in scripture such as … ?

“Is not this the kind of fasting I have chosen:
to loose the chains of injustice and untie the
cords of the yoke, to set the oppressed free and break every yoke?
Is it not to share your food with the hungry and
to provide the poor wanderer with shelter­
when you see the naked, to clothe them, and not
to turn away from your own flesh and blood?
Then your light will break forth like the dawn,
and your healing will quickly appear;
then your righteousness will go before you, and
the glory of the Lord will be your rear guard.

Isaiah 58:6-8

For I was hungry and you gave me something to
eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to
drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, I
needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and
you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.’

“Then the righteous will answer him, ‘Lord, when
did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty
and give you something to drink? When did we see
you a stranger and invite you in, or needing
clothes and clothe you? When did we see you sick
or in prison and go to visit you?''

“The King will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever
you did for one of the least of these brothers
and sisters of mine, you did for me.’

Matthew 25: 35-40

The practice of leaving the gleanings in the field for the poor to gather.

If anyone is poor among your fellow Israelites in
any of the towns of the land the Lord your God is
giving you, do not be hardhearted or tightfisted
toward them. Rather, be openhanded and freely lend them whatever they need.

Deuteronomy 15:7-8 (In the context of the Jubilee year)

These two books give us a lot to think about and
MMJ has been wrestling with the ideas in these
books in both the giving we do on behalf of NCF
and in how we live out Jesus calling on our lives.

We are all familiar with the adage that you can
give a man a fish and feed him for a day or you
can teach a man to fish and feed him for a
lifetime. Another writer, Alexia Salvatierra,
says giving a man a fish is love, and teaching a
man to fish in intelligent love. Put poverty
isn't that simplistic. Sometimes the pond or lake
available for fishing in has been badly polluted.
Or that same pond or lake has been fenced and is
inaccessible. Structural inequities make dealing
with chronic poverty all the more complex.

It is smart to approach giving and serving in
such a way that we really are helping long-term
and not hurting. So on the one hand, we should
heed what these authors say. But we won't be able
to follow their recommendations perfectly. There
are times when there are needs, such as food and
we may give food. Jesus provided food to the
5,000. He met other needs as well, and asks us to
do the same. Where we can put into place a
community development model, by all means let's
do it. It makes a lot of sense. But there may be
times when we will do home repair for someone, or
help with a roof, or provide a bag of groceries,
or whatever the need is. That might be where we
start. It may lead to more “teaching a man to
fish”-type work later. Or we might have to work
on some of the structural inequalities first in
order to get to a place where “teaching a man to
fish” can actually do some good. Some of the
problems with poverty, unemployment, etc. in
urban areas stem from generations of inequities
(housing restrictions, job restrictions, quality
of schools, etc.) toward certain groups of
people. Outsourcing of jobs has also contributed
to these circumstances in a big way.

There may be some folks who will never be able to
get beyond needing a meal or bag of groceries and
others who will need that for just a time. Consider the following:

Low-income seniors

Recently laid off workers

Working poor (who work full-time but can't earn enough to make ends meet)

Low-income children

On disability (unable to work)

Family that's been hit by health crisis and huge doctor/hospital bills

Folks with untreated or untreatable mental health disorders that can't work

Let's keep in mind the principles that these two
books teach about good giving/serving vs. harmful
giving/serving. Let our giving/serving be
mindful. Let us strive to give and serve in
helpful, not hurtful ways. But at the same time,
let's not get overly stressed if we find certain
situations, such as those above, where the
practices outlined in these books don't always
fit. Where they fit, use them; where they don't,
find another way. In both, follow Jesus and his example.
(Carolyn Vance)
  NCFChampaign | Dec 4, 2017 |
Interesting concepts around charity. Looks at charity as either "crisis" intervention or "community development", but often charity ends up in the first category simply because it is easier, quicker and gives the donor a positive feeling. Stresses looking at charity and its effects from the receiver's point of view. Worth the read but a bit disorganized and repetitious. ( )
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A must-read book for those who give to help others.
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In the United States, there's a growing scandal that we both refuse to see and actively perpetuate.
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When we do for those in need what they have the capacity to do for themselves, we disempower them.
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Veteran urban activist Robert Lupton reveals the shockingly toxic effects that modern charity has upon the very people meant to benefit from it. Toxic Charity provides proven new models for charitable groups who want to help-not sabotage-those whom they desire to serve. Lupton, the founder of FCS Urban Ministries (Focused Community Strategies) in Atlanta, the voice of the Urban Perspectives newsletter, and the author of Compassion, Justice and the Christian Life, has been at the forefront of urban ministry activism for forty years. Now, in the vein of Jeffrey Sachs's The End of Poverty, Richard Stearns's The Hole in Our Gospel, and Gregory Boyle's Tattoos on the Heart, his groundbreaking Toxic Charity shows us how to start serving needy and impoverished members of our communities in a way that will lead to lasting, real-world change.

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