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You're either one or the other: A children's book about human sexuality (Ready-set-grow) (1980)

by Joy Wilt

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Highlights physical differences between males and females, identifies personality traits considered to be masculine or feminine, and emphasizes that "whole" persons have a mix of these personality traits.
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This book is a bit outdated in its view of man/woman sexuality, but the basic message, that a boy or girl can do anything they want without being "effeminate" or a "tomboy" is still true. This book needs to be rewritten—if it hasn't been—for today's (2020s) parents and children. ( )
  pandr65 | Feb 29, 2024 |
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  lcslibrarian | Aug 13, 2020 |
I was really worried about this one, based on the title, but it certainly wasn't as bad as it could have been.

For being a "children's book about human sexuality," it focuses mainly on gendered things like names, careers, and hobbies, stating that both boys and girls, men and women can enjoy various activities no matter what society tries to tell them. Which, you know, is a great message on its own, but it is also clear to state, repeatedly, that you are "one or the other," male or female, boy or girl, man or woman. "A male child is a boy, and a boy becomes a man." "A female child is a girl, and a girl becomes a woman." But hey, within that you can be whatever you want.

I'll be putting this in a Little Free Library, just not sure I want to put it in my Little Free Library. ( )
  regularguy5mb | Nov 10, 2018 |
This book is designed for "home, church, or home." I picked it up prepared to be outraged, but this book is not about heterosexual marital relationships. Rather it is about reassuring children that there are many---all equally acceptable---ways to behave as a child and grownup. It's OK for girls to like sports and for boys to like jewelry. It's OK for men and women to not marry, and if they do, it's OK for them to not have children, and if they have children, either the mother or the father can be the primary caregiver or breadwinner. Black line drawings don't feel dated. ( )
  raizel | Feb 21, 2017 |
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