Just Another Kid

I don't really know why I paid attention to this book as it was going past me. I was tiring - perhaps anything could have distracted me at that point. But this is the book that was in my hands.

It tells the tale of a teacher. It tells a little about the lives of six children and the teacher's assistant, but mostly it's about a teacher. It would make sense - it's categorised on the back as a memoir.

I suppose I read it because I wanted to check it. I wanted to make sure it wasn't yet another tale of the underclass (in this case, disabled folks) being at a standstill and unable to do anything, until the better, more normal, more like-the-reader protagonist sweeps in and fixes everything overnight. The sentence on the front cover of this show more edition - "Each was a child no one could reach - until one amazing teacher embraced them all" - didn't exactly ease my fears. I knew I'd be less like the protagonist than the people she'd be saving, so I wasn't expecting to enjoy the book.

Halfway through the book, however, I was ecstatic. This book had a person who had one of the problems I have. This was the first time I'd encountered anyone in a story who did this (couldn't speak whilst stressed), and the surrounding symptoms were very familiar to me. This person wasn't just a cardboard cut out (as a couple of the children ended up) - this was the character with the most development, the most description. And she was like me, at least in this tiny way.

By the end, though, I was worried by the book. How much of it was true? It was supposed to be true, and I really wanted to have not been lied to. But there were incidents in there that shouldn't have been published without the consent of the people involved, and the epilogue explained that there were people that the author had lost contact with. After the epilogue were adverts for other books of hers, including one set in a psychiatric ward, all memoirs. This really worried me. Hippocratic oath, anyone? Should she have written any of these books, as I'm sure there's people who aren't legally allowed to have given informed consent in every single one?

It's easy to exploit children - even easier if you're convinced that it's the right thing to do. No-one's disability should be anyone's bestseller.

And the sentence on the front of the book? Is a lie. show less

I don't normally bother with true life sob stories but I can't resist Torey Hayden's books. I think it's her honesty and the fact that although the work she does is amazing she admits to making mistakes. It would be easy to put her on a pedestal but she is only human which makes her books all the more enjoyable.

These kids who would otherwise be ignored are brought to our attention and shown to be as delightful as any other kids just in different ways. They are honest and funny and the fact that they are almost untamed is fascinating as it's an insight into what we would be like with no boundaries or rules.

I did get to the point where I wanted to get past the bits with Ladbrooke and onto the kids again but I still enjoyed reading the show more whole book. show less

Det är andra boken som jag har läst av Torey Hayden och jag har inte blivit besviken. Hon är en duktig författare och lyckas förmedla sin berättelse och få barnens liv och de olika störningar, det känns som man är en betraktare i hennes klassrum.
Jag kommer läsa fler av hennes böcker och jag rekommenderar denna bok

Torey Hayden is busy non-stop with a very challenging class of six children. All of these children are needy, and Hayden makes remarkable progress with most of them, but the focus of the story, it turns out, isn't really on the children. It is on the mother of Leslie, Ladbrooke, who never has gotten the support that she needed. Though she acts as an aide in the class, she is, in some ways, as needy as the children. With Hayden's support she is able to work through her own problems and needs while she works with her daughter and reinterprets her marriage. As the story progressed, I felt like I wanted to help her and I felt angry with her husband, Tom, who persisted in wanting to make his wife and daughter into some sort of wild vision show more rather than wanting to help them. He claimed he wanted to help them, but he resented their being what I'd almost describe as domesticated. As a teacher I know that people aren't concepts- they're people with needs and feelings. When they learn and grow and are able to make connections, it makes them more human- which is what they were to begin with. Tom's constant allusions to how wild his wife and daughter were really bothered me because he failed to recognise that they were humans with needs. It was intensely gratifying to see Hayden filling both Leslie and Ladbrooke's needs- especially Ladbrooke, who had long ago fallen through the cracks. show less

I had this book given to me and would not have chosen it myself as I am not a fan of this genre. However, the book is well written and takes the reader through the course of a year with disturbed children.

The main theme of the book is, however, 'Just Another Kid' as in Ladbrooke - a very troubled but ultimately redeemable parent/aide who is taken under the wing of Torey Hayden. The trials and tribulations of the entire, though small class including teacher and aide make for interesting reading and is very thought-provoking.

Another wonderful book by Torey Hayden.... and I find it so hard to critisize true-story books, because it's not like I can say "the plot sucked" or anything because it's real, can't mess with real.... But honestly this book focused much more on one of the mother's then I had hoped. I mean, it was wonderful that Torey was able to help her, but I expected this book to be mostly about the children, as her other books are, so it kind of caught me off-guard and there were parts where I just wanted to skip through all of the dredgery of Ladbrooke's problems and get back to the kids.

**spoiler alert** In this book, Torey Hayden teaches a challenging class for emotionally disturbed children consisting of Shamie, Geraldine and Shemona, three refugees from Northern Ireland, one of whom (Shemona) is an elective mute; Dirkie, who has schizophrenia; Mariana, who is sexually precocious but academically behind; and Leslie, also autistic and unable to communicate. Hayden could badly use an aide, and she accepts Leslie's mother, Ladbrooke, who is a beautiful but aloof women with a history of alcoholism and child abuse. Through their relationship, Ladbrooke comes to trust Hayden and begins to face up to her problems. Through working with the children, Ladbrooke develops considerable self-esteem. All but one of the children show more improve, as well, and make dramatic gains in academic and social skills. In an epilogue, we learn of updates, the most remarkable perhaps being Ladbrooke's. This is anything but a grim read, however, Hayden seasons her book with a healthy dollop of black humor.

Review borrowed from Amazon. show less