Outline of My Lover
by Douglas A. Martin
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On the fringes of the music scene in a Southern college town, a lonely young student driven to fl ee a troubled adolescence pursues and forms a life-altering relationship with an acclaimed artist-musician. Their understanding develops in a pattern of sex and reticence, soon impacting both their paths and greatly shifting expectations. Written “as if telling the truth was a matter of survival” (Andrew O’Hagan), it is a queer bildungsroman.Tags
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This is a very odd prose-style narrative, which describes a very young man's long-term intimate relationship with a famous musician. The author has since revealed that "Outline of My Lover" is about his years dating Michael Stipe, the lead singer of R.E.M. How much of the autobiographical narrative is true has never fully been revealed. Much of the story is vaguely told and Michael is described as an emotionally distant but generous/caretaking lover to the narrator, who is around 19 when he begins his relationship with Michael. As the story continues, Michael becomes gradually less available and starts to pull away, leading to the narrator's described feelings of desperation. As a behind-the-scenes account from an unreliable narrator, show more it made for a fast and interesting read. However, the book is out of print and hard to come by, making it a collector's piece for fans of R.E.M. or the author, who has also published a book of poetry with Stipe and a few others. show less
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- Original publication date
- 2000
- Epigraph
- “. . . I am disappearing, he thought but the photographs were worth it.”
Anne Carson, Autobiography of Red - Dedication
- for those who've helped in various moves
- First words
- We're taken to a place with no roots
- Quotations
- “He was proof of what I could accomplish” (55).
- Blurbers
- Toibin, Colm; Tea, Michelle; Steinke, Darcey; Pico, Tommy
- Original language
- English
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- Languages
- English, Italian
- Media
- Paper, Ebook
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