Mrs. Ames

This novel is a precisely drawn satire of life in an English village in the early 20th century. Mrs. Ames has been the leader of society in Riseborough for many years, due partly to her commanding presence and partly to her distant familial connection with a nobleman. The other residents of Riseborough both admire and resent her for her position, and many of the local gossips would be glad to see her fail in some way. So when a (relatively speaking) new arrival, Mrs. Evans, begins to set herself up as Mrs. Ames' social rival, the entire town waits with bated breath to see whether their queen will be dethroned. Meanwhile, both Mrs. Ames and Mrs. Evans dimly begin to realize that their lives are unfulfilling, but their search for deeper show more meaning takes them down drastically different paths, one of which may lead to scandal and heartbreak.

I expected this book to be nothing more than a light, witty comedy of manners -- which it is, but it also took a more serious turn than I anticipated. The various social machinations of the ladies of Riseborough are very funny; there's a particularly wonderful scene in which Mrs. Evans hosts a masquerade ball and several ladies (tragically, yet hilariously) show up wearing the same costume. But for me, the more compelling story was Mrs. Ames' slow realization that her dreary, respectable life isn't making her happy. It's only when she begins to identify with a cause greater than herself that she actually finds contentment -- even at the moment when all her respectability and social standing is taken away. So oddly enough, this comedy of manners turns into a coming-of-age story, and I found it a surprisingly thought-provoking read. show less

I don't think it's too early to say that this must have been one of the best novels of 1912!

These funny characters live in a town like Tilling/Riseholme--I forget what it was called in this novel--and are completely all up in each other's business. A definite precursor to the Lucia series but also contains elements of Benson's goofy melodramas like The Weaker Vessel and Arundel.

I was COMPLETELY gobsmacked when Mrs. Ames became a suffragette. I loved her adventure interrupting a speech and chaining herself to a table leg. Trying to tease out the author's attitude, it seemed to me that Fred supported women's suffrage but thought that radical tactics were silly--anyway, he is always looking for the comedy in everything. It was clear that show more the Suffragette movement made Mrs. Ames a finer person, less snobbish and superficial. The way the men talked about her efforts made me want to smack them. At the same time, everything that happened was amusing.

This novel also had a bang-up ending. I truly wasn't sure what would happen. As always, novels of this period make me feel grateful that today we have no-fault divorce and we don't have to worry that our children will be sent down from college or that we'll be shunned by society if we break up our marriages. But mainly, this novel was very funny.

PS. For years I've been reading novels where people have lumbago, and it sounds terrible. Finally I looked up what it is. Do you know what it is?? Lower back pain! I've had lumbago for years. And these characters think sitting in drafts will make it better or worse. Sheesh. show less

Mrs. Ames begins like the Lucia books with witty observations about the very involved lives of middle-aged people of very comfortable means in a very little English town. We meet society's queen Mrs. Ames, "In appearance ... like a small, good-looking toad in half-mourning..." and her husband Major Ames, ten years her junior. We have her rival Mrs. Altham and we have her younger cousin Millie Evans, newly arrived in Riseborough with her husband, the town's new doctor. So far so good. We laugh at Mrs. Ames and her printed menu cards for a dozen dinners of various quality, elegant and reusable, and at the avid pursuit of gossip among the Riseborough residents.
Then the story turns. Major Ames and Millie Evans begin a minor flirtation, show more fueled mainly by boredom, that eventually takes on a darker character as Mrs. Ames observes its development. The book is still funny, but this is no longer Lucia-like. When Mrs. Ames involves herself in women's suffrage, the tone becomes almost serious. Benson manages to keep us smiling or laughing out loud even while he engages our pity and admiration for a woman's courage. Readers who have no need for non-stop action will find this a charming little book with more depth than the beginning promises. show less

Stayed up late last night finishing up the delightful and surprising Mrs. Ames by E.F. Benson. Written in the jovial tone somewhere between Wodehouse and Thirkell, the novel focusses mainly on two couples of the town gentry who become entangled over the course of a year. At first it seems the story will be all a comedy of manners although Benson paves the way for his heroine, for she is just that, Amy Ames to have an epiphany. She 'gets' the suffragette movement, not just the thrill and 'fun' of the demonstrations but the whole purpose of lifting women out of being onlookers into being participants in the greater world. Meanwhile her husband is getting himself into a dangerous muddle..... A delightful read very much of the early 19th show more century era and style, so not for everyone, but if you like this kind of thing, as I do, I expect you will enjoy it. There is a scene where Mrs. Ames, who is exactly my age, has gone to the beach to 'transform' herself, and she ends up buying a little spade to build things and runs in and out of the waves..... that image of this person unbuttoning and enjoying herself was priceless!
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E.F. Benson appears to have anticipated that some readers might dismiss "Mrs. Ames" as just a tempest in a teacup: "but if you happen to be living in the teacup too, a storm there is just as upsetting as a gale on the high seas." Some might find the language a bit stilted for our modern tastes, but isn't that the charm of reading books from another era -- joining in the cadence and rhythm of another place and people? There is much here of the universal experience: marital angst, mid-life crises and acting out, moon-eyed ridiculous undergraduates, and social competitiveness to name a few.

Edward Frederic Benson (1867-1940) -- called Fred by his friends -- was the son of the Archbishop of Canterbury, a champion figure skater, and one-time show more Mayor of Rye, East Sussex, where he lived in Henry James' former home. Never married himself, he managed nonetheless to credibly describe the interior of several couples' marriages. Most interesting was his sympathetic take on women's suffrage, a divisive issue of the era. His portrayal of various characters' reaction to encroaching middle-age and misplaced efforts to retain their attractiveness is funny, bathetic and nuanced.

To place this book in Mr. Benson's canon, he had written almost 30 novels before penning "Mrs. Ames." It was published in 1912, some eight years before his popular Lucia and Mapp series. Wit and satire abound, with many a felicitous turn of phrase (one character described as "merely an Odysseus who had never voyaged wondered what voyaging was like.") The Althams' rapacious capacity for gossip, the audacity of Mrs. Ames inviting one spouse for a dinner party without the other, and the pathos of Maj. Ames' and Mrs. Evans' feelings for one another are all well and properly skewered. The set piece of the Shakespearean costume party is a highlight. Although it doesn't quite reach the campy heights of the Lucia novels, there is plenty to amuse. show less

Mrs. Ames is the second book by E.F. Benson that I’ve read; a couple years ago I read his Queen Lucia and enjoyed it quite a lot (I received Mrs. Ames through the LibraryThing Early Reviewers program). Mrs. Ames, published in 1912, covers much the same territory as Queen Lucia, published 8 years later. Both books are about small-town English life among the leisured classes. They are about gossip, dinner parties, and social rivalry. Neither book delves into anything terribly deep, dramatic, or tragic. In both books Benson shows affection for his pampered, petty characters, while at the same time making it clear just how absurd they are.

Queen Lucia is about Lucia’s struggle to maintain her control over the local social scene, and Mrs. show more Ames finds herself doing the exact same thing. The threat to Mrs. Ames takes a while to emerge, but it turns out to be Mrs. Evans, the doctor’s wife, who is relatively new to town. She has ideas for entertainments — masked costume parties! — that the town has never seen before. She also, more ominously, begins to spend more and more time with Mr. Ames, and the two of them begin a flirtation. It is entirely innocent to begin with, but over the course of the book grows increasingly serious.

Mrs. Ames sees what is going on and does her best to win her husband’s attention back, although, at the same time, she begins to wonder just how happy she is in her marriage. Her attempts to win back her husband’s affections provide some of the book’s uncomfortable comedy: she tries a wrinkle cream and colors her hair to get rid of the gray, but, sadly, her husband doesn’t notice and the women think she looks odd and see right through her attempts to regain youthfulness. It’s kind of pathetic, and yet perfectly understandable and sad.

In an effort to regain her place at the center of society that Mrs. Evans took away with her costume party, Mrs. Ames takes up the cause of women’s suffrage. Here’s where the book gets particularly interesting, and where the comic tone wavers a bit. Mrs. Ames began not caring at all about votes for women, only wanting to make a splash and force people to choose sides, but over time she finds she is genuinely concerned. The suffragist movement speaks to her vague feelings of dissatisfaction with her life and her marriage, and she sees that having greater independence and political involvement could bring a new meaning to life.

This part of the story climaxes in a scene where Mrs. Ames is forced to choose between, on the one hand, her loyalty to her husband and the codes of politeness she has spent her whole life blindly following, and, on the other, her new-found belief in votes for women. Her husband has invited a local politician to dinner, the very same man, unfortunately, that the suffragist group has decided to heckle during his speech later that day.

How Mrs. Ames resolves this dilemma and whether her unhappiness and her husband’s love affair will rip apart the social order provide the drama for the rest of the novel. I enjoyed the book very much, although it’s the book’s unevenness of tone that, strangely, made me like it: I found it fascinating that Benson was willing to take the story in a darker direction than anything in Queen Lucia, even if it disrupted the tone of light comedy established earlier in the book. The novel’s portrayal of women’s fight for the vote is mixed, but Benson does write some moving passages about Mrs. Ames’s self-awakening, and he is far from dismissive of her unhappiness. So, while this may not be a brilliant novel, it’s an entertaining, funny one that offers much that’s serious to think about. show less

Mrs. Ames by E.F. Benson is a meaty little novel. It was written in 1912 and takes place in a small English village. Mrs. Ames is the social leader and arbiter of taste. Her cousin Millie has moved to town with husband Dr. Evans. There are daring outdoor costume parties, dinner parties where only a husband or wife is invited, and other food for the gossip mills and grease for the social machine.

The language is exquisite. Benson’s writing is formal almost to the point of being hard to read, but once you figure out a sentence, its rightness and take on a situation are apparent. He slyly makes fun of the people he’s writing about and presents their strengths and weaknesses in a strong light.

“He was not worth argument: you could only show more really argue with the enlightened people who fundamentally agreed with you…”

“Harry had communicated the interesting fact of his passion for Mrs. Evans to the Omar Khayyam Club, and was, of course, bound to prosecute his nefarious intrigue. He had already written several galloping lyrics, a little loose in grammar and rhyme, to his enchantress, which he had copied into a small green morocco notebook, the title page of which he had inscribed as “Dedicated to M.E.”. This looked a Narcissus-like proceeding to anyone who did not remember what Mrs. Evans initials were.”

“Arrayed in a very low collar, which showed the full extent of his rather scraggy neck, and adorned with a red tie, for socialism was no less an orthodoxy in the club than atheistic principles and illicit love, he set secretly out, and had the good fortune to find the goddess alone, and was welcomed with that rather timid, childlike deference that he had found so adorable before.”

One more: “Major Ames sighed; his lumbago felt less acute, his ill temper had found relief in words, and he had long ago discovered that women had no sense of humour. On the whole, it was gratifying to find the truth of this so amply endorsed. For the moment it put him into quite a good temper.”

The formal and to us old-fashioned style of writing and the small-town social aspect tend to obscure some rather important points. First, the Suffragette movement is starting up in England and several of the ladies in the town are involved. There’s a romantic involvement that could potentially ruin two households. There is some enlightenment among the characters, and some definite growth and change.

All in all an excellent read. It makes me want to read more of E.F. Benson. He produced over 100 works - novels, short stories, non-fiction, and autobiography, so I have a lot to choose from. show less