Lucinda Williams

This memoir is as honest and no-frills as the songwriter herself. Her background, with a mother with mental illness and a mercurial poet father, sends Lucinda into the arms of many "poets on motorcycles", "cultural chameleons capable of jaw-dropping magic", the good bad boys or bad good boys, who fill her songbook. She loves to travel, feels comfortable commuting between LA, Nashville, and New Orleans. She didn't come into her fame until her forties, being "too rock for country and too show more country for rock". The song lyrics she includes in the book are lyrical poems, and to hear them sung in her gravel hard voice is to feel how her heart beats along with yours.

Quotes: "I think a lot of my decisions back then were fear-based. I had to grow through different levels of my work. I had trouble communicating what I felt and heard in my head. I wanted to rock before I was able to."

" It takes enormous fortitude to create the work in the first place, but then once it's time to put it out into the world, the confidence required to go public is unrelated to the audacity that created the work." show less

I've been a fan of Lucinda Williams for 25 years or so, and she's certainly an artist I wanted to learn more about. This memoir has been described as "honest and raw" and I'd say that's on the mark. She's certainly open about her own faults and vulnerabilities, as well as the many times she's been discarded or marginalized by men in the music industry. You'll learn how she grew up with a schizophrenic mom and poet dad, and how her family dynamic affected her artistry and her relationships. show more You'll learn how this gifted songwriter was selling sausages and smoothies (and other odd jobs) well into her thirties because she'd yet to land her big break.

You'll learn about her time in Flannery O'Connor's house, how Rodney Crowell posted bail for her college-aged friends, how Steve Earle influenced her seminal album "Car Wheels on a Gravel Road", and how Rick Rubin - without malice - put her breakthrough album on hold for two years. She sheds some light on her brief, intense relationships with fellow musicians Ryan Adams and Paul Westerberg. And most importantly, she talks about what inspired so many of her truly hypnotic, poetic songs. Her insights and 'secrets' have transformed some of those songs for me, and given them even more layers of meaning.

I will say, I listened to Lu read this as an audiobook and her thick, slow New Orleans drawl takes some getting used to. You might want to listen to a sample before downloading the audiobook to make sure you will enjoy her speaking voice (vs. buying the hardback or digital book version). But her "voice" as a writer and storyteller is phenomenally strong, so don't pass up this book in whatever format if you enjoy Lucinda's music and want to know more about how she became the unique artist she grew into. show less

I'm not a fan of celebrity memoirs, but I love Lucinda Williams' music (she is one of only a few live concerts I've gone to in later life), so I picked this up. I know a lot of her songs pretty well, and what I probably liked best about this book was her descriptions of how and when she wrote the lyrics and what events in her life they related to and what people.

I also liked learning about her growing up years--she led a pretty peripatetic life in those years, with a father moving for a show more series of teaching jobs at colleges and schools, mostly in the the south, but with a couple of stints in LA, a year in Chile and a year in Mexico, until he finally got tenure at the University of Arkansas. Lucinda never graduated from high school, and in fact she was getting herself expelled from high school in New Orleans around 1968, after she and her friends spent their time wandering around New Orleans, uptown and in the Quarter. Around this time, I arrived in New Orleans to start college, and I like to think our paths might have crossed on the streetcar or the "Freret Jet" or in some coffee shop.

I also found interesting her experiences showing how difficult it was (and still might be) for a musician, particularly a female musician to control how they want their music to sound. By taking control of her "sound" Lucinda got labeled as "difficult." a label that a male artist probably would not have been given. After years of being overlooked, but constantly plugging away, years that shaped her music, Lucinda became an "overnight" success.

I would recommend this to Lucinda fans. show less

I hadn't heard of this singer/songwriter, but my husband had. I wanted to read this memoir as it had great reviews. Her story is interesting, how she bucked the norm and fought for her artistry. She makes no excuses for leading the life of a rock and roll star, the sex, drugs, and drinking. She discusses how she wanted control over her music and the sound produced. Her gamble eventually paid off, although in the male dominated world of the record industry, it was quite a struggle.
She also show more overcame childhood trauma due to her mother's mental illness and the need for acceptance from her father. I am glad she has finally found true love with her husband and is honored for her unique work.
Interesting life, quick read. show less