4L

Was Ingeborg to blame for what happened to Christopher and his mother?

no - if a 3rd party has to be blamed, it should be Harry. Both he and his wife were weak

She was a factor but not the entire blame.

Oh, to be young and not realize how your actions affect others........

I think the mother was unstable to begin with. My ex husband had an affair and the last thing I thought of was killing myself. Killing him, possibly, but good sense returned and I took it as a sign to move on.

>4 Olivermagnus: We are very glad for your good common sense:)

I would blame Harry more.

Ingeborg had to take her fair share of the blame. 'Youth' is no excuse for what she did, she knowingly and quite happily broke up a marriage.