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Please Look After Mom (2008)

by Kyung-sook Shin

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Follows the efforts of a family to find the mother who went missing from Seoul Station and their sobering realizations when they recall memories that suggest she may not have been happy.
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This book was a bit hard to get through because it was very slow. It's about a Korean family. The mother of the family is missing after a trip to Seoul. The mother suffers from dementia. She and her husband take a trip to Seoul on a train. Unfortunately, her husband gets on the train, but she gets caught up in the crowd and doesn't make it on the train. The story revolves around finding her, and how the loss affects her family. The family talks about their memories of her and how they feel about each other. It was a really good story. ( )
  tami317 | May 14, 2024 |
Nobody can go away from reading this book without deciding to treat his or her mother better, to listen to her when she talks, and to treasure her more. ( )
  siok | Apr 30, 2024 |
A very highly regarded and very well-reviewed book that, in the end, left me pretty much unaffected. Mom goes missing and the rest of the book is about her children and her husband as they reflect on Mom even as they search for her. Nothing exceptional, to my mind, about the recollections and stories, happy moments, regrets, etc. Disappointing. ( )
  Gypsy_Boy | Aug 26, 2023 |
I did not understand this book AT ALL. ( )
  blueskygreentrees | Jul 30, 2023 |
Not my kind of novel. Sappy. I’m sure there were some things I didn’t understand that would have made me appreciate it more. A lot of it was narrated in the 2nd person “You went to the house, then you walked in the door.” Nothing wrong really that I guess, but it was sometimes confusing, and got a little tedious. I did like that it was set in Korea, I suppose if it had been the same basic novel but set in the US with Americans I would’ve quit reading it after a few chapters. Supposedly it was a massive hit in Korea… but then there are plenty of immensely popular books here that I have no interest in either. ( )
  steve02476 | Jan 3, 2023 |
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In an odd way this brilliant book reminds me of Natsume Sōseki's 夏目漱石 (1867–1916) novel Kokoro こころ (1914). Natsume laments how much the Japanese lost in their mad rush to modernize during the Meiji period (1868–1912). Ms. Shin asks the same questions of Koreans a century later.
added by sgump | editSoutheast Review of Asian Studies, Daniel A. Métraux (Dec 31, 2012)
 
Penitence is, after all, this book’s whole point. Characters’ eyes begin watering, pooling with tears, brimming over, etc., as each one has the chance to realize that Mom was a treasure. (Bonus sobbing cue: Nobody knew that Mom was secretly working at an orphanage in her spare time.) Mom’s children start to see how wrong it was to abandon ancestral traditions for their busy, newfangled, heartless, stressed-out city lives.
 
An enormous publishing success in South Korea, this simple portrait of a family shocked into acknowledging the strength and heroic self-sacrifice of the woman at its center is both universal and socially specific.
added by Shortride | editKirkus Reviews (Jan 1, 2011)
 

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O love, so long as you can love. - Franz Liszt
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It's been one week since Mom went missing.
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Since you heard about Mom's disappearance, you haven't been able to focus on a single thought, besieged by long-forgotten memories unexpectedly popping up. And the regret that always trailed each memory.
”Did you like being in the kitchen? Did you like to cook?” Mom's eyes held yours for a moment. “I don't like or dislike the kitchen. I cooked because I had to. I had to stay in the kitchen so you could all eat and go to school. How could you only do what you like? There are things you have to do whether you like it or not.” Mom's expression asked, What kind of question is that? And then she murmured, “If you only do what you like, who's going to do what you don't like?”
The thing your wife said to you most frequently, ever since you met her when you were twenty, was to walk more slowly. How could you have not gone slower, when your wife asked you to slow down your entire lives? You'd stopped and waited for her, but you'd never walked next to her, conversing with her, as she wanted – not even once. Since your wife has gone missing, your heart feels as if it will explode every time you think about your fast gait.
If I can't live like Mom, how could she have wanted to live like that? Why did this thought never occur to me when she was with us? Even though I'm her daughter, I had no idea, so how alone must she have felt with other people? How unfair is it that all she did was sacrifice everything for us, and she wasn't understood by anyone?
One woman. That woman disappeared, bit by bit, having forgotten the joy of being born and her childhood and dreams, marrying before her first period and having five children and raising them. The woman who, at least when it came to her children, wasn't surprised or thrown off by anything. The woman whose life was marred with sacrifice until the day she went missing.
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