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Loading... Please Look After Mom (2008)by Kyung-sook Shin
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Sign up for LibraryThing to find out whether you'll like this book. No current Talk conversations about this book. This book was a bit hard to get through because it was very slow. It's about a Korean family. The mother of the family is missing after a trip to Seoul. The mother suffers from dementia. She and her husband take a trip to Seoul on a train. Unfortunately, her husband gets on the train, but she gets caught up in the crowd and doesn't make it on the train. The story revolves around finding her, and how the loss affects her family. The family talks about their memories of her and how they feel about each other. It was a really good story. ( ) A very highly regarded and very well-reviewed book that, in the end, left me pretty much unaffected. Mom goes missing and the rest of the book is about her children and her husband as they reflect on Mom even as they search for her. Nothing exceptional, to my mind, about the recollections and stories, happy moments, regrets, etc. Disappointing. Not my kind of novel. Sappy. I’m sure there were some things I didn’t understand that would have made me appreciate it more. A lot of it was narrated in the 2nd person “You went to the house, then you walked in the door.” Nothing wrong really that I guess, but it was sometimes confusing, and got a little tedious. I did like that it was set in Korea, I suppose if it had been the same basic novel but set in the US with Americans I would’ve quit reading it after a few chapters. Supposedly it was a massive hit in Korea… but then there are plenty of immensely popular books here that I have no interest in either.
In an odd way this brilliant book reminds me of Natsume Sōseki's 夏目漱石 (1867–1916) novel Kokoro こころ (1914). Natsume laments how much the Japanese lost in their mad rush to modernize during the Meiji period (1868–1912). Ms. Shin asks the same questions of Koreans a century later. Penitence is, after all, this book’s whole point. Characters’ eyes begin watering, pooling with tears, brimming over, etc., as each one has the chance to realize that Mom was a treasure. (Bonus sobbing cue: Nobody knew that Mom was secretly working at an orphanage in her spare time.) Mom’s children start to see how wrong it was to abandon ancestral traditions for their busy, newfangled, heartless, stressed-out city lives. An enormous publishing success in South Korea, this simple portrait of a family shocked into acknowledging the strength and heroic self-sacrifice of the woman at its center is both universal and socially specific. AwardsDistinctionsNotable Lists
Follows the efforts of a family to find the mother who went missing from Seoul Station and their sobering realizations when they recall memories that suggest she may not have been happy. No library descriptions found. |
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