My Rainbow

"Aloving mother helps her daughter express herself and feel like a rainbow.

Trinity, an autistic, Black, transgender girl wishes she had long hair. But growing it out is a struggle because she hates hair touching her neck. Seeing her daughter’s sadness, Trinity’s mom, a Black cisgender woman with natural hair cropped close, listens to Trinity’s concerns. At first, she tries to reassure Trinity that girls can wear their hair short, but Trinity still doesn’t feel happy. Honoring the truth that Trinity knows herself best, Trinity’s mom puts her love and devotion into creating a curly, teal, pink, and purple wig for Trinity, with some help from Trinity’s older sibling. Richly colored and invitingly detailed full-spread show more illustrations that complement the story’s title and theme accompany the text. The narrative centers a Black family whose members are depicted in the illustrations with skin that is a range of rich browns. In the midst of Trinity’s struggle with her gender expression, her mom models listening and affirmation. She acknowledges that her own experiences with societal expectations of gender expression as a cisgender woman are different from Trinity’s. Even as the story shifts to show Trinity’s cisgender mother’s perspective, Trinity’s feelings remain the focus and her happiness the motivation. Apart from the use of person-first language (“kids with autism”) instead of identity-first language, Neal and Neal emphasize that all aspects of Trinity’s identity deserve celebration and make her a masterpiece. (This book was reviewed digitally with 10.8-by-17-inch double-page spreads viewed at 60.9% of actual size.)

A revolutionary representation of joy and self-expression. (Picture book. 4-7)" www.kirkusreviews.com, A Kirkus Starred Review show less

Colorful, busy, even a bit overwhelming to me. Probably overwhelmingly joyful and affirming to anyone who feels represented by the character here, which could potentially be lots of people.

Warm, cute, inclusive story.
Part of my adult brain questions if there aren't too many buzz issues in this story (about a black girl, with autism and transgender), on the other hand, it has a certain warm and genuine feel about it.
Vibrant illustrations, with lots of humor (look for the piggy).

I received a copy for review through Edelweiss, opinions are entirely my own.

Warm morning sunlight and love fill the Neal home. And on one quiet day, playtime leads to an important realization:Trinity wants long hair like her dolls. She needs it to express who she truly is.

So her family decides to take a trip to the beauty supply store, but none of the wigs is the perfect fit. Determined, Mom leaves with bundles of hair in hand, ready to craft a wig as colorful and vibrant as her daughter is.

I liked this book, I loved how they made the way of the girl transforming and so beautiful. I think by giving her rainbow hair really grabs the attention of kids who love color.