Five Wishes: How Answering One Simple Question Can Make Your Dreams Come True

by Gay Hendricks

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How do dreams come true? Two decades ago, before he was an internationally acclaimed author and teacher, Gay Hendricks didn't know. In fact, he didn't even know what his deepest desires were. Then, when he least expected it - at a cocktail party - a question prompted an epiphany. The opposite of the small talk he dreaded at such gatherings, the simple question of a fellow partygoer was big enough to alter the course of Hendricks's personal, professional, and spiritual life. Hendricks shares show more that catalyzing conversation here, turning it into a powerful, step-by-step process that anyone can use to clarify their dreams, overcome the obstacles that stand in their way, and experience their joyful fulfillment. show less

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Okay, I haven't written a review for ages, but I need to justify why this book gets 5 stars. There are many other books on a similar vein out there, and I've read a few.
5 Wishes is simple, it is not contrived, and each step is plainly made and easily followed. Reading it I can feel some of what he is saying flow over me, and I'm getting those occasional twinges of excitement which are all too rare as I become more cynical. Reading 5 wishes let me be innocent again, and ready to accept the changes into my life I need to make so when I'm asked the question at the beginning, I can say "Yes."
If you're in a rut, read this book. If you are not feeling satisfied with life, read this book. If you are not totally happy and connected with show more yourself, with the joy of living and with the rest of creation, you need to read this book.
If you've just read this review and think it is sappy, then you most definitely need to read this book! And get that rod out of your arse! ;-)
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I checked this out at a friend's recommendation. Overall, I wan't too impressed. The framing conceit of the conversation at a party didn't work for me, and I felt a little too much "how wonderful am I." And the last chapter or so, where the author "just happens" to be inspired to make a movie, and the star "just happens" to be such a deep spiritual person that he's willing to share his insights, made me roll my eyes at the heavy handed marketing.

That said, I found this useful: "[A]ny significan incompletion acts like a boulder in a river. The river has to flow around it to get where it wants to go. One or two boulders may only hinder the flow, but pile up a few more and you start to dam the river. It doesn't take long for that dammed show more river to overflow its banks and get diverted toward a completely different destination.

"The way to get the flow going in the right direction again is by completing any significant incompletion. The act of completing something, particularly if it has an emotional charge, is a remarkably pwerful way to increase your abundance of love, money, health, and anything else that's important to you." (p.44)

This rings intuitively true to me, and I'm trying to act on it.
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A professor of counseling for 21 years in the school of education at the University of Colorado, Gay Hendricks earned his doctorate degree from Stanford University in 1974. Originally trained as a traditional psychologist, a life-altering experience caused Hendricks to rethink his approach to healing patients. Adopting a body-mind integration show more theory, Hendricks opened the Hendricks Institute to teach people core skills for conscious living. Hendricks is the author of over 20 books in the field of education, transpersonal psychology, and centering, including Conscious Breathing, The Centering Book, Learning to Love Yourself, and At the Speed of Life. His work has also been mentioned or reviewed in numerous magazines and newspapers, including Self, GQ, Psychology Today, Yoga Journal, USA Today, and the Edmonton Journal. (Bowker Author Biography) show less

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Nonfiction, General Nonfiction
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158.1Philosophy and PsychologyPsychologyApplied psychologyPersonal improvement and analysis
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BF637 .S8 .H39Philosophy, Psychology and ReligionPsychologyPsychologyApplied psychology
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