Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay: A Step-by-Step Guide to Help You Decide Whether to Stay In or Get Out of Your Relationship

OK, I was desperate to get some clarity on the exact issue that this book is about, and even though it was published in 1997(!! more than 20 years ago!) it was the only option, so I checked it out and read it.

Mira Kirshenbaum was clearly very good at her job, and everything she wrote about in this book was so true and real. I was crying all throughout the introduction because she understood what I was going through and how deadly ambivalence can be.

She never guides you to a specific answer but provides plenty of questions, examples, and stories to help you get there.

A chapter by chapter pro and con book about your relationship.

Overall, if you're sitting on the fence, this book will bring up questions you should ask yourself.

Ultimately, relationships are messy. And I don't think any book is good at covering that.

Would also recommend, The Good Marriage, my favorite self-help book that's not really a self-help book for relationships.

I read this about 10 years ago when I was with someone other than my husband. I remember that it was not worth the time spent reading it--not very helpful.

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